Help a shy breh out

[blqbird]

About a month ago, I ran into a co-worker of mine that I ended up feeling (but never told her). Later that week, I find out that one of my other co-workers told her that I did and she said I was good but that I never talked to her when she came through.

Shortly after this, she starts putting herself where I'm at when see work the same days (I'll be in my aisle putting shyt up and she'll either walk through to go somewhere else or she'll come with like 1 item to fumble with on the shelf.)
I've always been introverted so my shyness was at 100% during all this and it came off as me ignoring her existence most of the time.


As the days and weeks progressed, she started being more blatant with it (like looking at me longer than normal as I walk past.) Last night, I came to work faded (Thought it would help) at and completely bombed from paranoia not saying anything in the process. She still came through my aisle as usual to see if I would say something and I just couldn't brehs.

I see her again this Sunday and I really just want to get the number. How do I go about this and redeem myself?

 

[kevin arnold]

Open your fukkin mouth

 

[Address_Unknown]

About a month ago, I ran into a co-worker of mine that I ended up feeling (but never told her). Later that week, I find out that one of my other co-workers told her that I did and she said I was good but that I never talked to her when she came through.

Shortly after this, she starts putting herself where I'm at when see work the same days (I'll be in my aisle putting shyt up and she'll either walk through to go somewhere else or she'll come with like 1 item to fumble with on the shelf.)
I've always been introverted so my shyness was at 100% during all this and it came off as me ignoring her existence most of the time.


As the days and weeks progressed, she started being more blatant with it (like looking at me longer than normal as I walk past.) Last night, I came to work faded (Thought it would help) at and completely bombed from paranoia not saying anything in the process. She still came through my aisle as usual to see if I would say something and I just couldn't brehs.

I see her again this Sunday and I really just want to get the number. How do I go about this and redeem myself?

Stop this.
Even if you ain't saying much or anything at all, offer her a smile. A smiling but shy dude has a better chance at initiating contact with a female than one who turns away and ignores. Being ignored for so long no matter what the circumstance WILL, DRIVE, MOST, SANE, PEOPLE, AWAY.

Even if it's a head nod or a small silent laugh at something she does.....YOU, got to show some sorta interest, man. Start small. Acknowledge her and then you'll prolly get to talking.

Best of luck, man.

 

[JQ Legend]

Ask her what that mouth do

If she goes tell her u mean how come she never speaks?

If she don't go u

Win/win

 

[Brolic Scholar]

What exactly are afraid of @blqbird ? If she's throwing you the signals why haven't you talked to her? Please don't say because you're shy. WHY are you shy? What's the fear in this situation.

 

[SirReginald]

Don't ever date coworkers and take a acting or public speaking class to work on your shyness.

 

[ADK]

nikka this is a layup. Even awkward ass high school me woulda got in that.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

What exactly are afraid of @blqbird ? If she's throwing you the signals why haven't you talked to her? Please don't say because you're shy. WHY are you shy? What's the fear in this situation.

The fear is not knowing what to say and fukkin it up when he finally does say something. Which is stupid logic because he's fukkin it up right now anyways.

Say something, anything op, at least a hey, how's it going, how you doing, fukk this job, tell her some about you like and know about, a compliment even.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Don't ever date coworkers and take a acting or public speaking class to work on your shyness.

Whatever you do, DON’T listen to this dude. OP you work at a grocery store, not a career at all, just strike up a convo and set up plans to see each other outside work. Worst case scenario is you get curved, which is nothing tbh.

 

[Adidacs]

is she even bad? a baddie wouldn’t be doing all this

regardless, you sound like you’ll take anything atm.. if you want her just start off by nonchalantly saying “hey what’s up” don’t try to do much and report back

man up now or forever hold your nut nikka

 

[Big Brown Areola]

 

[Turbulent]

Normally i would say don't shyt where you eat but if you don't depend on this job then go for it.

One thing i will tell you though is that whatever you are doing now, she is trying to get at you. So while you will have to talk to her, don't switch up dramatically and become Mr. Super-friendly with a big smile out of the blue cause that would be creepy as fukk. Also don't worry about awkwardness, or "messing it up". Just remember, she's nervous too on some level. Just say hi and go from there. Have you ever spoken to her before?

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Quit being a lil faqqot Breh

 

[Man]

• The key is to treat hoes like you’ve already fukked and before you know it you’ll be up in them guts

• Another way I could tell you is that wake up! Nobody in this world actually gives a shyt about you or cares, stop worrying and thinking so much about your ego

• Search the company records for where she lives and send her an flowers and a little bit some note introducing yourself and explaining how you feel in text. You’ll stand out from all the other guys and it’ll show how serious and romantic you are

• Or just start by talking to her about regular shyt and find common ground like “what section of shelves you stacking today Queen?” “ how about them mean bosses we have haha whoooo haha don’t you just hate this place also?” “morning sweetie pie, I really hate this uniform but you make it look so good with your big assets” “man that Trump sure is something else huh?, what you doing after work today”
• Hang yourself

 

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