High value men and their theory on wearing suits everywhere. Y’all believe them?

Ahadi

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Unless you at a funeral or interview chances are you shouldn’t be wearing a suit.

Notice I didn’t say wedding. If you’re not in the wedding, you should NOT be wearing a suit.

There’s better ways to imply power and definitely style other than a suit. Get your blazer game up. Suits are somewhat outdated if they’re out of place, and it’s not the flex you think. You look either old or out of place or swagless. Powerful sure but so is somebody grandad

A blazer with white button up no tie with some chinos and dope dress shoes imply power AND style. She wanna date a fly ngga not Steve Harvey

Dress how you want to be addressed. It also depends on how your suit is cut, tailored, styled. Etc.

Nothing wrong with wearing a suit, hitting a nice lounge, smelling good, grabbing a nice drink, and making convo. Going on a new restaurant by yourself, air tie, with a nice suit on, Burberry scarf.

But I’m not going to tell anyone, especially black men they shouldn’t be wearing one. Image needs to be your #1, not worrying about being around a bytch who wants a “fly n gga”

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Some points they bring up:
1.) women look at you more
2.) women are more interested in you.
3.) if you don’t wear suits everywhere you will only attract ghetto girls.
4.) people are generally more interested and will give you top notch treatment even before getting to know you.

I only agree with number 4.).

As for number 1 I do not believe that wearing a suit all day long makes you all of a sudden get every girl walking down the street.

I believe it that style only attracts “superficial” chicks.

What y’all think?

I haven't dressed up since before the pandemic hit, and most times have on a hoodie and have had no problems :eat: out here.
 

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I don’t know about suits being outdated but I can agree with the rest of your post. It’s the TYPE of suit you wear. People be out here thinking they’re killing it with them ill fitting suits from Burlington and shyt. I’ve willed myself into being able to wear slim fit suits and I am not trying to go back lol. You just have to know how to pick a nice modern suit that fits well. I’m still not wearing them to go to Walmart or some shyt though
Great point. I meant to say that too, some of the suit game you don’t know til older. So if you’re younger and ‘don’t know’ that’s perfectly fine. But you gotta have the right suit and look the part, from suit to shoes to grooming.
 

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Some points they bring up:
1.) women look at you more
2.) women are more interested in you.
3.) if you don’t wear suits everywhere you will only attract ghetto girls.
4.) people are generally more interested and will give you top notch treatment even before getting to know you.

I only agree with number 4.).

As for number 1 I do not believe that wearing a suit all day long makes you all of a sudden get every girl walking down the street.

I believe it that style only attracts “superficial” chicks.

What y’all think?

Women look at me more when I go out at specific lounges, hotel bars, restaurants, etc.

They’re interested in me and what I do, but also I’m in a mid-size city so I stand out regardless. If you play your cards right, it’s an easy hook up. Jus don’t be all “logical”, keep it fun & mysterious.

Dress how you want to be addressed. Ppl will approach you, especially as a black man well put together. Literally an easy lay up, if you stay in the gym & get a nice tailored suit with a button down.

People do give you proper / top notch treatment. More “sir” than anything else.

Superficial? No. Unless you’re a brand thot, I haven’t had that.
 

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I live and Dress comfortable AF, damn near look homeless. (Basketball shorts and a t shirt) Win win for me because I’m an introvert and people don’t talk to me, and vendors don’t stop me to try to sell me Shyt…

Aye, bruh..I’m just out here to grab wifey food she was craving,I ain’t trying to look cute for nobody .

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Great point. I meant to say that too, some of the suit game you don’t know til older. So if you’re younger and ‘don’t know’ that’s perfectly fine. But you gotta have the right suit and look the part, from suit to shoes to grooming.
Lord knows I had to learn sone things :russ: Y’all would roast me to oblivion if I posted me in this suit that I wore when I was in my early 20’s. I thoughtI was killing it at the hotel reception for my job
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Some points they bring up:
1.) women look at you more
2.) women are more interested in you.
3.) if you don’t wear suits everywhere you will only attract ghetto girls.
4.) people are generally more interested and will give you top notch treatment even before getting to know you.

I only agree with number 4.).

As for number 1 I do not believe that wearing a suit all day long makes you all of a sudden get every girl walking down the street.

I believe it that style only attracts “superficial” chicks.

What y’all think?

Gonna be a lot of “well dressed dusties” from this forum putting on suits now :mjlol:
 

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The only point I don't believe is #3. Everything else I gotta agree with or make a concession to because drawing women is about tangible demonstration. What are you demonstrating on a physical plane, since we are the half tasked with dealing with the physical realm.

A suit 95-100% of the time demonstrates business/money.

I say this wearing sweats and PPE every day before someone gets tight.
 

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Unless you're main interest is in pretending to be something you aren't, this is idiotic. Rich or well off men don't even wear suits daily or everywhere so why would you? This entire concept is so focused on appearing successful and pretending to be the man.

Your car will get you more attention than your clothes. Women might also recognize your watch, whether you're in a suit or not. But wearing a wack suit isn't going to get you anywhere, especially if it's clear you're fronting. I've seen a few young guys walking around in suits that aren't tailored. Clown behavior.
 

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It’s relative, I’m sure it may get you a second look, but it’s no key to unlocking women no more than having a 6 pack, yeah it will get you looks here and there, but if you a goofy or lack conversation you will still be dry dikk Dan round this bytch
 
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