Hoe phases aren't good for women wanting marriage

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Can a broad that been ran through, not constantly compare her current guy to the ghosts of nikkas past?
If he's the best she ever had... Once again.... Good luck.

Hell, being the best of 10 guys is still 10% chance of it being you

You could really be the second guy she ever fukked and never compare to the first and be stuck the rest of your life as last place
 

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Meanwhile, the lowest odds of marital happiness—about 13 percentage points lower than the one-partner women—belong to women who have had six to 10 sexual partners in their lives. For men, there’s still a dip in marital satisfaction after one partner, but it’s never as low as it gets for women, as Wolfinger’s graph shows:

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Those data points are “noisy” as we say in the industry

The graph shows marital satisfaction for women dips significantly from 3 to 4 premarital partners, but stays stable for men in that interval.

But satisfaction rises for women at 5 partners, but drops significantly for men and does an inverse for both with a few more partners.

The conclusion is male and female virgins are more ideal marriage partners for each other for obvious reasons.

Any argument outside of that is stupid, gender war bias
 

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By a conservative estimate a hoe phase starts at 18 and ends at 45.
Women at 45 looking for marriage aren't serious contenders for marriage.
At some point women have to make a choice whether to listen to their homegirls low-key gaslighting them for 27 years or get the ring.

:francis::francis::francis:
How is that your homegirl, but she secretly jealous of you. Your friend happily married, but all she tell you about is the bad parts that ain't eem that bad. Your friend just exaggeratin' about some minor problems to keep you from gettin' your lifetime happiness.

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Keep it a buck, you can't be single stuntin' with a ring on your married friends you ain't got.
 
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In all honesty, all of this is deeper than sex.

Brehs will say things like “Jada misses Pac, she’d be happy if Pac were still alive and she were with him”.

But dudes don’t understand that if Pac were alive and she was with him, she’d probably be wondering what things would’ve been like if she’d stayed with Will Smith or some other dude she’s dealt with.

Same with Ayesha Curry. If she had a “hoe phase” and settled down with a simp or were still single, she’d still be unhappy and likely wondering what her life would be like if she’d stayed with Steph Curry.

It scares dudes to admit this because then they’re forced to accept that there is nothing they can do about it.

Your money, looks, lifestyle, bedroom skills, none of that shyt matters at the end of the day because to a lot of women the grass is always greener somewhere else, until they realize it’s not. And then it’s too late.:unimpressed:
 

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Here me out...

I don't think it's sex, sex is just correlated.

It's the institution itself. Marriage wasn't established for love. It was for security and the movement of resources and property without families fighting after the breadwinner died.

Women don't need dudes as much as they used to, so the grass appears greener. In fact, they don't really need us at all.

Think about it, as a dude, would your lady's sex keep you as a husband if everything else was shyt or subpar? And by no means am I saying the 50 or 70% of marriages initiated by women purely initiated complete shyt, it's everything she's perceiving to suck stacking up on top of each other.

By saying all of this, I ain't supporting dikk-hopping behavior, I'm just saying it's related, it's not the reason.
 
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What happens if a woman is in her hoe phase but she falls in love with a guy and he rejects her and only wants sex?
 

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Those data points are “noisy” as we say in the industry

The graph shows marital satisfaction for women dips significantly from 3 to 4 premarital partners, but stays stable for men in that interval.

But satisfaction rises for women at 5 partners, but drops significantly for men and does an inverse for both with a few more partners.

The conclusion is male and female virgins are more ideal marriage partners for each other for obvious reasons.

Any argument outside of that is stupid, gender war bias

exactly; of course two lames would be perfect for each other didn't need some fancy chart 2 tell me that :camby:
 
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If he's the best she ever had... Once again.... Good luck.

Hell, being the best of 10 guys is still 10% chance of it being you

You could really be the second guy she ever fukked and never compare to the first and be stuck the rest of your life as last place
And where them type women fukk up at is they're always peeping around the corner thinking something better is there
Choosey Suzy
 

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And where them type women fukk up at is they're always peeping around the corner thinking something better is there
Choosey Suzy
Yes... and as most hoes will tell you of both genders, you'll find out that shyt is empty and for the birds and it's best to sit your ass down with someone cause you know where that other life had you

When you never had that life, you start believing your single friends stories of nights with halle berry and never feeling lonely or sad about it.. Even George Clooney was forced to lean back
 

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To those of you wondering how you can dominate an aspect of life of your interest, take notes here. Perform several studies on seemingly inconsequential topics. Stand back and review what the data says.
 

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it's the same for men too.

and there have been a few studies that revealed that couples who entered marriage as virgins had the most fulfilling sex throughout the life of their marriage compared to those who didn't.
This shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who ever took Humans 101, ie life.

Ignorance is bliss and your crowd decides how thick that Ignorance is.

Someone who's experienced tons of different people is like someone who has eaten a million different ice creams.

Hard to be cool with vanilla when you're craving Rocky Road.

Vs someone who thinks all ice cream tastes just like vanilla.

You can’t miss what you don't know.

Men and women.
 

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A lot of white girls go through it during the college years but end up married to a dude with a good career

Pawgs be staking their claims quick to dudes with money making potential and not just getting a baby, but gettin that ring.
 

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it's the same for men too.

and there have been a few studies that revealed that couples who entered marriage as virgins had the most fulfilling sex throughout the life of their marriage compared to those who didn't.


In the 80's.
Not with social media, access to porn, religious element, etc
 

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Devil’s advocate a woman who had a hoe phase for a few months or years and a sex worker/whore are not the same.

:yeshrug:

Just like a woman who slept with three men and a woman who had a train ran on her by three men are not the same. There are levels to it.
Im responding to a man who said he doesn’t care if she was a prostitute or pornstar. So my post is directed towards that demographic.

Don’t reply to that post in an effort to start talking about normal women.
 
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