He doesn't want to commit
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Kenny West
Veteran
This ya first dude right? So he took ya V-card?
There aint a whole lot you can do to make him wanna commit if he already hit. A woman shows her worth/wifeability before sex. And I don't mean some basic as ol "wait X days to let him hit" shyt. How you ACT before sex is most important. Most women get too high on their power trip over controlling sex that they give their own actions no thought because the assume getting a man to commit to you is easy as getting on to fukk you. They expect nikkas to be all
after sex just because they are, even if they were a total bytch beforehand.
Re-check how you portrayed yourself when yall was just talking:
- Were you flaky?
- Were you only sometimey in regards to replying to his texts
- We're you too eager/available?
- Do you lie? (doesn't matter if you got caught)
- Did you play games?
- Did you demand shyt and talk about things you "deserved"
- Did you/ Do you talk to him about things other than yourself and stuff you're interested in?
- Did you make him wait an absurd number of dates before letting him it? (tho it's understandable if you're a virgin)
If you did those to me I'd set your status to "hit and quit" way before it actually happens.
Just remember it could always be your fault. It's very possible that it's just him tho. If you really want a relationship you probably gonna have to cut him and do better next time around
There aint a whole lot you can do to make him wanna commit if he already hit. A woman shows her worth/wifeability before sex. And I don't mean some basic as ol "wait X days to let him hit" shyt. How you ACT before sex is most important. Most women get too high on their power trip over controlling sex that they give their own actions no thought because the assume getting a man to commit to you is easy as getting on to fukk you. They expect nikkas to be all
after sex just because they are, even if they were a total bytch beforehand.Re-check how you portrayed yourself when yall was just talking:
- Were you flaky?
- Were you only sometimey in regards to replying to his texts
- We're you too eager/available?
- Do you lie? (doesn't matter if you got caught)
- Did you play games?
- Did you demand shyt and talk about things you "deserved"
- Did you/ Do you talk to him about things other than yourself and stuff you're interested in?
- Did you make him wait an absurd number of dates before letting him it? (tho it's understandable if you're a virgin)
If you did those to me I'd set your status to "hit and quit" way before it actually happens.
Just remember it could always be your fault. It's very possible that it's just him tho. If you really want a relationship you probably gonna have to cut him and do better next time around
It sounds super harsh, but- He's just not that into you. Back in the day when that book was popular, it saved me so much time and potential heartache/headache. When a guy wants you, they will stop at nothing to make it happen.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Cut him off if he wanted you y'all would be together.
I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF THE SECOND DOGGYS FACE IS UPSIDE DOWN?
No- his body is facing the door and he's looking back at an angle 
lol, it's tilted to the right.I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF THE SECOND DOGGYS FACE IS UPSIDE DOWN?
If you click on the avatar, it'll show a bigger picture and you'll see it more clearly.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
This is the first time I have seen tons of great advice In a thread without trolling or being rude....wow 
I'm Billy FUCO!!
Banned
So you mean his head is flipped all the way back? Like someone trying to limbo under a bar?
That shyt is bothering me, too
yoooCan we discuss why you are dating a cripple
are u ugly or something
what kinda L is this ?
ur being played by a disabled man
don't some of u women have pride or self esteem ?
I'm Billy FUCO!!
Banned
This is exactly what he's doing- but he actually has a haircut now
That's the position I was thinking of at first based on your post......
But the nose and one of the eyes, actually looked like his two eyes, and it threw me the fukk off
Now that you posted the pic above, I can see it properly.......but that was some Magic Eye shyt I experienced just now
