How Come When A Woman Has Her Mind Set On A Guy...

[CHILLL]

Because she has her mind "set" on him, you answered your own question. That's why some people say you need to be ready to be alone before you're ready to be with anyone else, the moment you have your mind "set" on a potential mate as opposed to seeing him/her as an option you have lowered the threshold for what you will or will not accept

 

[CHILLL]

women with daddy issues and low self esteem will stick to certain guys like glue. They remember their dad leaving so they hate abandonment, as well usually they have a history of being cheated on, strung along and men abandoning them as they are very promiscuous, so they will meet that alpha male brute, nukka whose a player a cheat who has his pick of the litter with women and even though she's treated like dirt she will stick to him like glue

lowkey true although i know bytches with dads that do this also
but i really see it

 

[MikelArteta]

lowkey true although i know bytches with dads that do this also
but i really see it

women with daddy issues are gullible and easy to manipulate they are used to men letting them down at a young age so they take mistreatment

 

[DonFrancisco]

When a woman is into you, it is insane. This past year I've had 3 women really into me. When they like a man, it doesn't matter what he says, she will find it cute somehow. I had this one broad after making out and fooling around in my car wanting a relationship and the whole 9. I had to outright reject her and she went batshyt crazy. I smashed this other chick and when I broke it off outright, she wrote me 3 text long messages and called me every other day. she even moved to be closer to me. This new girl that likes me told me her best friend (a guy) is in love with her but she keeps in at bay and wants a relationship from me. I just go to her crib, smash and keep it moving. Shes always planning thing together.

I think part of it is because I'm reserved unless I'm in party or social scene, then I'm usually dancing and socializing with everyone. I've also lost a ton of weight and changed up my fashion game since I've been to Paris, New York, Mexico City, and Barcelona these last few years. Also, I've been told I have an addicting personality and I think it is true because once I get that first date and have little mini-adventures for 4-6 hours they are usually hooked. I also keep it low key and make the girl do all the talking. I've been working on being a better listeners so when I go on dates I listen instead of yap.

 

[CHILLL]

women with daddy issues are gullible and easy to manipulate they are used to men letting them down at a young age so they take mistreatment

some of them dont have daddy issues tho

 

[Ohene]

These, plus:

- they don't want another broad to have him
- they fear abandonment

big one right here

 

[DonFrancisco]

I also don't say much but a lot of women describe me as a deep thinker because I just say a few things and get my point accross. One of my best friends (whose a woman) told me that women usually like those type of guys. At least the ones I attract like those type of guys.

The biggest one I think everyone has brought up is that I come into the attitude when I'm dealing with a woman, that I can drop her at anytime and she's replaceable.

 

[aXiom]

She's not gonna leave him for you breh. I suggest you move on, and if the opportunity presents itself sometime in the future; hit, don't wife.

 

[CHILLL]

When a woman is into you, it is insane. This past year I've had 3 women really into me. When they like a man, it doesn't matter what he says, she will find it cute somehow. I had this one broad after making out and fooling around in my car wanting a relationship and the whole 9. I had to outright reject her and she went batshyt crazy. I smashed this other chick and when I broke it off outright, she wrote me 3 text long messages and called me every other day. she even moved to be closer to me. This new girl that likes me told me her best friend (a guy) is in love with her but she keeps in at bay and wants a relationship from me. I just go to her crib, smash and keep it moving. Shes always planning thing together.

I think part of it is because I'm reserved unless I'm in party or social scene, then I'm usually dancing and socializing with everyone. I've also lost a ton of weight and changed up my fashion game since I've been to Paris, New York, Mexico City, and Barcelona these last few years. Also, I've been told I have an addicting personality and I think it is true because once I get that first date and have little mini-adventures for 4-6 hours they are usually hooked. I also keep it low key and make the girl do all the talking. I've been working on being a better listeners so when I go on dates I listen instead of yap.

bruh ive had like a few number of females like that throughout my life
and i have seen a friend fukking have this girl who he mistreats fukking TIED DOWN
she wont ever leave
and i have a female friend who's boyfriend uses her for money and treats her like shyt shes like 100% loyal to dude
i dont know how it happens or why but when you get them it takes them yearssss to get over.
They would go on social media and say shyt like no man is gonna keep me down im independent and i deserve better.
BUT NEVER LEAVE
I wanna know what the formula is cause ive been doing this unintentionally.

 

[Turbulent]

because they gave their soul and refuse to leave without gaining it back. like a compulsive gambler who just doesnt know how to cut his loses.

 

[DonFrancisco]

bruh ive had like a few number of females like that throughout my life
and i have seen a friend fukking have this girl who he mistreats fukking TIED DOWN
she wont ever leave
and i have a female friend who's boyfriend uses her for money and treats her like shyt shes like 100% loyal to dude
i dont know how it happens or why but when you get them it takes them yearssss to get over.
They would go on social media and say shyt like no man is gonna keep me down im independent and i deserve better.
BUT NEVER LEAVE
I wanna know what the formula is cause ive been doing this unintentionally.

Dawg! You are telling me! I still got this one Asian chick I smashed a few times that still tries to hit me up on the daily. She says she over me and wants to just be friends but she's done way too much weird shyt for me to ever be her friend. She switched from one masters program to my masters program

At this point I threw her a bone and said I'd have lunch with her once a month at a public location FAR from my place of employment

 

[CHILLL]

Dawg! You are telling me! I still got this one Asian chick I smashed a few times that still tries to hit me up on the daily. She says she over me and wants to just be friends but she's done way too much weird shyt for me to ever be her friend. She switched from one masters program to my masters program

At this point I threw her a bone and said I'd have lunch with her once a month at a public location FAR from my place of employment

what do we do bruh?
what is the formula cause it only works on some and not others

 

[DonFrancisco]

what do we do bruh?
what is the formula cause it only works on some and not others

Not give a shyt is probably the best thing you can do. I notice when I don't give a shyt about impressing a woman, they usually are more receptive to game. I'm coming to the realization that not giving a shyt couple with being decisive and flirtatous touching is what works for me. Of course you will always attract a certain type of chick so being you is the best thing. Most women like a certain type of guy and that is what they will stick with. It is like marketing, you gotta find the segment that like you the most and market yourself to that segment.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

When a woman is into you, it is insane. This past year I've had 3 women really into me. When they like a man, it doesn't matter what he says, she will find it cute somehow. I had this one broad after making out and fooling around in my car wanting a relationship and the whole 9. I had to outright reject her and she went batshyt crazy. I smashed this other chick and when I broke it off outright, she wrote me 3 text long messages and called me every other day. she even moved to be closer to me. This new girl that likes me told me her best friend (a guy) is in love with her but she keeps in at bay and wants a relationship from me. I just go to her crib, smash and keep it moving. Shes always planning thing together.

I think part of it is because I'm reserved unless I'm in party or social scene, then I'm usually dancing and socializing with everyone. I've also lost a ton of weight and changed up my fashion game since I've been to Paris, New York, Mexico City, and Barcelona these last few years. Also, I've been told I have an addicting personality and I think it is true because once I get that first date and have little mini-adventures for 4-6 hours they are usually hooked. I also keep it low key and make the girl do all the talking. I've been working on being a better listeners so when I go on dates I listen instead of yap.

Mini adventures like what

 

[DonFrancisco]

Mini adventures like what

I usually take a women to eat dinner at a restaurant that I know and that has some interesting things on the menu. Miyakos in Houston has great Maki rolls and makes this sugary drink that you have to light on fire. I usually I order for of those and usually the women I take there, like that drink and put on Instagram. After that I take them to Chocolate Bar for desert. Around Chocolate Bar in Rice Village there is a parking garage that overlooks the 3 different Houston skylines. That's where I start to get flirty and touching, especially when it is the evening and the city lights are lit up. From there usually they want to extend the date (if its going well) and we go out clubbing. The club is where I escalate everything and from there is when I go in for a kiss. From there we go back to her place or we go on another date. Also I know a few free museums in Houston so we usually hit that up coupled by a dinner and walking around streets. Also I take women to a university in the heart of downtown that overlooks the whole skyline, that's another date place I take them.

It really depends on how the date is going and what type of person she is.