Having low confidence can be a good thing.

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Low confidence is easily one of the biggest disadvantages someone can have as it will effect every part of your life.

Depression, Poor work Performance, Loneliness, Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction :dame: are all side effects of low confidence.

Someone with low confidence will miss out on an insane amount of opportunities in life vs someone who has it. It is a Make or Break trait, that’s importance is understated.
 

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confidence is assurance of an outcome. For example, When u walk into an exam center, your level of confidence can be gauged through the level of fear you harbor…which is often evident in a man’s gait.

When you approach a new romantic interest, confidence is knowing she’s already yours by having already paid attention to clues that appeared beforehand.

Confidence is knowing your limitations and possessing the testicular fortitude remain unfazed by them.
 

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Sometimes people who have low confidence are just being realistic and true to themselves. Sometimes it could be costly. Such as during a job interview.
 

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confidence is assurance of an outcome. For example, When u walk into an exam center, your level of confidence can be gauged through the level of fear you harbor…which is often evident in a man’s gait.

When you approach a new romantic interest, confidence is knowing she’s already yours by having already paid attention to clues that appeared beforehand.

Confidence is knowing your limitations and possessing the testicular fortitude remain unfazed by them.

What you describe, my dear brother, is self delusion. You cannot be assured of a positive outcome unless you have gained a level of proficiency through practice. True confidence is not just a feeling.
 

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Low confidence is easily one of the biggest disadvantages someone can have as it will effect every part of your life.

Depression, Poor work Performance, Loneliness, Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction :dame: are all side effects of low confidence.

Someone with low confidence will miss out on an insane amount of opportunities in life vs someone who has it. It is a Make or Break trait, that’s importance is understated.

Agreed, but the way to true confidence is through competence. You can't truly be confident in something that you're incompetent in. The problem is that for many ppl (including some in this very thread) it's just about feeling a certain way and they think that the feeling leads to action when it's the other way around. When embarking upon any path, in the beginning your confidence will be low because you don't know what you're doing. But with practice, you will increase in competence and, eventually, in confidence. It's a byproduct of competence. Low confidence is just a sign that you need to increase your competence.
 
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Very flimsy at best.

So paying for everything and not relying on anyone is a false confidence
:russ:
Whatever man do you and stay depressed
I am going to do some drugs and try to get laid
If that don't work out i will pay for a hooker

You can post here and try not to become a mass shooter.
 

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I'm tryna school y'all fakkits :what:

Half of y'all are damn near suicidal in this bytch.

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So paying for everything and not relying on anyone is a false confidence
:russ:
Whatever man do you and stay depressed
I am going to do some drugs and try to get laid
If that don't work out i will pay for a hooker

You can post here and try not to become a mass shooter.

I don't think you get the point of this thread. :francis:
 

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That's not what I'm proposing though breh. I'm saying having low confidence is a sign that you should be doing something to improve. A lot of brehs just focus on the symptom (low confidence) when they should be focusing on the core issue: low competence.
I get where you're coming from, but I still wouldn't tell somebody "You're supposed to have low self confidence, until you've acquired the necessary skills".
Because what's the incentive for them to even try and become competent? I think it was the title that got me
 
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