He doesn't want to commit

[Zandía]

This is the first and only guy I have dealt with where I can say nothing about him really bothers me. I literally have no complaints, well, except for the fact that he does not want to commit.
He sees himself as being disabled and says he cannot be the partner or father he wants to be because of his perceived issues.

That being said, I'm done with trying to prove myself to men. I'm done trying to make them change their minds. I am done pushing for a commitment. Not saying I ever did this with him, but I have done this in the past to others.

With that, I've mostly accepted that he won't commit to me. I'm still around because I enjoy our time together. I'm still talking to and will date other men because I do want a long-term commitment one day. When I get serious with someone I will cut him off.

Question 1 is: should I just cut him off now because I know this is not going where I want it to?

Question 2 is: does this sound like a legitimate reason not to commit? I mean it is, any reason is legit. I just wonder if it's just that he doesn't want to commit to me in particular?

I will admit that I'm going to be salty and hurt to hell if he commits to the next one after me.

Question 2.5 is: should I ask him that directly, next time we get nice and baked? Hopefully the trees act as truth serum...


And lastly...

Question 3: on a scale 1 to 5, 5 being the most basic... How do you all perceive me based on the questions above?

 

[Colicat]

@Zandía

Not sure if you are soliciting a males advice but you should move forward. He already told you he is not committing/ed to you. It is not your duty to make him feel otherwise. If he commits to the next one, you shouldn't be concerned.... Whether he doesn't want to commit or doesn't want to commit to you, the answer is still a no. And by no means does questioning and reflecting on one's reality make you basic...
Move forward....

 

[End Cruelty]

Dont be an option while makimg him a priority. Id say move on.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Here you go, womaning the situation up. Just chill, if he wants to commit he will. Forcing him right now might not be the best decision. I can relate because I fill the same way as he does, but my ex left me already and maybe it was for the best. How long y'all been together anyway

 

[Ain't That Something]

LMAO piece of advice cut him off bc I have been that guy

He already has a woman or knows the ideal woman he wants to commit to you just not it

 

[MikelArteta]

Commitment is the malr vagina - Reincar

The only times I didn't want to commit to a broad is because I didn't like her like that, felt no attraction, had other broads I was cavorting and canoodling with so I gave bs excuses to the what are we Q's?

 

[Ain't That Something]

Commitment is the malr vagina - Reincar

The only times I didn't want to commit to a broad is because I didn't like her like that, felt no attraction, had other broads I was cavorting and canoodling with so I gave bs excuses to the what are we Q's?

As my boy would say put them down but sell them hope you never know when you might have to hit her up again

 

[MikelArteta]

I just don't want to be I'm a relationship right now, i have alot goimg on in my life, you're a great girl but don't wait for me.

As my boy would say put them down but sell them hope you never know when you might have to hit her up again

 

[Ain't That Something]

I just don't want to be I'm a relationship right now, i have alot goimg on in my life, you're a great girl but don't wait for me.

I have trust issues, my last relationship did not end well and I don't want to hurt you

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

This is the first and only guy I have dealt with where I can say nothing about him really bothers me. I literally have no complaints, well, except for the fact that he does not want to commit.
He sees himself as being disabled and says he cannot be the partner or father he wants to be because of his perceived issues.

That being said, I'm done with trying to prove myself to men. I'm done trying to make them change their minds. I am done pushing for a commitment. Not saying I ever did this with him, but I have done this in the past to others.

With that, I've mostly accepted that he won't commit to me. I'm still around because I enjoy our time together. I'm still talking to and will date other men because I do want a long-term commitment one day. When I get serious with someone I will cut him off.

Question 1 is: should I just cut him off now because I know this is not going where I want it to?

Question 2 is: does this sound like a legitimate reason not to commit? I mean it is, any reason is legit. I just wonder if it's just that he doesn't want to commit to me in particular?

I will admit that I'm going to be salty and hurt to hell if he commits to the next one after me.

Question 2.5 is: should I ask him that directly, next time we get nice and baked? Hopefully the trees act as truth serum...


And lastly...

Question 3: on a scale 1 to 5, 5 being the most basic... How do you all perceive me based on the questions above?

Maybe its you. Maybe you're just not what he sees as an anchor. They type of woman I guy will be compelled to wife up. The "it's me not you" line is the oldest in the book. You shouldn't have to press the issue though. If it happens it happens. If not then keep it moving. And don't say you've only been dating for 6 months to a year. People are too quick to commit now a days. If it wasn't love at first site and the chemistry wasn't instant then it will probably take time. Lastly, if you already gave up the p*ssy then ain't no use in changing his mind. It could be a combo of 2 things.

1. You aint let him work hard enough to get in those panties
2. When he did get the puss, the feeling afterwards wasn't strong enough to have him hooked.

In conclusion, I suggest you just be friends and don't let him fukk again until he comes to you for commitment, otherwise you will be downgraded to jump off status.


side note: Women kill me. You have ALL the power and freely give it away

 

[MikelArteta]

This is the first and only guy I have dealt with where I can say nothing about him really bothers me. I literally have no complaints, well, except for the fact that he does not want to commit.
He sees himself as being disabled and says he cannot be the partner or father he wants to be because of his perceived issues.

That being said, I'm done with trying to prove myself to men. I'm done trying to make them change their minds. I am done pushing for a commitment. Not saying I ever did this with him, but I have done this in the past to others.

With that, I've mostly accepted that he won't commit to me. I'm still around because I enjoy our time together. I'm still talking to and will date other men because I do want a long-term commitment one day. When I get serious with someone I will cut him off.

Question 1 is: should I just cut him off now because I know this is not going where I want it to?

Question 2 is: does this sound like a legitimate reason not to commit? I mean it is, any reason is legit. I just wonder if it's just that he doesn't want to commit to me in particular?

I will admit that I'm going to be salty and hurt to hell if he commits to the next one after me.

Question 2.5 is: should I ask him that directly, next time we get nice and baked? Hopefully the trees act as truth serum...


And lastly...

Question 3: on a scale 1 to 5, 5 being the most basic... How do you all perceive me based on the questions above?

1. If you want to keep you're dignity cut him off now, stop following your intuition.

2. It doesn't matter what the reason is, people will tell you anything to not hurt you, it's the human way. When in reality he just doesn't feel that oomph about you. And yes he commit to the next girl he likes regardless of his disability , that's why you cut him off now and no peeking on social media, no more contact.


2.5
:snoopkid:, just give it up cut the cord, even if you give him a bj and sex the answer will be the same, trust me as a man when you don't feel that way about a woman it doesn't matter how she looks or what she does. Keep asking the answer will be the same just different variations.


3. As a person whose used to getting the men she wanted , but is frustrated that the old tricks, her beauty is not working this time and won't accept it,m. A 7.5 on the crazy coli brehette scale

 

[Family Man]

This is the first and only guy I have dealt with where I can say nothing about him really bothers me. I literally have no complaints, well, except for the fact that he does not want to commit.
He sees himself as being disabled and says he cannot be the partner or father he wants to be because of his perceived issues.

That being said, I'm done with trying to prove myself to men. I'm done trying to make them change their minds. I am done pushing for a commitment. Not saying I ever did this with him, but I have done this in the past to others.

With that, I've mostly accepted that he won't commit to me. I'm still around because I enjoy our time together. I'm still talking to and will date other men because I do want a long-term commitment one day. When I get serious with someone I will cut him off.

Question 1 is: should I just cut him off now because I know this is not going where I want it to?

Question 2 is: does this sound like a legitimate reason not to commit? I mean it is, any reason is legit. I just wonder if it's just that he doesn't want to commit to me in particular?

I will admit that I'm going to be salty and hurt to hell if he commits to the next one after me.

Question 2.5 is: should I ask him that directly, next time we get nice and baked? Hopefully the trees act as truth serum...


And lastly...

Question 3: on a scale 1 to 5, 5 being the most basic... How do you all perceive me based on the questions above?

bytch you sound desperate. FOH

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

I just don't want to be I'm a relationship right now, i have alot goimg on in my life, you're a great girl but don't wait for me.

This line is best served after smashing 2 to 3 times.

But you just can't come out of the blue with it.

"PROPERLY SET UP LINE ONE MUST"

 

[MikelArteta]

When I'm ready to date you'll be the first to know, your such a great girl , wow can't believe how stupid I am passing this opportunity up

I have trust issues, my last relationship did not end well and I don't want to hurt you

 

[concise]

This is the first and only guy I have dealt with where I can say nothing about him really bothers me. I literally have no complaints, well, except for the fact that he does not want to commit.
He sees himself as being disabled and says he cannot be the partner or father he wants to be because of his perceived issues.

That being said, I'm done with trying to prove myself to men. I'm done trying to make them change their minds. I am done pushing for a commitment. Not saying I ever did this with him, but I have done this in the past to others.

With that, I've mostly accepted that he won't commit to me. I'm still around because I enjoy our time together. I'm still talking to and will date other men because I do want a long-term commitment one day. When I get serious with someone I will cut him off.

Question 1 is: should I just cut him off now because I know this is not going where I want it to?

Question 2 is: does this sound like a legitimate reason not to commit? I mean it is, any reason is legit. I just wonder if it's just that he doesn't want to commit to me in particular?

I will admit that I'm going to be salty and hurt to hell if he commits to the next one after me.

Question 2.5 is: should I ask him that directly, next time we get nice and baked? Hopefully the trees act as truth serum...


And lastly...

Question 3: on a scale 1 to 5, 5 being the most basic... How do you all perceive me based on the questions above?

What do you get out of chasing commitment?
Why are you chasing a disabled guy?