Having kids young gotta suck.
- Thread starter Colin X
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I have a 2 year old. Father and I met in HS and decided young that we wanted a child (after buying a home and living together for 4 years). I don't regret it. I am still chasing my dreams, he supports my goals and cheers me on to become my best self although we are no longer together. It's like best of both worlds because I won't be one of those women who approach 30 and has a crisis about not being married or a mother. Yet every year I am becoming better, earning more degrees, and increasing my pay, traveling ect. I always say, happiness is relative to your view on life. I want to be a good mother and I want to be very wealthy...I'm working on both. Thank god for my support system tho.
MalikX
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stepbackj34spud
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He ain't get a job until 4 months who
He went to school? Damn man I can't imagine having 3 right now at age 26, let alone 23. I don't understand what is wrong with some people. You bringing lives into this world you can't financially support. nikkas better thank god for food stamps.
Smart people engage in family planning and build their lives with kids in mind. Yes having kids unplanned is problematic, but it's a completely different story when a couple plans on having kids. When that happens your statement ceases told hold water because kids are a part of the dream. I know it sounds bizarre but some people actually dream about having a family one day. And, to take it a step further, if that's not a dream that you have, please don't have kids. You will be doing them a major disservice.
Kwéyòl
Moon walking seeing moon people
Maybe in the last 200 years
Kwéyòl
Moon walking seeing moon people
Graduated high school 2 years ago and I had people in my class and younger who's dads was in they 60s and moms in the 50s
BmoreGorilla
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Graduated high school 2 years ago and I had people in my class and younger who's dads was in they 60s and moms in the 50s
There's some students in his class whose parents were in hs with me
Elle Driver
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I don't even think an accidental pregnancy exists, it's either planned or unplanned.There's a difference between planned and accidental pregnancies.
MalikX
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He did....dropped out at 19. Came home to be with his girlfriend. Said he was going to go back to college next fall then boom, one kid. Then boom again....twins. Before he knew it he had three kids 2 years after coming home.
You a walking LI'm 22 & Got in a serious relationship with a single mother w/ a 3 year old about a year ago (not about to get into that discussion) and I feel like I've already aged at least twice as fast within that time period
I work more than I ever used to, don't go out nearly as much as I used to... Hell, I barely even be posting on Instagram anymore
Put all my dreams on hold & multiplied my expenses
At least she's loyal to the soil & cooks for me every night. Truth be told I was probably way in over my head taking all this shyt on but as a man I can't back down from something I knew would be challenging & still decided to take on. I keep my word
But yeah, I sure as hell ain't getting her pregnant. Fatherhood ain't no fukkin joke. Props to anyone who can make it out without being left
afterwards
Concerning VIolence
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Graduated from high school two years ago, the amount of people i graduated with that have children now is baffling
You better celebrate like it's your last day.