Help me become more manly
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The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
Grind in school, do your best in it. It'll help gas yourself confidence up a bit.
If you're making money, save it, only buy shyt you really like.
If you buy clothes, make sure you learn how to dress.. looking good with clothes YOU LIKE helps with confidence.
Small goals.
Just take care of shyt in general. Don't let shyt fester, keep yourself in check (doing basic shyt like clean your room, take out the trash)
Youtube how to do stuff you like.
Go to bed early
Gym and stuff is optional. However, if you are a dork without muscles.. you will just be a dork with them.
You need to have GUTS
Don't get caught up in TOO MUCH rat race shyt right now. Just smell good, keep getting a good haircut, finish your studies. Get your interneship when it's time.
If you're making money, save it, only buy shyt you really like.
If you buy clothes, make sure you learn how to dress.. looking good with clothes YOU LIKE helps with confidence.
Small goals.
Just take care of shyt in general. Don't let shyt fester, keep yourself in check (doing basic shyt like clean your room, take out the trash)
Youtube how to do stuff you like.
Go to bed early
Gym and stuff is optional. However, if you are a dork without muscles.. you will just be a dork with them.
You need to have GUTS
Don't get caught up in TOO MUCH rat race shyt right now. Just smell good, keep getting a good haircut, finish your studies. Get your interneship when it's time.
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Stop jerking off
This nikka watches tranny porn?
This, basically. Get the bag, give no fukks.
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
Next time you go out in public, walk around holdin your nuts with your chin up and your chest out giving people the "dont fukk with me" look.
Walk with a limp to.
Walk with a limp to.
I'm obviously a male, but I don't feel like a MAN. I just don't feel like I inspire feelings of respect/attention in people.
I'm currently in college, majoring in marketing. Facial wise, I could still pass for a 9th grader. That's not a benefit, I'm still ugly as hellI just look like a young ugly nikka. On top of that, I have a noticeable lazy eye due to health reasons & little kids either laugh at me or stare at me with the
face & I feel like, while adults don't necessarily do that, they're thinking it in their mind.
My only manly feature is that I'm pretty tall (6 feet) but I'm still fat
Since I can't drive due to low vision, I don't know anything about cars/mechanics
Due to my poor health, I couldn't play contact sports
I know, I know, I can't be so down on myself, but every so often I think of myself, and I think of the Big T vs. DNA battle, when Big T said "nikka, HOW YOU GON BE UGLY AND SOFT?!?!"
Work
Learn to fix a car
Dreamzeedream
Banned
The gym will change his mentality.plus it"ll help with his confidence and the women. He do gotta have guts
Yall telling me to work, I got 2 jobs
You gotta hit that reset button and work on your confidence and feeling secure within yourself.
Write down three things THAT YOU like about yourself. Then three things OTHERS SEE IN YOU.
Meditate, get out of your mind. Your mind is filled with negative thoughts because overtime you’ve allowed your mind to settle on that negative speech until you believed it. That’s not who you are, breh. You’re better than that.
Also, hit the gym. It sounds cliche but physical activity is necessary! If you cant do a gym, walk...do something physical.
I think it all goes back to loving yourself or at least getting to a point where you just don’t care as much what people think, which I know isn’t necessarily an easy place to get to – another way to look at it is this: we don’t know what’s going on in the lives of those other people that we presume are being judgmental. Ultimately, all we can do is to live our lives to the best of our own abilities and try our best not to worry about being judged by others, whether it be in the context of our religion, our career, our lives in general or in your case the physical.
Breh, you’re here for a reason and your journey can start a new chapter - tap into your inner soul and let it do the rest.
Write down three things THAT YOU like about yourself. Then three things OTHERS SEE IN YOU.
Meditate, get out of your mind. Your mind is filled with negative thoughts because overtime you’ve allowed your mind to settle on that negative speech until you believed it. That’s not who you are, breh. You’re better than that.
Also, hit the gym. It sounds cliche but physical activity is necessary! If you cant do a gym, walk...do something physical.
I think it all goes back to loving yourself or at least getting to a point where you just don’t care as much what people think, which I know isn’t necessarily an easy place to get to – another way to look at it is this: we don’t know what’s going on in the lives of those other people that we presume are being judgmental. Ultimately, all we can do is to live our lives to the best of our own abilities and try our best not to worry about being judged by others, whether it be in the context of our religion, our career, our lives in general or in your case the physical.
Breh, you’re here for a reason and your journey can start a new chapter - tap into your inner soul and let it do the rest.
follow down the path of righteousness, cleanliness, obey the commandments & laws given to you by The Most High
there are answers for everything in the BIBLE.. it took a life manual.. if was written in the past but a book of the future
there are answers for everything in the BIBLE.. it took a life manual.. if was written in the past but a book of the future
Go to the gym or take a boxing class
Read
Have your home in order
Have your finances in order
Volunteer. Helping others makes you feel less sorry for yourself
Travel. Life experience
Stop comparing yourself to others
Ask how you can add value to others
Set goals and work towards them
Journal
Watch comedy and develop a sense of humor
Get a hobby
Connect with nature
Learn to cook
Being a man isnt easy but put alot more emphasis into loving yourself over societies opinions
Work on experiences that give you more confidence and a stronger sense of self.
Read
Have your home in order
Have your finances in order
Volunteer. Helping others makes you feel less sorry for yourself
Travel. Life experience
Stop comparing yourself to others
Ask how you can add value to others
Set goals and work towards them
Journal
Watch comedy and develop a sense of humor
Get a hobby
Connect with nature
Learn to cook
Being a man isnt easy but put alot more emphasis into loving yourself over societies opinions
Work on experiences that give you more confidence and a stronger sense of self.
