Hours after 1st Date She Let Another Man Hit | Boyfriend finds out 4 Months Later

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Let’s be reality

Even if a date is good you not going set up the next up the next immediately. A guy is going to pay it cool and a woman is going to leave it in the man’s court and follow is lead no pun intended

Everyone isn't like that. For some people (at least for me and my old lady), the intent for a second date is set up before the first one officially comes to an end if it was on point.
 

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Everyone isn't like that. For some people (at least for me and my old lady), the intent for a second date is set up before the first one officially comes to an end if it was on point.
may i ask how old yall are?

you can do that as a man, shorty will say yea lets do something - yet reject or dilly dally you when you follow up. you know a lot of these women have trouble rejecting dudes face to face
 

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My nikka you have posted on here recently how you've been struggling to keep a roof over your head. You need to get that situation stable before you get all up in grown folks conversations.... :pachaha:
Damn! :russ:
 

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may i ask how old yall are?

you can do that as a man, shorty will say yea lets do something - yet reject or dilly dally you when you follow up. you know a lot of these women have trouble rejecting dudes face to face

I'm 37, Wife's 34.

We met/got together during peak COVID, been married almost 2 years.
 

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I'm 37, Wife's 34.

We met/got together during peak COVID, been married almost 2 years.
good shyt. i feel we millenials are the last of a dying breed. to a degree we know how things used to be before all the apps and social media. so many of us still subscribe to those "rules"

if you younger than 30 its a free for all out there...a game of musical chairs
 

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I agree she didn't owe him anything.

As for the reliable dikk -- there's a lot of women in the world who'd rather go that route than add to their body count -- the way he took it, especially when it came out that the reliable dikk was attached to someone she dated but did not want a relationship with her -- fukked with his psyche. He said it left him feeling like he was somebody's second choice.

He did what was best for his ego and pride. Maybe he handles it better if it were just some random. I don't know.

On some level, I can understand. As wild as the timing is, I doubt it would've mattered that much if it were a random one-night stand.
I understand his feelings but if you've dated you been on both ends where you might have wanted something more from a person, or they wanted more from you and you just weren't feeling it or they weren't feeling it. It happens and that's life. Now if she chose him and was desiring the other man still then that would be different, but she blocked him.
 

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He's being overly sensitive. I always assume a woman has a fukk buddy. Until it's official I don't care. I have gone on dates went home and smashed a fukk buddy. Now if they were committed then I could understand, but it was one date and no one knew where it was going at that point.
 

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No you homeless bytch I wasn't.

You tried though. Go fukk in a box in a corner and stop being so sensitive.
Womp I’m not homeless though, didn’t your street walker days teach u not to believe what a man says?

Dumb bytch u fasho burnt out you wouldn’t even fix your lips to speak to a nikka like me irl, you used up hoe show some respect
 

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Idk why you would be mad at this, she was already hooking up with the other guy. She didn't know OP so she really didn't do anything wrong
Ego, which people are allowed to have. It's crazy thar we live in a time when it is acceptable for women to get an "ick" feeling 9ver whatever, but cornballs look to tell people what they should be cool with.

And the story is Reddit engagement trash. The reality is people have a way of willfully dancing around these matters.
 

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I have a guy like this. I always joke that we've been dating for 10 years. Never had sex with him but if he needs a date and he's not in a relationship he calls me.

He usually likes to use me to make other women mad. I've seen 3 women that were supposed to be his "friends" go into crying fits after meeting me.

I'M A JUST A PAWN LADIES!! :damn:

He's a scoundrel which is why you won't catch me being serious with him. But this man is an absolutely FANTASTIC date!

This man will take you to a NBA game, boat party, tapas, happy hour and a nice sit down restaurant in 1 date. I never miss a call.

:pachaha:

I know p*ssy be falling out the sky for him. Lol
Brehs can move like this too. But they be so focused on getting sex they literally be scaring women off. Just be honest and open upfront on how you're moving and date within your means.


Also yes p*ssy does just fall in your lap. :ohlawd:
 

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Look at all the Coli Cucks in here defending a whore. If yall wifed up whores who who had another brehs dingaling in their mouth the same night you tricked on her and just got a kiss on the cheek then I feel sorry for you. Yall never had a woman who really liked you. When she really likes you, you dont really gotta do anything.. no dates etc.. And you can easily smash on the first night if you really wanted to. Chicks that really like you will drop everything and everyone once they know they got a shot at dating you. If you know you know.

The guy in the OP admitted the chick wasnt really into him on the first date and didnt show signs. Thats yall first mistake right there. She gotta like you way more than you like her. Dude should have dropped her after the first date with her showing low interest. He pushed the issue so she went along with it but she doesnt respect him or like him. If she did she would have been thinking about him after the date and not some other dude. Sometime chicks will keep dating you simply cause you are spending money, tricking and showing them a good time.. They dont really like you.. just what you are doing for them. Many chicks date just to have fun. Don't be the "fun" I'm bored and need to go out guy.

And yall gotta stop conflating casual sex/dating with dating with a purpose. When you date with a purpose all that multi dating/ multi fukkin goes out the window. Find out what time she is on before the date.
 

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:sas2:Dudes calling doing a little detective work and knowing the fax being a bytch


Women got yall scared as fukk. nikkas is weak as fukk. Yall willing to let women play in your fukking face just to be cool.fukking idiots .
 
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