How are people that are young like me having kids

[Ciggavelli]

They were most likely unplanned and the mother doesn't believe in abortion

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Dont remind me

shyt aint been the same for me for a grip

 

[kaldurahm]

My philosophy is that if I have kids hopefully they can have a childhood better than mine. Otherwise why the hell am I having kids for?0

I want to provide the best for them hypothetically speaking. I don't want them to go through some of the bs I went through

Not to mention I can't just get any girl pregnant gotta be quality. I look at myself and I just think that I'm inadequate to have a kid. I'm not mature enough, don't have resources etc..

Some people it was an accident, some don't give a sht, some actually planned to have kids at a young age.

 

[King Poetic]

only chicks i see real happy and content with kids and even though it's a struggle sometimes are sisters with good paying jobs and able to give their kids good education

now i used to mess with single moms in the hood and outside in the public eye they put on this smiley face like everything is good, but u get them alone behind close doors and they breakdown to you about their struggle and everything.. it be women in their 30s and 40s as well i been messing with to

 

[get these nets]

very early 20s. Its a struggle for myself.
I got a friend who's 21 with 3 kids.
I know a girl who doesn't have a man but is about to have her second child.

Looking at that shyt got me thinking if I'm barely surviving how are they?

public assistance is how.

 

[Greenhornet]

Most of those kids aren't being raised mentally by parents

they are community kids

 

[King of Creampies]

I'm 29 and even the people I went to high school with that waited are now having kids and I still ain't got shyt, probably never will since me and my girl broke up. Oh well.

Keep your head up seriously.

Don't let a woman leaving you predict your future because in 2 months you will probably have a new female and things going on in a positive manner.

 

[King of Creampies]

I knew this badd ass latina who had a 2-3 year old daughter in the 11th grade, it blew my mind.


EDIT: i just remembered another girl in the 9th grade had one too

shyt you too eh?

I remember in HS I was in the 11th grade. Watched this female who was in the 9th at lunch time KNOCKED SWOLE eating 2 meals.

I was amazed in a bad way of that responsibility....and I am 39 NOW with no kids and women look at me REAL sideways like.....

"How did you not get caught up with a wife and kids".

Not saying family life and being married is sour because I have seen some wonderful marriages and families but

shyt isn't for everybody man....and it ain't for me.

 

[Y2Dre]

29 no kids. It's lit.

Late 80's babies about to fukk up the population cuz a lot of us aren't having kids.

At least in my circle.

 

[MikelArteta]

im 32 and i'm thankful I have zero kids. I come every day from work beat some days -now imagine having to help some kid with homework, play with them etc.

 

[flea]

Keep your head up seriously.

Don't let a woman leaving you predict your future because in 2 months you will probably have a new female and things going on in a positive manner.

Ehh I been with shorty for about 5 years. Two months is way too soon and honestly I'll probably never love someone like I loved her. Look at me being all sappy and shyt. But yeah, outside of accidental pregnancy, probably will never happen. I lost a good one and it's all my fault. Such is life.

 

[El Bajo Negro]

A lot of dummies talk about pulling out when that shyt don't work a woman can get pregnant from pre-nut too

 

[Kairi Irving]

shyt you too eh?

I remember in HS I was in the 11th grade. Watched this female who was in the 9th at lunch time KNOCKED SWOLE eating 2 meals.

I was amazed in a bad way of that responsibility....and I am 39 NOW with no kids and women look at me REAL sideways like.....

"How did you not get caught up with a wife and kids".

Not saying family life and being married is sour because I have seen some wonderful marriages and families but

shyt isn't for everybody man....and it ain't for me.

Thing is with me this happened like 2012-13 (9th) and 2014-15 (11th) school years