Hip Hop destroyed Dating & Relationships?

Roid Jones

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Nah dating apps and nikkas having no standards did that, anytime the Lizzo's of the world don't recognize their place it's all bad.

Watch one of these clowns try and deflect and reply with something that essentially makes men weak and unaccountable
 

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Started in the 80s with welfare.. which led to a lot of these chicks into the 90s yelling “ I don’t need a man” because they knew it doesn’t matter who they fukk and got pregnant by, step daddy welfare would set them up with food stamps and section 8….

then led to feminism and combined with this boss bytch shyt of today on social media, the whole community is in disarray
 

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yeah at one point i was avg like 3-5 dates a week, there is always someone hotter or someone with a better body, or better career, or more freakier.
That sounds expensive b. I ain’t paying for drinks for 3 to 5 different women I don’t know every week lol.
 

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That sounds expensive b. I ain’t paying for drinks for 3 to 5 different women I don’t know every week lol.

Wasn't paying for drinks etc., due to covid indoor dining was closed. First dates consisted off walks mainly or other cheap activities.

All I was implying though that it's hard in this generation to enter in a relationship when it's like a buffet. I'd go out with a girl and she'd be cute we had a great time but then two days later I'm going out with a girl whose thicker than a snicker and suddenly i ain't thinking about that cute girl anymore, then a day later going out with a girl whose thicker than a snicker and is a lawyer who invites me up to her flashy waterfront condo, and then two days later going out with a girl whose a doctor and likes the same things I do.

I could never be satisfied but I'm currently dating a great girl and tapped out of the game
 
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Coach Greg Adams is 100% correct. I hope people commenting actually watched the video. He's basically is saying that rap influenced the real life identity of black men to become or at least imitate something that only a few brothas in the community were really doing for the purpose of getting laid. And it's gotten to the point that it's on par with the crack era in terms of deteriorating the black community. :yeshrug:
 

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I’m talking about the youth, we know your dumbass ain’t out there

You damn right I'm not.
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So I'm above the influence. :ohhh: :jawalrus:
Are you 16 and in the hood? Are you up against it like a lot of youngsters are? Just because you don’t go out and buy a Chevy after seeing an add for it doesn’t mean someone else didn’t. Same thing with drill music. There are other factors. And you’re a grown ass man with real world experience. Not some 16 year old in north Memphis. Drill and Trap make it seem real like a kid can aspire to be that. Marvel movies are different. But don’t act like we don’t strive for rappers to have street cred. If you can’t be anything else they think they can be gang gang. But you will bury your head in the sand.
 
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