Have you ever dated a woman who was raped/molested?

[Lweezy]

Most girls have been sexually abused. It's not just hood bytches, or internet hoes. This is not an issue of social class.

The girls that are constantly left unsupervised with the opposite sex are the ones that are abused. It's about access and opportunity. That's why perverts prey on single mothers.

I'm saying this to anyone in eyesight of this post....

Understand, Brothers rape and fondle their sisters. Cousins rape and fondle their cousins. Uncles. Family friends. Etc. All they need is opportunity. I'm sure some of them men posting and condemning the behavior in this thread have kissed, touched or molested a female relative. Have humped a cousin.

The truth is... young boys do it exploring their sexuality at a young age, and not knowing better. They just see a girl. They don't understand it's their sister or cousin. They are going through puberty and acting out sexual desires and confusion. And it doesn't help that boys aren't encouraged early to control themselves sexually. Especially young black boys. They are sexualized and hear it all in music. It is girks who are constantly told to dress a certain way or act a certain way to be treated with basic respect. (Misogyny)




I'm not normalizing it, but I'm saying this... DO NOT LEAVE YOUR DAUGHTERS ALONE WITH BOYS OR MEN EVER! Not even their own brothers! Explain to them early about "bad touch", and to not allow anyone to touch them in appropriately. And teach your sons early NOT to touch. And if it happens to tell YOU no matter what the predator says.


I'll tell you guys a story...

A font on LSA was sexually abused by her brother for years. He was only a few years older than her. Every time her mother would go to the store and leave them alone he would do it. He would force her to perform oral sex on him for candy and toys. She was far too young to understand what she was doing, or what was happening to her. It wasn't until she got older that she realized, and was severely damaged. She constantly suffered with throat infections as a child. Her mother didn't know what was going on. Clueless.
It was a very sad story, but I'm telling you.


It's closer to home than you think. You have to be attentive and PROACTIVE! You can't assume it won't happen to you or only certain people. And most importantly. NEVER LEAVE YOUR LITTLE GIRLS ALONE WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX. EVER. NOT EVEN FOR 10 minutes.

Your evidence of this is what? I define "most" as greater than 51 percent. If thats the case then 1 out 2 men posting in this thread is a rapist.

Of course you cannot prove that, even with the muddied ever changing vague definition of rape these days you still cant prove that assertion. Not even to a 51 percent preponderance of the evidence.

Feminists like you literally lob accusations out there and expect to be believed just because. Due process exists for a reason. Just because someone says so that does not make it so.

You are an ideologue and as such biased confirmed. You cannot and should never be taken seriously on this topic. In order for "I believe her" to be absolute then we must know for sure that woman dont lie.

Unfortunately, women lie. Some women fall out of bed lying. Too many examples to list and to many examples of non uniformity on this issue..but just for giggles Bill Cosby vs Bill Clinton. Nathan Parker vs Casey Affleck.

A guy is labeled a creep when a woman he approaches does not find him attractive. A guy is guilty of sexual harassment when the woman he stares at finds him repulsive. How do we know for sure this mechanism isnt in play in the case of sexual assault?

Confirmation bias confirmed. When female school teachers by definition, rape boys, you dont tell parents to keep female teachers within sight at all times.

When the number one abuser of children across the board (mothers) abuse children you dont tell us to keep all mothers within sight.

She regretted being "coerced" into sex with that guy or maybe she was drunk, either way he's a rapist. Even if he was drunk himself.

"I believe her "will result in more Brian Banks and Emit Tills on a biblical scale. Basically we will go right back into the past because we all know who will pay the piper with this measure. Hint: the same person its always been.

Until uniformity is enforced, until bias is removed and until women are incapable of lying then " I believe her" should never be the standard.

Im not saying that you werent raped. I just cant take your word for it unless you are able to provide a 60 percent burden of proof. As it should be.

 

[BlackDynamite310]

2 that I've known of. One in hs. she was a foster kid with a big ass booty. and we all know how that goes. He was a hoe but I can't knock her for it life fukked her up something serious.

Another when I was in college. I remember it so clearly we was getting it cracking and she was really into rough sex. first person I knew on that shyt at the time. anyway I remember I was hitting it from the back like really maxing out with the choke in stroke. And she burst into tears like screaming and sobbing something crazy. I shyt got soft instantly and stopped asked her what happened and shyt told me she had been raped by a older cousin in hs on some crazy shyt and she was so confused cuz it felt good but brought back bad memories. Man that shyt had me shook af. I slowly had to dip off seeing her after that.

 

[IgnorantDwayneWayne]

yea idk how someone goes about fact checking a rape story. especially since you'd pretty much be a dikk if she's telling the truth

I know plenty of women from both camps some in my family. Nobody can quantify how much "alot more than you think" is on the overall number but I know for damn sure a guy doesn't end up dating rape/molestation victims 70+% of the time without some intervention on their part bringing that bias on them.

TBH it feels like another case of nikkas not acknowledging the world outside of their hood + the hunch that the majority of posters here use online dating as their primary means of meeting women. Women who online date are by far the weirdest, craziest, sluttiest and most damaged girls I've ever fukked with. And among them 2 of them were the rape victims for sure 3 were so mental it wouldn't surprise me.

We got a 200+ page on POF women ffs, the bottom of the barrel for online dating.



Another confirmation bias, using women other dudes fukk and not knowing how he goes about finding these women. before hookup culture really became a norm, the cliche was that players only got p*ssy because they prey on insecure girls with daddy issues. it's easier and quicker to get intimate and dig out these secrets from women with heavy emotional baggage. If I'm lying I'm flying. but honestly unpacking that baggage just to fukk is not player at all.

It's like trying to make a statement on female sexuality using pornstars as an example

but maybe I'm just tripping off the term "dated". If it were "fukked"? who knows maybe it's higher. I don't get in that deep with every girl im trying to smash

who said anything about being " player" ? I didn't
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I said get a lot of p*ssy. It's a crazy idea I know but some people fukk a lot of girls and get to know them while they doing it's. After ya second or third time smashing if a chick feeling you she is gunna tell you her whole life story
And I'm not talking online bytches only in talking women I've met on college campuses/clubs/ their job or mine/ the bookstore/ from mutual friends/ teachers of my nephew/ nurses that work with my sisters/ etc. oh and from multiple states. Ohio/NC/ NV/FL/AL/VA/KS I've fukkec multiple women from all walks of life from all over the country. Guess what ?? A lot of them were raped/ molested by relatives/family friends/ ex boyfriends.

When I say "dated" I mean hung around with and alla that. Go get dinner. Smoke and fukk. Having convos. Meeting kids etc. Wasnt just smashing and dashing. Not 100% wifed up

 

[Kenny West]

who said anything about being " player" ? I didn't
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I said get a lot of p*ssy. It's a crazy idea I know but some people fukk a lot of girls and get to know them while they doing it's. After ya second or third time smashing if a chick feeling you she is gunna tell you her whole life story

I gave this a long thought....It's a idk from me. The bold depends on a lot of things. mostly me I guess and a lot depends on her plans for you . i'm a don't ask don't tell type nikka when I'm on my shyt. I'm not a therapist

But yea to me it's unrealistic for a nikka to claim to really know every girl he fukks, don't you have flings? One night stands? Short term relationships?

Dudes be getting married to broads with whole second lives and hidden pasts but nikkas who pipe a bytch twice a week for a month claims to know her inside and out. I fukkING GUESS

And I'm not talking online bytches only in talking women I've met on college campuses/clubs/ their job or mine/ the bookstore/ from mutual friends/ teachers of my nephew/ nurses that work with my sisters/ etc. oh and from multiple states. Ohio/NC/ NV/FL/AL/VA/KS I've fukkec multiple women from all walks of life from all over the country. Guess what ?? A lot of them were raped/ molested by relatives/family friends/ ex boyfriends.

When I say "dated" I mean hung around with and alla that. Go get dinner. Smoke and fukk. Having convos. Meeting kids etc. Wasnt just smashing and dashing. Not 100% wifed up

Fair enough. I'm not gonna deny you your experiences.

However if what you say is true (that most chicks will unload that type of baggage in 3 fukks) then I'm doubling on calling bs to your first post I fukked women from diff walks of life and yea, that over 50% thing hasn't been my experience.

I gotta say though the states you dropped is a rough looking group. Bama, florida, NC....Was the NV Vegas?

 

[Swirv]

This is why you can't judge these women who are promiscuous because you don't know what made them that way.



Protect our women

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

This is why you can't judge these women who are promiscuous because you don't know what made them that way.



Protect our women

why cant you judge them? getting molested wasnt their fault....but slutting around and collecting massive amounts of baggage that they dump on the men they eventually settle down with is in fact their fault

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

This thread is sad

I feel like OP is making a mockery out of this. Smh

 

[Actually6Foot3]

From my experince the girls that were the biggest "hoes" had been raped in their past. Ive messed around with a couple. I was with one chic that was always horny and always wanted to do shyt like choke her, scratch her, pull her hair. I think she even told me to hit her one time during sex

She later told me about her past



But man was her headgame good

 

[Black]

Yes all of them

 

[Reggie]

Yes I have and most times women who have been raped or molested at a young age or either some straight up ho's or are extremely needy and clingy for whatever reason.

 

[Swirv]

why cant you judge them? getting molested wasnt their fault....but slutting around and collecting massive amounts of baggage that they dump on the men they eventually settle down with is in fact their fault

People deal with pain in different and unhealthy ways when they don't know how to get through it.

Sexual abuse can kill a person's spirit and alter their entire life.

Have you ever been sexually abused Breh?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

People deal with pain in different and unhealthy ways when they don't know how to get through it.

Sexual abuse can kill a person's spirit and alter their entire life.

Have you ever been sexually abused Breh?

yes as a matter of fact i have been....

yes it changed my life...i withdrew....and many years later it still has effects i deal with

but i also didnt go out and molest/rape/smash every woman that comes into contact with me

we all have choices breh and we need to stop making excuses for shytty behavior

 

[Swirv]

yes as a matter of fact i have been....

yes it changed my life...i withdrew....and many years later it still has effects i deal with

but i also didnt go out and molest/rape/smash every woman that comes into contact with me

we all have choices breh and we need to stop making excuses for shytty behavior

I'm happy to hear you've been dealing with the experience positively as best you can.

for some people it doesn't go like that. They take all kinds of substances or engage in risky behavior to suppress the pain or try to forget. Or even believe that being promiscuous is how they should be now.

When a child is abused it tends to warp their mind and program in a negative way. Especially if they don't get the necessary help to cope and deal with their emotions. Sometimes people don't know any better until they're shown. When you know better you do better.

 

[IgnorantDwayneWayne]

I gave this a long thought....It's a idk from me. The bold depends on a lot of things. mostly me I guess and a lot depends on her plans for you . i'm a don't ask don't tell type nikka when I'm on my shyt. I'm not a therapist

But yea to me it's unrealistic for a nikka to claim to really know every girl he fukks, don't you have flings? One night stands? Short term relationships?

Dudes be getting married to broads with whole second lives and hidden pasts but nikkas who pipe a bytch twice a week for a month claims to know her inside and out. I fukkING GUESS




Fair enough. I'm not gonna deny you your experiences.

However if what you say is true (that most chicks will unload that type of baggage in 3 fukks) then I'm doubling on calling bs to your first post I fukked women from diff walks of life and yea, that over 50% thing hasn't been my experience.

I gotta say though the states you dropped is a rough looking group. Bama, florida, NC....Was the NV Vegas?

If you think those states have only rough looking women then you haven't been to em lol. It's sexy bytches in every state b. Any breh who has lived in NC will tell you it's sexy af outchea. And yea I lived in Vegas for a year and some change.

I didn't say I knew every aspect of their life, just the condensed version of their life story. Where they from. Their scumbag ex. Their job woes/stress/stories. Their rape/molesation stories.

Idk maybe bytches don't open up to you like that b. I don't ask shyt and I typically just fake it like I'm interested or surprised at their stories. "Oh word!!?/ That's crazy boo!! /Damn tragic! /Wtf why would he/she do you like that !? "

 

[Kenny West]

If you think those states have only rough looking women then you haven't been to em lol. It's sexy bytches in every state b. Any breh who has lived in NC will tell you it's sexy af outchea. And yea I lived in Vegas for a year and some change.

Not really what I meant. the places you mentioned have a lot of factors that correlate with high rape/molestation. Including

-Low income areas (NC, AL, FL, OH)
- Rural (AL, FL, NC, VA)
-Known for sex workers (NV, FL)

Like if you said that you lived in vegas in that first post, your perspective would have made perfect sense to me. You better not tell me next that the FL location was miami.

A dude lives in 2 of the biggest hot spots in the US for prostitution and claims the majority of women are rape victims coincidence?

I didn't say I knew every aspect of their life, just the condensed version of their life story. Where they from. Their scumbag ex. Their job woes/stress/stories. Their rape/molesation stories.

Idk maybe bytches don't open up to you like that b. I don't ask shyt and I typically just fake it like I'm interested or surprised at their stories. "Oh word!!?/ That's crazy boo!! /Damn tragic! /Wtf why would he/she do you like that !? "

The bold is the benefit of the doubt I'm giving this whole thing. Even though it's not really true, I'm not gonna rule out the possibility that some girls I talked to may have it happen and I didn't know/didn't stay around long enough to find out.

This is just me being polite, because honestly the idea that "they don't open up to me" but they still open their legs and unload other types of baggage is goofy as shyt. Not to mention that the ones I know for sure have told me pretty earlyish.


But whatever