Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

[Fani Willis fan]

people stay ignoring red flags.

 

[jadillac]

And you actually believed that bullshyt

They say shyt like that to spare y’all’s feelings.

Some of you guys think you know everything.

I'm telling you there are some women who are honest about stuff and some who aren't.

There's women who ain't sht and some who are.

If you have discernment as a man, you can sniff it out fairly well. It's not just what comes out of her mouth, it's the entirety of her being and everything and everyone around her. Observe ALL OF that and you will know, or at least have a good idea, if she's a keeper or not. Anybody can spot a bird.

 

[BrehWyatt]

This is such a non-serious issue. It was their first date, they weren't exclusive and it doesn't necessarily say anything about her as a person because people do have a casual sex. If they were actually a couple that would be different.

What she did may not say much about her character (depending on who you ask), but her lying about it definitely says something about her character. His looking for it says something about his character, too.

Besides, the guy acknowledged that the whole thing made him feel like he wasn't the first choice. He may be insecure, but it's completely fair for anyone not to want to feel that way or have enough pride to not go for it.

It's only serious if she led him on.. if she gave this nikka the whole "We got to know each other first" al speech where she turned him down and he had to go on 3 or 4 dates to finally hit or get a relationship whereas a dude can just slide in them guts with little to no effort . It fukks with dude

That'll piss off many a man.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

It's nothing you can do to prevent these type of situations. I'm glad dude broke it off though.

Crazy that some are in here acting like he should be okay with it

 

[Mordith]

Once again comparing yourself to a women lol

nikkas happily spending money and courting a women so you can drop her off and a random nikka can come eat it from the back


You at home playing 2k telling yourself “it’s okay, it’s only the first date ”


If a bytch not letting you fukk first date and she getting gunned by another nikka, she wasn’t fukking wit u like that

Y’all in here talm bout “game” and “we weren’t exclusive yet” sound like some nikkas who have spent their whole life getting spun by women

My nikka you have posted on here recently how you've been struggling to keep a roof over your head. You need to get that situation stable before you get all up in grown folks conversations....

 

[num123]

She owed him nothing after only one date. They were basically strangers

The problem is when is the point that they stop becoming "strangers"? When should she (or if the scenario was reversed, he) stop fukking other people while dating this one person?

2 dates, 3 or even 4? Should she stop when they become "official"? When does the taking of other dikks stop in this scenario that is reasonable for the people that are okay with it?

At some point you have to realize, if you are dating someone with the expectation of a serious relationship, you can't continue to behave in a way reserved for single people. Even the word "single" is subjective because there are people that fukk a bunch of people they are familiar with but still will put out that they are with no one. If you are fukking someone or people you know, you are not fukking single in my eyes just because you do not have that boyfriend/girlfriend title.

 

[Scaaar]

My nikka you have posted on here recently how you've been struggling to keep a roof over your head. You need to get that situation stable before you get all up in grown folks conversations....

He sholl came in here wolfin with all that red pill talk. He one step from being a hobosexual trying to give relationship advice.

 

[folasade]

What she did may not say much about her character (depending on who you ask), but her lying about it definitely says something about her character. His looking for it says something about his character, too.

Besides, the guy acknowledged that the whole thing made him feel like he wasn't the first choice. He may be insecure, but it's completely fair for anyone not to want to feel that way or have enough pride to not go for it.



That'll piss off many a man.

Her lying isn't a good look, but I understand why she lied. She most likely knew he couldn't handle it and he and proved it.


Regarding being the first choice, he's not entitled to her p*ssy. She has her own reasons for not wanting to have sex with him early on. She chose to be a relationship with him in the end until he went digging, so she clearly liked him.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

I was gonna write an essay about this but ultimately it boils down to what does he with the information.

If he can accept it, stay. If he can't accept it, leave

 

[folasade]

The problem is when is the point that they stop becoming "strangers"? When should she (or if the scenario was reversed, he) stop fukking other people while dating this one person?

2 dates, 3 or even 4? Should she stop when they become "official"? When does the taking of other dikks stop in this scenario that is reasonable for the people that are okay with it?

At some point you have to realize, if you are dating someone with the expectation of a serious relationship, you can't continue to behave in a way reserved for single people. Even the word "single" is subjective because there are people that fukk a bunch of people they are familiar with but still will put out that they are with no one. If you are fukking someone or people you know, you are not fukking single in my eyes just because you do not have that boyfriend/girlfriend title.

That's easy. Both parties communicate and decide to not sleep with other people.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

shorty might think its a good date, but she doesnt know if homeboy feels the same

i have been on dates where I thought me and the girl had a good time only for her to send me a paragraph and say shes not interested the next day. I've been on dates where i knew i was never gonna holla at the shorty again, even though I treated her the way a gentleman treats a woman.

One of the responses from him in that thread is that he texted her that he had fun and all that but she didn't reply until the following day.
If either one expressed that they didn't then they wouldn't have ended up as a couple

 

[num123]

That's easy. Both parties communicate and decide to not sleep with other people.

What if one person is not doing that, assuming the other one is and the other one is still out there messing around. That is a very common occurrence where one person will find out and get mad that the person they are dating is fukking someone else, just for the person they are dating to say they are not "serious" yet.

I have never heard of a situation where two people meet for the first time on a date hash out how many dates they should go on before they stop fukking other people. Again, if you are dating for a serious relationship then you need to be monogamous and if you are just going out to see what you can fukk, then do you but be honest with the other person.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He's a man so he needs to break it off (I see he did) because men want "ownership" over their women. Anything that messes up the fantasy is devastating for them. Might as well dead it instead of torturing them both.

To thr GF:
Damn bytch delete them old messages.

 

[Scaaar]

That's easy. Both parties communicate and decide to not sleep with other people.

I don't know why they are making it so complicated. It's literally 1+1=2 but they're trying to throw x, y, z in the equation. Some of these dudes love arguing more than women

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She owed him nothing after only one date. They were basically strangers

Facts