Define talking marriage...this sounds like a black man and woman go on a date and 2 1/2 years later they're walking down the aisle. If a 32 year old man who's on point gets with a 24 year old woman and 6 years later they're married, he's 38 she's 30. This is better than women waiting TILL they're 30 and applying the pressure. Black men "of worth" aren't meeting "the one" at 37 and suddenly a husband at 38.
That’s what these 30+ women fail to understand.
They want to be walking down the aisle one year after meeting a 30 year old man! They want shyt to be on their timeline. They apply pressure which causes the man to resent them.
No man with his head on straight and shyt to lose is going to rush right into marriage after only one year of dating. Not with the way the laws are setup in this country.
Especially for men for whom it’ll be their first marriage.
30+ women are better off trying to pursue that accelerated strategy with a 40+ breh. Breh has probably been married before and will more likely hop into a quick marriage than a 30+ breh will.
Difference is 40+ breh will have baggage—divorced, probably a kid or two, etc.
Black women don’t think about all this shyt when they are playing around at 25, 26, 27, etc.