I actually wifed a bunch of book smart women whom have no common sense. That shyt is very frustrating
This greatly pains me. Very book smart but nothing too useful in real world scenarios.
Has your intelligence ever affected your relationships?
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This greatly pains me. Very book smart but nothing too useful in real world scenarios.
nah, I think of myself to be half street half book smart, I date girls from rouge scholars to dumb as rock bytches, as long as they look good idgaf, it's not like I'm tryna wife
Your street side half must've made this post....
nah, I think of myself to be half street half book smart, I date girls from rouge scholars to dumb as rock bytches, as long as they look good idgaf, it's not like I'm tryna wife
No you don't
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
not so much intelligence. the greatest differences i've experienced or had to deal with were cultural differences. it seems like every woman i've been with i've never had to alter my "intelligence" level or dumb down myself nor have i ever felt that they've had to dumb themselves down either. it's more like we'd both have to open ourselves up in a way where we were trying to be conscious and understand exactly what we would say to each other...
I couldn't date anyone , seriously or not, who didn't have at least above average intelligence. We just wouldn't vibe. Our conversations would be pretty limited and I'd be 
in my head.
All the women I've ever loved have been cool, overachieving nerdy chicks who just had a natural thirst for knowledge.
in my head.All the women I've ever loved have been cool, overachieving nerdy chicks who just had a natural thirst for knowledge.
Broke Wave
The GOAT
I feel what ya'll are saying. I don't mean that the person gotta be "conventionally intelligent", because I feel like everyone has something they specialize in, but I'm talking about people who are just "vacant" intellectually, as in they are not interested in anything other than the bare minimum aesthetic and superficial things.
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
in that case, no, i can't deal with people like that...
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Yes. My first girlfriend was smart/as smart as me.
Unfortunately, most overly pretty women are not that intelligent, so the past couple of ones have been
at some points.
But I don't really judge people by their intellectual status so I didn't/don't mind. No biggie
Unfortunately, most overly pretty women are not that intelligent, so the past couple of ones have been
at some points.But I don't really judge people by their intellectual status so I didn't/don't mind. No biggie
I used to play down my intelligence for women back in grade school, but now I honestly don't even speak to girls I don't consider my intellectual/academic peers. Not out of arrogance, I'm just saving both of us time and energy, cuz I know it's not going to go well. The last time I tried, the girl got frustrated because of my vocabulary/grammar and when I told her I was a poet she was likeand said "don't you mean you're a rapper?
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Can't go back to that after going off to college and meeting girls who can discuss Marxism, race relations, gender roles, current affairs, the arts, and so forth at the drop of a dime
Your street side half must've made this post....
No never. Women generally arent going to be able to match my intelligence and honestly i dont want to have political and overly intellectual conversations with women. I keep it light and talk about things that involve feelings and human interaction if i want to get deep. If we need to talk something a little more heavy we can talk about money which is a language most people understand or need to be educated on. I like them a little bubbly. Its like working with a clean slate. A woman i can turn into a female version, of myself.
*marvels at how good my girl is with a knife now*
*marvels at how good my girl is with a knife now*
Broke Wave
The GOAT
yeah you just adapt nikka, plus some chicks ain't trynna talking about the Canada's bloated healthcare budget in a bar
I actually wifed a bunch of book smart women whom have no common sense. That shyt is very frustrating
This.
No never. Women generally arent going to be able to match my intelligence and honestly i dont want to have political and overly intellectual conversations with women. I keep it light and talk about things that involve feelings and human interaction if i want to get deep. If we need to talk something a little more heavy we can talk about money which is a language most people understand or need to be educated on. I like them a little bubbly. Its like working with a clean slate. A woman i can turn into a female version, of myself.
*marvels at how good my girl is with a knife now*
I understand what you saying but i disagree.
The shyt im into takes a certain level of intelligence to speak on. And I refuse to dumb myself down to talk to anyone seriously. We can chill have fun and all that but i cant be serious with a chick that i have to explain everything to...you are not my fukkin child.
Its personally the biggest issue i have with females i might fukk around and start talking about the Syrian Regime or parlay with my nikkas about war tactics or some shyt while she might sit there like
Everybody isnt into everything but if im not learning from her and she not learning from me then the relationship is fukked from jump.
The problem is being "smart" isn't the cool shyt among the ethnic communities (sans Asian). I'll sacrifice being colloquial with 80% of the population if it means i get a chick thats EXACTLY what i want mentally...
i mean hell, the fact that people are debating shyt on the Coli (in most cases) objectively places you in a cut above the average nikka. Most ho's cant even articulate why they like meek millz
