MrSinnister
Delete account when possible.
And one more aside, as I know I'm taking up too much of a thread not dedicated to this, but I'm not a player or ever cheated on a woman. I'm just saying that when you're dealing with a borderline, that is going to force a strong codependency relationship, the advice is you're going to need another person when they do those raging cold spells to maintain your own value.
Your collective self value is very important to maintaining a borderline relationship. She must always feel your worth is higher, or she will abandon you first. Their main fear is abandonment, and they're already abused people that are also prone to abuse. I don't advocate treating someone who perpetually feels like shyt worse, just for sex. They have a pretty high suicide rate, and when you get into their history, you see why.
It's just you need to find your own comfort, because they're the most emotionally draining people, and the most motivated when your worth level stays higher, that you can meet.
Your collective self value is very important to maintaining a borderline relationship. She must always feel your worth is higher, or she will abandon you first. Their main fear is abandonment, and they're already abused people that are also prone to abuse. I don't advocate treating someone who perpetually feels like shyt worse, just for sex. They have a pretty high suicide rate, and when you get into their history, you see why.
It's just you need to find your own comfort, because they're the most emotionally draining people, and the most motivated when your worth level stays higher, that you can meet.


It's what you make of it and allow to happen, and how you're taking what's going on. Not advisable really....but these are just tips in case you happen to come across them, which you will. They're very intelligent people, some of them, but have little emotional IQ or real empathy.
Looking back whenever I talked about how I had stuff to do. was keeping busy etc, she wanted to meet me
I'd make her fall in love with me and vamp. It's pretty much been CM Punk's entire MO in dealing with the divas. I bet he could still even cuck Edge right now.

