Have you ever been cheated on?

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Most men never see it coming, women emotionally detach, weeks, months in advance, that's why when its over it's over. They have already thought it through, talked about it with their mom, or close girls. Kind of like a job when they are letting you go, the yknow about it days, weeks, months in advance, and then call you into the offce with the paperwork already written up and let you go, you never saw it coming, you did everything right you were there for years a hard worker but sorry just not the right fit.

Its why your girl can text you every day, say i love you raul then when she finally detaches she know longer needs you thats when she's ready to break up with you. Which is why many women return to cheaters, they have not emotionally detached yet so breaking up is extremely hard to do. And yep more than likely she had another guy in her sights, as like a monkey they swing from tree to tree

thats so true cuz i remember when she left her ass already had a car, a place, and new guy
so it was a easy transition for her while I'm over here like :to:
 

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thats so true cuz i remember when she left her ass already had a car, a place, and new guy
so it was a easy transition for her while I'm over here like :to:

i've had it happened to me as well breh, the funny thing i was dating this girl for like 7 months everythign was going great, always at her place etc. then one day i was in her room and i noticed the picture of me and her that she always had by her bedside was no longer there. And it was always there :whoo:, these little subtle signs i never picked up, i got them thangs dropped on me like a few days later :to:
 

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Right. Especially if yall are /were happy while the homegirls themselves were single.

Ironically it seems like the only time women don't listen to these hoes is when their nikka is actually cheating on her.

Real shyt more and more I think cheating on your woman is the way to go when it comes to my generation. I've maybe seen 2 relationships that lasted 3+ years without the dude stepping out and providing their chick the "excitement" of playing detective trying to catch him.

It's like when you follow the script, they don't respect you.

Yup Ive Seen this too in college. Its almost like these birds LOVE the drama that comes with fukking a guy who fukks alot of girls. Its like they love the storyline even more than the guy.

But hey, dont go off doing the wrong thing cuz of a bunch of bird brain females. Jus find ya self a good one and treat her right. fukk all the new gen games and mindtricks bullshyt. Jus treat the hoes like hoes and the queens like queens.
 

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this gonna probably sound like an angry response maybe it is

but the one thing that really pisses me off is the complaining i want a good guy too treat me right and blah blah this and blah blah that

and when they do and we as a men do you right and go above and beyond for u through the worse times. they go head get docked down like it aint shyt and come home smiling too u like shyt aint happen

then as time go buy even if the signs dont show they outta the blue I'm leaving you with some of the dumbest excuse like its not you its me

like we dont realize that shyt off the bat and if we dont we sit their wondering where did i go wrong what did i not do and question ourself when we shouldn't and then she moves on all happy for that time being

while our heart is shattered in pieces like a puzzle while we try too put it back together then some wonder y some good guys become a$$holes

(this does not apply too all females for those reading and this could be a vice versa also and the male doing that too a female)
 

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i've had it happened to me as well breh, the funny thing i was dating this girl for like 7 months everythign was going great, always at her place etc. then one day i was in her room and i noticed the picture of me and her that she always had by her bedside was no longer there. And it was always there :whoo:, these little subtle signs i never picked up, i got them thangs dropped on me like a few days later :to:

sometimes the good one's won't show signs cuz they got that experience of doing it several times and its like a damn video game when u get game over it happens and its done and u trying too figure wtf happened how and when :manny:
 

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this gonna probably sound like an angry response maybe it is

but the one thing that really pisses me off is the complaining i want a good guy too treat me right and blah blah this and blah blah that

and when they do and we as a men do you right and go above and beyond for u through the worse times. they go head get docked down like it aint shyt and come home smiling too u like shyt aint happen

then as time go buy even if the signs dont show they outta the blue I'm leaving you with some of the dumbest excuse like its not you its me

like we dont realize that shyt off the bat and if we dont we sit their wondering where did i go wrong what did i not do and question ourself when we shouldn't and then she moves on all happy for that time being

while our heart is shattered in pieces like a puzzle while we try too put it back together then some wonder y some good guys become @ssholes

(this does not apply too all females for those reading and this could be a vice versa also and the male doing that too a female)

people always think they can do better, what they have has become stale and mundane and instead of spicing it up see ya, it always amazes me for both genders folks will forget that their previous 5 relationships their partner cheated on them and cheated them like crap then they finally got a nice faithful person and suddenly think that the world is filled with them and they are easy to obtain.
 

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if someone cheats on you they don't respect you, and even if you forgive and take them back they will cheat on you again because there is no consequence for their action, Plus you will always be wondering whats happening when they dont text back right away, or they cancel like gator I can't make it tonight something came up, or driving by their house and see a car in front and thinking :damn:


and for the second part eh, when i was engaged and broke off the engagement(not due to cheating ) i had to tell everyone on my side of the family i never told them why just made up some bs how we were moving to fast bla bla reg pc ish.


that is such a good point

id just have to cut the bish off completely then

no words

fukk her, mane

and yeah id tell them the same tbh

but they so close on social media and whatnot it would be so awk

im like close to her mother and her sister :damn: and everyone else
 

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Right. Especially if yall are /were happy while the homegirls themselves were single.

Ironically it seems like the only time women don't listen to these hoes is when their nikka is actually cheating on her.

Real shyt more and more I think cheating on your woman is the way to go when it comes to my generation. I've maybe seen 2 relationships that lasted 3+ years without the dude stepping out and providing their chick the "excitement" of playing detective trying to catch him.

It's like when you follow the script, they don't respect you.

sadly it does seem somewhat true.

also for abusive relationship.

It just seems some women just love the drama. I'm sure we all know a guy whose cheating on his girl and she knows and keeps taking him back, or a girl who keeps being cheated on but keeps returning time and time again.

while you can be a faithful dude but viewed as a sucker

messed up world we live in
 

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Yep. I was blind sided. We were seriously talking about getting married. I had no idea until I caught him slipping on some "butt dial" BS. Heard the whole convo so I rolled up over his crib and sure enough...

He begged and begged for me to come back. But I didn't have any respect for him as a man.
 
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