Heart break a mothafukka

[bigde09]

That’s why You always have to be a step ahead. Whenever You feel a woman getting distant or ish is moving to fast eject.


Anytime I’ve experienced heartbreak there were signs I was to stupid to read, now that I’m older I’m like Aaron Rodgers reading the blitz.

Years ago I remember those days, always checking her social media like it was my morning newspaper. Whose this new dude she added and ish, sleepless nights. On my mind all day only relieve was sleep, losing weight


Never that again

just like a job how they slowly remove work from work, don’t include you in certain meetings smile in your face then one day you getting them things dropped read the signs

I remember every time my phone went off I wished it was her and then the crushing disappointment when it wasn’t .

Looking back at it I was on some other shyt heart break will have you acting alll outta character

 

[MoveForward]

Aren’t you a pedo

That’s not something to joke about or put in the air about someone. I’m reporting this bs and you should be perma banned.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Damn that's awkward as shyt.

Are you a dime? That would explain it; men have a very hard time of letting go of very beautiful women.

I don’t know breh—I’m starting to realize I have a tendency to attract men who get obsessed. Hell, earlier this week Brehs on here told me to dump my current bf because they said he sounded obsessed and dangerous.

But yes, I have to be very cautious about how I talk and behave around my son’s father because he reads into everything I do and say. It’s extremely awkward.

 

[MoveForward]

That’s why You always have to be a step ahead. Whenever You feel a woman getting distant or ish is moving to fast eject.

What does it mean when women do this? I run into it a lot and I honestly don’t get it.

 

[VertigoKnight]

What does it mean when women do this? I run into it a lot and I honestly don’t get it.

Them moving too fast or them fast ejecting out of the a situation with the man?

 

[MoveForward]

Them moving too fast or them fast ejecting out of the a situation with the man?

Moving too fast, I run into this a lot.

 

[WaveMolecules]

It is, took me about 3 years to fully get over it. I still think about her sometimes tho

took me
Almost 4 years TO THE DAY!

Those girls in between had no chance

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Let me ask y’all has heart break ever changed y’all for the better ?


My ex changed me into an even better person .


She taught me how to be friends with your partner .
I’m a planner and would get mad things don’t go my way . She would look at me and say it’s ok you can’t plan everything you can’t plan life .

I would stop like yea man you right you can’t .


While things didn’t work out I really appreciate those lessons .


I also heal and don’t take what someone else did to a new situation . Of course you’re apprehensive but you can’t let what other did affect your new situation . Well you have to try for it not to .

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

What does it mean when women do this? I run into it a lot and I honestly don’t get it.

Moving too fast means that it sounds too good to be true.

If you have a beautiful woman, a dime, and she feeding you stories about how she feels so connected to you, really just feeding your ego in a way that you aint used to, acting like she all in love with you, you know when it's too good to be true especially if yall just met not too long ago.

Chances are is she is feeding you a lie much like how men feed women a lie when we want to play with their heads.

Beautiful women who are Playas do the same exact thing.

And we know that something is off when this is happening but we let our lust and pride deceive us. She is so beautiful that we are willing to believe the lie because she has our nose so wide open and then our pride gets the better of us if someone tries to pull us to the side and tell us whats really good with ole girl.

When you meet a woman like that, you have to immediately cut out any real emotions. Sure pretend that you're feeling everything she's feeling but remember to always watch ya back cause she probably trying to play you for a fool.

She being playa so you be playa too.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Heartbreak and disappointment from women in my earlier years has transformed me for the better. I am so cold now, that a woman can NEVER rattle me or get me off my square when they start shyt testing and switching up for no other apparent reason than the wind is blowing today. You gotta be strong. Enjoy the good times while they last and be ready to break out when you start to sense her affection waning.

I literally feel nothing now, when I used to be so crushed and hurt that a woman whom I believed cared for me could switch up on me so quickly and go from being so seemingly kind and warm to so cold, calloused and indifferent towards me. Now. I’m emotionless and disconnected on those rare occasions when dealing with women these days. Best mindset to have.

This George Michael song and scene from Peaky Blinders epitomize what I’m on these days. The most free and alive I’ve ever felt. That emotional and love shyt is antiquated and outdated in these modern times with these modern women. Wish you cats would learn man. These women are just different these days. This ain’t dating in 198 anymore. Social media has ruined, corrupted and demonized these chicks beyond redemption or repair. No redeemable qualities. All narcissistic, materialistic clones of one another. No compassion or love to be found anywhere

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Let me ask y’all has heart break ever changed y’all for the better ?


My ex changed me into an even better person .


She taught me how to be friends with your partner .
I’m a planner and would get mad things don’t go my way . She would look at me and say it’s ok you can’t plan everything you can’t plan life .

I would stop like yea man you right you can’t .


While things didn’t work out I really appreciate those lessons .


I also heal and don’t take what someone else did to a new situation . Of course you’re apprehensive but you can’t let what other did affect your new situation . Well you have to try for it not to .

Definitely. It taught me to be a selfish sociopath which, and this is gonna sound crazy, women love. I attract way more women now than I ever did back then. Something about being an a$$hole draws them in like flies to honey.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

If you have a beautiful woman, a dime, and she feeding you stories about how she feels so connected to you, really just feeding your ego in a way that you aint used to, acting like she all in love with you, you know when it's too good to be true especially if yall just met not too long ago.

When you meet a woman like that, you have to immediately cut out any real emotions.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

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[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Heartbreak and disappointment from women in my earlier years has transformed me for the better. I am so cold now, that a woman can NEVER rattle me or get me off my square when they start shyt testing and switching up for no other apparent reason than the wind is blowing today. You gotta be strong. Enjoy the good times while they last and be ready to break out when you start to sense her affection waning.

I literally feel nothing now, when I used to be so crushed and hurt that a woman whom I believed cared for me could switch up on me so quickly and go from being so seemingly kind and warm to so cold, calloused and indifferent towards me. Now. I’m emotionless and disconnected on those rare occasions when dealing with women these days. Best mindset to have.

This George Michael song and scene from Peaky Blinders epitomize what I’m on these days. The most free and alive I’ve ever felt. That emotional and love shyt is antiquated and outdated in these modern times with these modern women. Wish you cats would learn man. These women are just different these days. This ain’t dating in 198 anymore. Social media has ruined, corrupted and demonized these chicks beyond redemption or repair. No redeemable qualities. All narcissistic, materialistic clones of one another. No compassion or love to be found anywhere

Yep. I don't believe in the widely accepted feeling known as "love" anymore lowkey. I never admit this anywhere but on the coli but I believe that type of love is a fake feeling. The fact that "love" can turn cold out of nowhere proves my point.

Am I saying that love doesn't exist? Of course not. But I am saying that when a woman tells me she loves me, I accept it for the emotional response that she's having in the moment, recognizing that her emotions can have her switching up in the blink of an eye out of nowhere.

And I refuse to "love" any woman more than she "loves" me. Nah she gon be more into me than I am into her.

I'm a cold guy when it comes to women nowadays. I'm analytical and realistic about women in 2021. This aint the days of our fathers where when a man got married to a woman, they more than likely stayed together til death.

Nah we statistically are facing more divorces nowadays than at any point in history. And women be on this hot girl summer, proud of being a hoe foolishness.

And its the predominant mindset pushed on American women and so all these chics are influenced by it to some degree. And I recognize that and move accordingly.

I trust no woman but my mother.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

It's easy for me. I'm not gonna say I never have a weak moment. But you gotta learn to keep it playa at all times. Now it's a habit with me.