you should stop doing "routines". you went in trying to impress her and trying to win her over so you're basically showing her she's already above you. why would she want to fukk with someone beneath her?
it,s funny how a lot of us think we have to do something extra and spectacular to get chicks. but trust me breh, a lot of time, it's the boring straight approach that will get the chick. if the chick is giving you the signs, you can approach with an almost boring style. she will either cooperate or not. but if she was giving you the signs she was choosing and still rejects you, it's one of 3 things:
1. Her perception of you changed negatively when you approached for whatever reason (you either said or did something she didn't like, or she noticed something)
2. You misinterpreted the signs to begin with
3. She's playing games/fronting
And if you approached while being true to yourself and putting your best foot forward, it doesn't matter which of the three it is, you need to abort the mission. the interaction doesn't define you. it's just one chick. don't try to win her over cause then you're digging yourself into a deeper hole cause again, if you came at her with your best foot forward and being true to yourself, which ever of the three options it was, you will have to be fake to win her over. unless you're a true player who loves the game, it's not worth the time and energy.
i'm writing a whole lot but all this to say, stop doing routines breh.