Have you ever left a good woman?

[Fiji Water]

Absolutely. More than once. I wasnt in love with them anymore.

 

[Sniper]

What’s her IG?

@dikkinyomouth

 

[The ADD]

You ain’t with her so she’s free game

 

[The ADD]

@dikkinyomouth

 

[In The Zone '98]

She wasn't good for me

 

[Heafcliffe]

Despite never being in an official relationship, there was a young lady in college:

-Beautiful
-Wholesome, warm
-Great family
-Supported me (begrudgingly) during my relationships without leading on
-Cooked/ Cleaned
-Highly educated
-Great conversationalist
-We had bonafide good times.

When she laid out her feelings, I immaturely didn't respond appropriately (though I felt many things for her) and we became distant. Few folks informed me that it affected her mentally.

I reached out years later. By this time, discovered she had a failed marriage. We met for lunch and I could tell something was "off." She told me that I disappointed her. She wished we could've been together so she didn't have to waste her time with her ex-husband. I legit felt bad bc I could see her pain was authentic. Not frantic. No "I dodged a bullet" type of situation. She was... hurt.

Before we parted for the afternoon, she said this would be the last time I'd ever see her... and it was. At the time, I was left on . Many lessons were learned during my early 20s.

 

[twan83]

If so do you regret it?

Na cuz I wasn’t ready to settle down still wanted to have my cake and eat it and I didn’t wanna cheat so I let her go

 

[Crayola Coyote]

If she was “good” I would have stayed

 

[Redwood]

I was real suspicious at the time a couple of years back, so I'm sure plenty had back off

 

[Giselle]

Yes I did and there’s a reason why I left.

And things wouldn’t have changed so so even if I did regret it, I know that the issues would still exist if we were still together.

What did you want to change?

 

[Giselle]

Yep. She fixed the issues that we were having, as did I, and I spint the block. Got her back.

What were the issues?

 

[Kurt off them percs]

If she was, I wouldn't have left

 

[Giselle]

Define good

Imo, good means good on paper. There’s nothing wrong with them in general, but you just might not like them for some reason

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Yes.

Just because it doesn’t work out between you and the woman doesn’t mean she was a bad woman. That’s an immature way of looking at relationships; where when something doesn’t pan out in your favor, it’s because the person was bad.

People are different and are coming from different lives, different baggage. Reconciliation requires not only effort but a little bit of wisdom to see beyond the bullshyt. Most of the times you have that knowledge from past “failures”

I suspect that’s why a lot of people in the thread are asking for a definition of “good”

If you don’t know what the fukk “good” means to you and how to recognize a “good” woman or haven’t had any around you…

 

[King_Kamala61]

my grandma RIP.

if im being completely honest, even my mom’s said some unspeakable shyt to me but maybe i just need to get over it tbh. she sacrifices a lot

but strangers? romantically? nah

edit: i read as “met”


damn

and you still keep in contact with your mama? This is why these mama's never learn...you gotta say fukk them and never see them again.

I haven't given my mama shyt since 7th grade and don't plan on seeing her alive ever again.

We hold grudges round these here parts