Have You Ever REFUSED The Friendzone?

[GodinDaFlesh]

Having female friends is a waste of time if you're single IMO. It usually ends up with them asking for a shytload of favors. Plus all that energy you spend with them could have been spent looking for someone who wants to be more than friends with you.

 

[At30wecashout]

You back

Yea, was bored on my break and decided to check the coli since I last saw it in February or so. Gotta comb through my inbox later.

Choice is such a powerful, beautiful thing.

Yea, sucks how many Ls I had to stubbornly eat before I accepted this. Applied it to women, work, pretty much everything. It makes life easier, and I have the advantage of taking things for what they are and not longing for it when it isn't mine anymore.

Weren't you banned?

I asked for it. I am the uncrowned Poty 2014. Only way I could get hemmed up is through my own doing.

 

[WaveGang]

Hell yeah, I refuse that

Nuff girls get offended, I remember I got one girls number of insta time ago and she was like "so you dont wanna talk to me unless were love interests" I was like, duhhhhh yea ahahah.

I just tell it how it is

sometimes you get caught up in that "will it happen, will it not" web, where chicks friendzone you onna leash. But you gotta be a man and delete/block the bytch

 

[WaveGang]

@ nikkas thinking they have any control within the zone

If anything, aggression takes you from the friend zone to the nikka-fall-back-ur-a-goof zone

Basically, I pay them ones no mind.

Only way you're getting out the friendzone is getting brolic, her knowing you got hoes, and airing her. But thats all effort, if she friendzxone you fukk her

I'm straight talking and 6'4 so i tend to dodge these situations

 

[MikelArteta]

Plus when they get in a relationship you don't exist anymore then they pop back up when a nikka done em dirty

Having female friends is a waste of time if you're single IMO. It usually ends up with them asking for a shytload of favors. Plus all that energy you spend with them could have been spent looking for someone who wants to be more than friends with you.

 

[MikelArteta]

When I was indulging in questionable ungodly behavior

Females were in three categories

Chicks I've smashed
Chicks I haven't smashed yet but working on
And old female friends I grew up with that I have no attraction to

Friendzone

 

[karim]

told the story a couple of times on here already. This one chick tried to play me. We had a thing then she tried to get back with her ex and put me in the friendzone. I completely Shut down communication when i found out. Then she kept contacting me, even though i never replied. I moved to another City in the meantime and she still kept hitting me up, talking about how she wanted to come visit me. After some time she got on my nerves, so I agreed to meet with her next time she visited my City. we agreed on a time and a place and i just never showed up. haven't heard from her ever since

 

[Freedman]

fukk the friend zone

 

[Doobie Doo]

I did back in 08. I met up with a chick from POF who was gorgeous, no doubt. She was half black/puerto rican. We went on one date, at the time I was unemployed (just got layed off), wasn't in fresh gear or nothing and we went out to the bar for drinks. I told her all the things happening in my life at the present(unemployed, older car etc) I enjoyed myself and asked once or twice to go back out on another date and she hit me with the "Your cool but I think we can only be friends." I hit her back and said "I got plenty of friends of now, If I can only be your friend then I don't want to be your friend." I heard her gasp and she paused for a few seconds before saying "Ok."

I think I low keyed fukked with her ego. I am large dude who was doing bad in life at the time. I guess based on looks she was supposed to be leagues ahead of me. She assumed I was one of those lames willing to play that friend zone shyt and I could hear how my rejection kinda fukked with her. I'm glad it went like that cuz that was the first time I ever rejected a friend zone and it was liberating. Since then I havent' been back in that zone since.

 

[Couth]

f anything, aggression takes you from the friend zone to the nikka-fall-back-ur-a-goof zone

Exactly. If she wasn't bussin for me either way why would i wanna be her friend? Rather let her know how i feel so she can straight up avoid me and not feel like she has to be polite.

 

[Pyrexcup]

told the story a couple of times on here already. This one chick tried to play me. We had a thing then she tried to get back with her ex and put me in the friendzone. I completely Shut down communication when i found out. Then she kept contacting me, even though i never replied. I moved to another City in the meantime and she still kept hitting me up, talking about how she wanted to come visit me. After some time she got on my nerves, so I agreed to meet with her next time she visited my City. we agreed on a time and a place and i just never showed up. haven't heard from her ever since

 

[MikelArteta]

My main thing is even as "friends" it won't last, even if genuine.

Even the few chicks I grew up with I consider friends, we barely ever talk. They got married or dating and your forgotten. F female friends

 

[toomanydoses]

Thought this was a rape thread, the way the title read in my mind . Glad I was wrong .
To answer yes but not on some boss shyt, it was on some that will fukk with my head so its better if we don't talk at all shyt. fukked 2 years later when we ran into each other again and had more money and was at a better place in life, then she got friend zoned. All a matter of perspective.

 

[bogey_j]

@ nikkas thinking they have any control within the zone

If anything, aggression takes you from the friend zone to the nikka-fall-back-ur-a-goof zone

at that point who cares what she thinks? you've moved on

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yup... Now we no longer cool.


But at least I'm not in the friend zone. Some nikkas be there for years