LadySimone
Banned
I don't know about sex but I know the main reason I have cut guys off at the start from even conversing with me is his approach or personality . You have to have charisma, or (as much as I hate this word) swag. You may not be attractive to me but if I feel like I'm missing out on something by not entertaining your conversation then chances are you will AT LEAST get my number.
I'm going to be honest if the dude isn't totally ugly but knows how to speak and be normal than I do give my number. It may not materialise into ball sucking but at least we get to know each other. It's a shame for many men that if they do to get sex than it's a total waste. That's where I think so much of black men's sexism comes from. Women have zero use outside of casual sex. When they don't get it it's like this woman should be dead or something.

...we both ho's here.

