Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[num123]

I mean if you are going out with someone just for sex I would not care too much, but if i am trying to date someone and they just hop to another dikk like that? They have to be bushed. You can't mix monogamy with FWB behavior. If you are dealing with someone that is moving like that and you are not, you have an easy choice to make.

 

[jadillac]

church girls be the biggest hoes/reformed hoes though. you may be inclined even more to assume she sleeping with somebody.

Nicca. I LITERALLY typed in parentheses what I typed about the church girl because I KNEW y'all would go there. And you still went there.

 

[Mordith]

WTF? You learn that shyt by talking to the women and actually spending time to get to know them. In what way does it take fukking a woman to learn what kind of woman she is. If you listen long enough every foul woman drops hints at their character and what type of woman they are. The problem is too many times we too horny to pick up on the signals..

You are missing the context of the conversation I was having. I suggest you go read the post of mine that he quoted and then you will understand my response.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I wouldnt care

Id be fukking other women until we were together too

 

[folasade]

This is such a non-serious issue. It was their first date, they weren't exclusive and it doesn't necessarily say anything about her as a person because people do have a casual sex. If they were actually a couple that would be different.

 

[Scaaar]

A better thread question is, what is SINGLE?

I think that's the crux of the issue alot of times.

Is SINGLE sleeping with 3 different men because you don't want or can't get them to commit? So you're "single" even tho you're being smutted out?

Or are you actually single as in you're not involved with anyone.

I've met a few women who literally are single and haven't had sex in over a year, and I've met others who are likely what I described above

How do you know they haven't slept with anyone over a year? Because they told you? They could be using toys as a substitute because they don't want to actually do the self work that's required to be in a healthy relationship. So they could be even crazier than the chick you claim is being admitted out. But at least she's trying. You keep falling for that celibacy trap if you want to.

 

[folasade]

She didn't. At the same time, why is she going on dates if she's already getting fukked by some dude? You'd never hear the end of it if the roles were reversed and a woman finds out you fukked another bytch after dropping her off at home on your first date.

Having casual sex doesn't mean you have to stop dating. She may have wanted dikk while still looking for a relationship. That's normal. And men do that all the time.

 

[SunZoo]

Who gives a fukk lol

It was your first date, you weren't exclusive or fulfilling any needs of hers at that point sexual or otherwise.

 

[JT-Money]

Other guy pumped and dumped her but his pride wouldn't let him settle for sloppy 2nds. Didn't think this generation had it in them.

When you're inner voice is telling you something is wrong listen. Most dudes these days have zero pride and don't mind being considered a cuck.

 

[Apollo Creed]

She didn't. At the same time, why is she going on dates if she's already getting fukked by some dude? You'd never hear the end of it if the roles were reversed and a woman finds out you fukked another bytch after dropping her off at home on your first date.

The issue is women on avg can float around investing nothing when it comes to dating. This is what triggers dudes who invest and get nothing out of it lol. This why you don't waste time with people who don't like you and if you in a rush to go out do free shyt and if she don't wanna do free shyt she doesn't like.you

 

[jadillac]

How do you know they haven't slept with anyone over a year? Because they told you? They could be using toys as a substitute because they don't want to actually do the self work that's required to be in a healthy relationship. So they could be even crazier than the chick you claim is being admitted out. But at least she's trying. You keep falling for that celibacy trap if you want to.

Breh, I know married women who have toys bc their husband travel alot. Toys don't count anymore than a man rubbing one out.

Since when does "selfwork" have to do with finding a partner? Everyone is not out here damaged, some people just can't find good dating options dependent upon where they live. Especially as a minority.

I get hit up all the time by women 200 miles away on dating apps bc they live in areas with low population and/or not much options.

 

[DaHNIC82]

This is such a non-serious issue. It was their first date, they weren't exclusive and it doesn't necessarily say anything about her as a person because people do have a casual sex. If they were actually a couple that would be different.

It's only serious if she led him on.. if she gave this nikka the whole "We got to know each other first" al speech where she turned him down and he had to go on 3 or 4 dates to finally hit or get a relationship whereas a dude can just slide in them guts with little to no effort . It fukks with dude

 

[Coco Loco]

This thread is interesting

Where are y'all finding these single attractive unicorns, with no one on their line, just waiting for you to pop up and take them on a date?

 

[Savvir]

She wasn't exclusive with him and it was their first date....

He gotta decide on whether he can handle this and either get over it or move on.....

pretty simple

 

[Heretic]

I can't mess with reckless women, they put everyone around them in harms way, so I probably would've ended it too but every case is different.