Have you ever dated a stupid person?

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Not really... i prefer educated women but as long as they are a good woman with some brains that's ok

 

[Astroslik]

Like most women, you overestimate yourself considerably

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I don’t think so- it’s so awkward when you’re at a function and someone’s tagalong says something so incredibly dumb that everyone’s giving each other looks and holding back laughter
Like “this you huh”

I have had fantasies of a hunk himbo but it never bears out in reality. Soon as they talk about not believing in dinosaurs I get the Kanye stone face.

idk, never been in that situation. i have a LOT of dumb friends though so i don't judge at all lolol. but it's seems worse when it's in the relationship itself. you can be having a discussion and they think i'm using my professional skills to outwit them or some shyt and throw my job in my face. i'm like....I'm speaking common sense

 

[MajesticLion]

The way my sarcasm is set up...

 

[Yinny]

Yes. Early 2000s au naturale neosoul India arie type brehette. Emotionally intelligent but I had to entertain her horoscope and her crystal energy bullshyt.


I was embarrassing when she'd talk about it around my friends


I was young

LMAO but it's so fun!

But was she actually stupid elsewhere or into stuff you don't care for? I refer to it affectionately as "stro babble," find it fun- but I'm not really familiar with the crystals and burning stuff. Would def be manifesting my millions though

 

[Yinny]

Smashed a few, all "college educated". One thought that all black people in the world use to be slaves, another was mind blown when she found out that pickles used to be cucumbers, qnd one who didnt know that Haiti and DR share the same island.

Doughn't get me started on that group (males incl), I'll be respectful.

Did you bush them after the offense, however?

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Lmao how you gonna tell me about your life then chastise me for drawing inference on what you said.


Being manipulative and emotionally distressful isn't outsmarting anyone.

Check y'all's egos ladies

ok. well i will also give you a general life lesson. some women are smarter than some men. deal with it. i hope if/when your daughter tells you she is smarter than her boyfriend, you don't let your ego get the best of her.

 

[desjardins]

only normal dumb hood chicks
like went to inner city non magnet public school level dumb
that's to say not REALLY dumb, like has the potential to learn, but kind of uneducated on certain shyt
like they probably couldn't explain how evolution worked or didn't know the difference between affect and effect

 

[Big Blue]

Being stupid is a deal breaker for me At one point I had to give myself a rule. No more MUAs or hairstylists.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

I dated a woman that wasn’t the brightest, but she was really kind, and that kinda cushioned the blow a little. It didn’t go anywhere because I just really like intelligent women.

 

[King Poetic]

1.one older teacher milf

this broad was asking me was the earth round or flat…


2. College chick years years ago.. broad thought a credit card was free and you didn’t have to pay shyt back.. broad ran up $1500 in a month got the statement and ask me why she had to pay the credit company $60 dollars

 

[Yinny]

I dated a woman that wasn’t the brightest, but she was really kind, and that kinda cushioned the blow a little. It didn’t go anywhere because I just really like intelligent women.

That kind of not bright is usually harmless and a bit endearing, happy even. There’s a particular kind that grates me but this thread is about you all.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

That kind of not bright is usually harmless and a bit endearing, happy even. There’s a particular kind that grates me but this thread is about you all.

Yeah. If you’re talking about someone so dumb that it’s hard to believe that they’ve made it this far in life than no. I wouldn’t even feel comfortable entertaining them.

 

[Yinny]

Yeah. If you’re talking about someone so dumb that it’s hard to believe that they’ve made it this far in life than no. I wouldn’t even feel comfortable entertaining them.

Not quite but noted. This is a more "passable" stupid.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

the ironic thing about this thread is the average person , even a genuinely stupid person, thinks they are smarter than everyone else

people also often confuse not being knowledgeable or being ignorant or acting dumb in certain contexts as being stupid

it's also hard to know how smart someone without some academic/scientific measure, measure of success, or test of "street smarts" in a specific context but that doesn't account for the people who hide or don't know how smart/gifted they truly are

however, a good amount of people lack the ability to learn, think in terms of, and apply higher level abstract concepts