How can black women do right by black men?

Dominic Decoco

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Indeed.

A lot of these Black women wake up at 30 and then want to get serious about being adults and expect everything to just fall into their laps.

If I have a daughter, I'm going to be in her ear as early as 21 regarding the choices she's making in men, etc.

These woman want to play around from 22-29, which represent their prime years to have choosing power over men. Then, once they hit 30+ and the power dynamics flip, they want to complain and throw nikkas under the bus for not accelerating marriage talks, etc.

Naw. It doesn't work that way.
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Indeed.

A lot of these Black women wake up at 30 and then want to get serious about being adults and expect everything to just fall into their laps.

If I have a daughter, I'm going to be in her ear as early as 21 regarding the choices she's making in men, etc.

These woman want to play around from 22-29, which represent their prime years to have choosing power over men. Then, once they hit 30+ and the power dynamics flip, they want to complain and throw nikkas under the bus for not accelerating marriage talks, etc.

Naw. It doesn't work that way.
Id start at like 14/15

Girls these days if they dont get knocked up in highschool , start fukking around 16 and have baggage by the time they are out of highschool
 

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Be yourself Black Women.:yeshrug:

Have your own goals in life.:yeshrug:

Don't invite Black Men who disrespect you to be a part of yourself.:yeshrug:

Whether they post on the coli or not.:yeshrug:

Most important, don't feel ashame for taking care of yourself. Self care is important. The Black Man in your life will appreciate this, if they value you as a human being.:yeshrug:

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Would yall stop this shyt already


...see, here we go...

Multi-page thread on the inverse of this question, which was based on a thread WE DIDN'T EVEN HAVE HERE...

But the minute somebody asks this, we don't even get to POST #10 before two MEN are tired of it. lol





This is the world we're in.
 

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Indeed.

A lot of these Black women wake up at 30 and then want to get serious about being adults and expect everything to just fall into their laps.

If I have a daughter, I'm going to be in her ear as early as 21 regarding the choices she's making in men, etc.

These woman want to play around from 22-29, which represent their prime years to have choosing power over men. Then, once they hit 30+ and the power dynamics flip, they want to complain and throw nikkas under the bus for not accelerating marriage talks, etc.

Naw. It doesn't work that way.

Lets quickly discuss something, 21 years old is too late.

The Education system is an age focused process and high school is the most crucial time period. Black kids, especially black females have to not only monitor their scores, but also the scores of the males. This is the first indicator of where you will end up economically, hell even socially. I won't even go into detail because this is a thread topic by itself.

Now I work with an Indian guy that one day told me he had to go home and study with his daughter for 2 hours. I asked his daughters age, he said 7. He explained it's an exercise and when she reaches H.S./University/Post Graduate her brain will hold the information. This is the standard by which they raise their daughters by.


So when you say you'll be in her ear at 21, I'm telling you it's too late. You have to be in her ear way before the age of 14 (the earlier the better).
 
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...see, here we go...

Multi-page thread on the inverse of this question, which was based on a thread WE DIDN'T EVEN HAVE HERE...

But the minute somebody asks this, we don't even get to POST #10 before two MEN are tired of it. lol





This is the world we're in.

Or perhaps those of us who said that shyt posted the same thing in the other thread. :jbhmm:


"This is the world we're in"

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Negro this is the coli. We come here for fun and fukkery. Not for sermons on the state of the black community every friday evening. fukking weirdos. :camby:
 

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Lets quickly discuss something, 21 years old is too late.

The Education system is an age focused process and high school is the most crucial time period. Black kids, especially black females have to not only monitor their scores, but also the scores of the males. This is the first indicator of where you will end up economically, hell even socially. I won't even go into detail because this is a thread topic by itself.

Now I work with an Indian guy that one day told me he had to go home and study with his daughter for 2 hours. I asked his daughters age, he said 7. He explained it's an exercise and when she reaches H.S./University/Post Graduate her brain will hold the information. This is the standard by which they raise their daughters by.


So when you say you'll be in her ear at 21, I'm telling you it's too late. You have to be in her ear way before the age of 14 (the earlier the better).

I agree with this from an educational perspective. But, we know the Black community is not as intense in terms of educational aspirations as people are in the Indian community.

Overall, I think Black parents need to be more hands on in terms of their children's education, mating choices, etc.

It works for other communities. It can work for the Black community.

Black parents, especially fathers, don't step in enough when their daughters are wasting time with nikkas in their early 20s. They continue to have a hands-off approach as their daughters approach 30. By then, it's too late.
 
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