Existential
Nothing really matters...
There are many reasons, but this is A Great reason. Doesn't just apply to women either. People who invest it all into one person can't simply leave because that would mean leaving with nothing.
How Come When A Woman Has Her Mind Set On A Guy...
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There are many reasons, but this is A Great reason. Doesn't just apply to women either. People who invest it all into one person can't simply leave because that would mean leaving with nothing.
true bruh im seeing that i got this chick on me but i started liking her and started overthinking everything and i wasnt being myself
Existential
Nothing really matters...
Because she has her mind "set" on him, you answered your own question. That's why some people say you need to be ready to be alone before you're ready to be with anyone else, the moment you have your mind "set" on a potential mate as opposed to seeing him/her as an option you have lowered the threshold for what you will or will not accept
Another way of putting this: Be happy with yourself, love yourself before you love someone else. People are imperfect and if you make someone else the source of your happiness, you're bound to be disappointed or devastated. Don't make anyone else the Sundae in your life, at most they should be the cherry on top.
If I could rep id rep you for that post.Because she has her mind "set" on him, you answered your own question. That's why some people say you need to be ready to be alone before you're ready to be with anyone else, the moment you have your mind "set" on a potential mate as opposed to seeing him/her as an option you have lowered the threshold for what you will or will not accept
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Be you and don't overthink, you sound like me of yesteryears. Be yourself and she will come to you. Besides that, you gotta have the mindset that there are literally millions of single, beautiful, available women in this planet. She is replaceable (no offense to her, she is probably a good person) so if she isn't feeling you like that, then you have to bounce to the next one.
If you have that attitude that any woman is replaceable, more women will come to you.
something that women need to work on.real nikka shyt
Biggest reason why I advocate for women not to invest 100% into relationships we are prone to attachment, sad but true. Some guys know this, and manipulate the hell of it and girlfriend thinks it's love
when y'all telling people to be themselves, what if that person is just unattractive??
I don't disagree with you. But that's important, the ability to love when you have found someone who loves you back equally. Unfortunately, girls get with a guy and jump start the honeymoon stage, no discernment...nothing.yall love to be in love
I am the type of girl though guys call cold.
did I say I was anti love? And y'all make assumptions about another sex as if you know all women and how they'd behave. There are women far colder/cutthroat than men.
Existential
Nothing really matters...
Being completely honest, all kidding aside, this life experience is impermanent. It is temporary. Even your worst suffering only exists while you're alive to suffer it, and it too will be forgotten. "This too shall pass" applies to everything, everyone.
Yes, there might be things like money and status, etc. But we're being ultimately real about this, so I'm talking worst case scenario.
It's not fair if you're unattractive, but it's not your fault. Nobody chose to be here or what they are, the unattractive and unloved are blameless and so are the rest of us who reject them. All of this is fukked up, but who can say they chose to be attractive or unattractive? Who can say they chose what they are or aren't attracted to? Some of us will never know true love, which is horrifying, but there's nothing that can be done about it. If the Universe could be merciful, then none of this would've happened and we'd all be beautiful and we'd all love each other equally. But that's not what happened. What else can anyone say?
A woman in love with love is not in love with you. She is in love with the idea and once it wears off she will found someone to replace. Like I said women attach themselves and create feelings their head that feel like love but isn't love.