Heart break a mothafukka

[DatLBCGuy562]

Yep. I don't believe in the widely accepted feeling known as "love" anymore lowkey. I never admit this anywhere but on the coli but I believe that type of love is a fake feeling. The fact that "love" can turn cold out of nowhere proves my point.

Am I saying that love doesn't exist? Of course not. But I am saying that when a woman tells me she loves me, I accept it for the emotional response that she's having in the moment, recognizing that her emotions can have her switching up in the blink of an eye out of nowhere.

And I refuse to "love" any woman more than she "loves" me. Nah she gon be more into me than I am into her.

I'm a cold guy when it comes to women nowadays. I'm analytical and realistic about women in 2021. This aint the days of our fathers where when a man got married to a woman, they more than likely stayed together til death.

Nah we statistically are facing more divorces nowadays than at any point in history. And women be on this hot girl summer, proud of being a hoe foolishness.

And its the predominant mindset pushed on American women and so all these chics are influenced by it to some degree. And I recognize that and move accordingly.

I trust no woman but my mother.

I’m on this same wave breh. I always tell women (and it always creates an awkward moment or creates an argument, but IDGAF), I’d rather have your loyalty than your “love”. Love is just a feeling. And feelings change. I’ve had, AT LEAST, 25 women tell me that they “love” me over the course of my lifetime and I couldn’t get any of them to simply have a phone conversation with me if I tried (haven’t and won’t). So what good is your “love” if it’s fleeting and fickle. Keep that shyt. But loyalty. That’s an ACTION. We can be on bad terms and you’ll still remain loyal to me if that’s what we on. Better stop living your life like you in a Disney cartoon or a cheesy romantic comedy. Real life ain’t like what you see in them Hollywood movies. Ain’t no love out here. They’ll LIKE you a lot, at best, as long as you’re jumping through all her hoops, putting up with her bullshyt, being her human lapdog, and sending her regular cash apps and gifts. When that shyt stops, so does her “love” for you. Y’all gonna learn

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I haven't felt this pain in a long ass time. Thank you for reminding me why I never called her again. Sorry you're going thru it breh.

I'm stubborn as hell. Basically if she didn't call me back in the past we just would have never spoke again

And the last couple times I told her no, but I was dry dikc so she was able to convince me pretty easy.

So here I go this morning texting her to check her temp.

She all happy face emojis like she's having a ball. Says we should get together soon.

Now I'm extra tight. The premise of her not seeing me was that she was going through something. If you're happy again what you ain't call me

Fukc it. I will let her have her way with me if she does come thru but I gotta work on some new new ASAP

 

[Shamayw_33]

Took me some new p*ssy to get over my heart break

 

[Still Benefited]

This brotha right here gets a lot of hate but everything he said in this post is the truth and I've been telling folks this for years.

One of my favorite lines in a song is Just Like Me by TI and Jamie Foxx when Tip is like "I can make her better tho, you gon let him ruin you."

Men make women better. And honest women will tell the truth. They know they wasn't worth nothing till the right man got ahold of them and made them something. My woman admits this to folks, that I made her a better woman.

Now I'm not saying this is the case 100% of the time. Like anything, there are exceptions to the rule but 9 times out of 10, it's a man who leveled up that woman that you see that you think is a 10/10.

And why can't you do the same thing? My OG told me a long time ago that you gotta look at women as clay. You have to mold them into who you want them to be.

If she's into you, she'll be pliable because she wants to make you happy. If she ain't into you, then you are not gonna be able to change her and so just move the hell on.

But every man has a woman that's into us and loves our dirty draws. I have one, you have one too.

Instead of casting her to the side cause she aint what you want, why don't you work on making her into what you want. Half the job is done already. She wants you over every other man.

She's a born follower and as a man, you're supposed to fill that leadership role for her.

Its a match made in heaven. What are you waiting for? Take her and start making her the perfect woman for you.

#ThisIsGospel

I'm willing to say 95% of men of this era don't seem to have any interest in molding/teaching their women. Most spend more time on their Madden create a player than their woman,then wonder why their woman isn't happy. Wonder why their woman isn't making them happy. And wonder why modern women aren't wifey material. If your not putting any sort of investment into your partner,you make it real easy to walk away. No wonder you have commitment issues.
And next time you wonder why somebody could just turn off their emotions and walk away so easily?
Its usually because they didn't invest that much time,thought,effort into the relationship.
And even if they did at one point in the relationship,I'm willing to bet they slowly were making withdrawals from the account(relationship) and you weren't noticing. When scammers get you for your bank account they take 3$ here, 5$ there before they make the big $1000 dollar withdrawal. Meanwhile you invested a lot,were still invested. When you are invested you better pay attention to the details. Pay attention to those 3$, 5$ withdrawals and ask questions. It may be nothing,or it may be the precursor to the rug pull.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I don't have a heart for a woman to break anymore.

Last time I went through heartbreak was over a decade ago and I lowkey think the experience turned me into somewhat of a sociopath when it comes to women.

I don't love any woman enough for her to break me anymore.

Pretty much

 

[International S.]

I don't get this women.

I don't know if it is a action born from fear, but it pisses me off. My view is that if you hurt someone a certain type of way, the most you should do is apologise and leave them the fukk alone.

What is with the over the top greetings as though there isn't a burned bridge.

I feel you breh...its just more to it when it comes to men, you have to deal with the fact that the woman you legitimately loved is now appearing with another man, thats a blow to the ego

she went in for a hug and I backed up I looked at the car at the pump and it hit me, thats her
after the up and down look I was shocked I said "alright" and nodded my head jumped in the car
laughing on some mr burns shyt, I got out the car and rolled a blunt laughing, smoked it laughing

FTB

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

No thanks. I left him because I didn’t want to be with him anymore. Look when a woman’s really done, she’s done done. Plus, I’m already in a relationship with someone I like.

Has he had other gf besides u

9 years a long time to still be hooked to someone who moved on

Usually a new woman will help him get over u

 

[So-Chi]

I’ve never been through heartbreak. But i am concerned about my son’s father. I want him to get over me. It’s been nine years since I left him, he hasn’t moved on. And every time I get into a new relationship it hurts him. He’s still been trying to get me back over the years—he still loves me. It’s so awkward—I’ve been moved on. I don’t know why he can’t get over me. It sometimes creeps me out because it’s like he’s a bit delusional about it—he still has hopes for a reconciliation. I guess it’s true that when men love they really do love hard.

Or you got that swimming pool... New dude be hollering while you fukk and the ex almost a decade deep

 

[Supa cat]

That’s not something to joke about or put in the air about someone. I’m reporting this bs and you should be perma banned.

We’re you not in the thread bout the teacher hugging the student and saying there was nothing wrong with it

 

[The ADD]

#ThisIsGospel

I'm willing to say 95% of men of this era don't seem to have any interest in molding/teaching their women. Most spend more time on their Madden create a player than their woman,then wonder why their woman isn't happy. Wonder why their woman isn't making them happy. And wonder why modern women aren't wifey material. If your not putting any sort of investment into your partner,you make it real easy to walk away.
So next time you wonder why somebody could just turn off their emotions and walk away so easily?
Its usually because they didn't invest that much time,thought,effort into the relationship.
And even if they did at one point in the relationship,I'm willing to bet they slowly were making withdrawals from the account(relationship) and you weren't noticing. When scammers get you for your bank account they take 3$ here, 5$ there before they make the big $1000 dollar withdrawal. Meanwhile you invested a lot,were still invested. When you are invested you better pay attention to the details. Pay attention to those 3$, 5$ withdrawals and ask questions. It may be nothing,or it may be the precursor to the rug pull.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Has he had other gf besides u

9 years a long time to still be hooked to someone who moved on

Usually a new woman will help him get over u

Nah. I’m sure he still has sex with other women. It’s a weird complicated situation honestly.

 

[Vodun]

I’m on this same wave breh. I always tell women (and it always creates an awkward moment or creates an argument, but IDGAF), I’d rather have your loyalty than your “love”. Love is just a feeling. And feelings change. I’ve had, AT LEAST, 25 women tell me that they “love” me over the course of my lifetime and I couldn’t get any of them to simply have a phone conversation with me if I tried (haven’t and won’t). So what good is your “love” if it’s fleeting and fickle. Keep that shyt. But loyalty. That’s an ACTION. We can be on bad terms and you’ll still remain loyal to me if that’s what we on. Better stop living your life like you in a Disney cartoon or a cheesy romantic comedy. Real life ain’t like what you see in them Hollywood movies. Ain’t no love out here. They’ll LIKE you a lot, at best, as long as you’re jumping through all her hoops, putting up with her bullshyt, being her human lapdog, and sending her regular cash apps and gifts. When that shyt stops, so does her “love” for you. Y’all gonna learn

Spitting nothing but truth breh

My mom said something similar not to long. My mom is a street chick she said this. Most times people think they love you but in reality they don't. They associate that strong emotion as love but it really isn't. When your in love with somebody you don't want nobody else. It's like your under a spell or some shyt. Your soul opens up completely to that other person. That's where the major pain of heartbreak comes from. Only a few people can handle that type of love.


So when you experience heartbreak that shyt damage your soul on a deep level. That's why so people have died because the pain if loss was so much the body and mind couldn't take it.

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

Is this your first heartbreak, breh?

Nah breh it was my second

 

[EffYou]

OP in his room bumpin



I feel you tho



Now it’s HOH

Naw trust, I just like creating places for people to vent lol