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Totally blessing.
Having children: Burden or blessing?
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the cac mamba
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shyt is obviously a blessing but it's one that you have to have yourself to understand. every motherfukker i know with kids
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shyt is obviously a blessing but it's one that you have to have yourself to understand. every motherfukker i know with kids
My brother and I are close. Breh tells me all the time he loves his kids but at the same time he's the only one I know with kids that hasn't pushed that
"You should get a wife and kids too!" bullshyt on me. Deep down he knows he ain't free for the next 18+ years
Aren't the Ball brothers your kids. The way you nurture and protect them on this site I assumed they were your own.
Also you're better off having kids in your 30's. Maybe late 20's, but in your early to mid 20's you're still doing stupid shyt and financially you aren't usually stable enough to take care of a child.
GoAggieGo.
getting blitzed.
Blessing.
My pop was over the other day, and told my girl and I hes never seen a baby as happy as mine. She gives me purpose, and I love the fact she looks like me.
My baby girl, and little mini me. When I come home from work, she just laughs and smiles, and tells my girl, “it’s da!”
She’s expensive as hell, but I don’t mind it. Gone have me a boy here soon, lord willing.
My pop was over the other day, and told my girl and I hes never seen a baby as happy as mine. She gives me purpose, and I love the fact she looks like me.
My baby girl, and little mini me. When I come home from work, she just laughs and smiles, and tells my girl, “it’s da!”
She’s expensive as hell, but I don’t mind it. Gone have me a boy here soon, lord willing.
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Lavar changed sports.
I respect him as a father.
And having kids in early 20's is goat.
U be done by late 30"s
I've missed you
I'm not 100% sure who you are.
But....I'm glad that I was missed.
feelosofer
#ninergang
It's very hard work and I have sacrificed a lot for them but I would do it again for my 3 beautiful children.
sayyestothis
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could you elaborate
U will not know TRUE LOVE u til u have a child of your own. The way they love u and u love them unconditionally.
Seeing you in someone else. Being able to be their world as they are young. Being responsible for ANOTHER life. It's just something u cant truly understand until u have them. And I know this bc I COULDNT get it either.
What I would say is wait until u can afford to have them if u can. It will make ur life but more importantly THEIR life easier.
Beautiul burden. Having kids doesn't improve shyt. Really, people should adopt more.
But, it's a beautiful thang.
But, it's a beautiful thang.
it aint 18 years that shyt till you die lolMy brother and I are close. Breh tells me all the time he loves his kids but at the same time he's the only one I know with kids that hasn't pushed that
Deep down he knows he ain't free for the next 18+ years
I know plenty people who keep it real and say they could have went without having kids
love their kids but understand the sacrifice of being a good parent and the stresses that come with it
Blessing for me, my son saved my life too. I would not even be alive if not for him, he gave me purpose and gave my life meaning to be real. Sometimes certain parts of parenting can be difficult, but shyt life can be difficult. I don’t regret having him at all(and I’m a single mother). I’m planning on having more children, so obviously don’t find it too much of a burden.
Pure Water
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Burden.