How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?

[ChatGPT-5]

With my current girl, no impact she's not the type that wants to try the new fancy spots, we both like to cook and she's spoils me even more than I spoil her

No Simp Gang

Find yourselves professional women, not little girls brehs.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

I impacted hers

 

[MECCA1000]

I have a rare one ..... my wife likes to coupon, looks for sales, and knocks out overtime when she scheming on a new purse

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

This dude is spitting NOTHING BUT FACTS in this video. Women are like grown children. They can't just sit their asses down somewhere for a nice, quiet, and calm evening. They have to be constantly entertained, constantly stimulated, constantly seen and on the scene. On your dime, of course. They're on the constant hunt for a sucker. And it's always some dumb, desperate nikka there to help her live out her delusions and princess fantasies with THEIR money. Smh.

Putting women on the back burner of my life and focusing on myself is one of the best decisions I've ever made. Those bytches are a bill. A fukking liability. If a woman is TRULY about you, it wouldn't matter if you guys had frozen pizza, Simply Lemonade and Netflix every night. She literally wouldn't care. She'd just be happy to enjoy your company and be in your presence. Trust me. I've had those women. They're fukking unicorns and super hard to find. Finances is how I get gold diggers away from me quick. If a bytch is constantly talking about going out but never offers to pay, I automatically know she's not there for me. She's there to use me. Wish more brehs would wise up and stop saving these hoes.

You sir just earned some rep.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Half basically. It's insane the monetary commitment that goes into a relationship before marriage is even on the table.

And truth be told the better she looks the more you're expected to pay. You pay because she's pretty because the market says if you don't someone else will.

 

[Ohene]

men are very chill, simple ppl by nature. inviting some homies over for some scotch, and ordering some food is actually a good night for a lot of brehs

but girls often wanna do pointless shyt.
90% the time we are out doing shyt with our girls its some shyt being done just to make them happy. i was laughing with my nikka about it the other day

the dude in the video was perfectly blunt and honest

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

damn.... no wonder yall be so perturbed in women threads

 

[Ohene]

the realest part though, what i want brehs to really take away from the video is that you shouldnt be doing this until youre at a level where youve established yourself and money isnt a issue

if youre not there yet, you gotta finesse cheapp dates. coffee, ice cream, walks by the beach/lake, picnics. If youre suave you can make them seem thoughtful and romantic. Otherwise the problem is that cheap dates will not go over for long. A few dates in and homegirl is gonna think youre not serious (unless youre just honest and up front with her)

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

You sir just earned some rep.

I rep back breh

 

[Astroslik]

So for 2 years my girl has been dropping hints she wanted that LV bag. So for our Anniversary i surprised her with it.

1.6k for the bag and when she opened it she was like. I dont like it


A breh was slow burning inside and I said like bytch you kept dropping hints for 2 years and now you dont like it.

That hurt

i bet you haven’t even bought your mother a bag that expensive

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

I’d rather not say

 

[Diondon]

You nikkas aint talking money yet. I know nikkas that put their girl, not wife through school.
Cause that's what a real man supposed to do.

 

[RTF]

Surprised by the responses here.

Having 1 actual girlfriend is waaaay cheaper than having a rotating squad of girls.

When you’re in a relationship half the time is spent chilling at home with Netflix and home cooked meals.

When I’m single. I’m out in the clubs regularly. Taking multiple girls out to dates and sexing the ones you have. But if you’re really single single you’re out acquiring new talent and converting the ones in the pipeline. Some you keep around, most you let churn after awhile.

Only way being single is cheaper is if you really not dealing with any females, or just have a FWB situation and nothing else. But if you’re really outchea it’s going to cost more than a girlfriend.

Edit: 1 girlfriend that’s actually a good woman. All my girlfriends have been good women. Happy to chill at home a lot of the time, with some wine and food. When we go out, they would pay at least 25% of the time. The women that want me to splurge on them get 3-4 nice dates, I beat it as much as I can in that time and I let them churn because the price per nut is unsustainable. I never make these types my girlfriend.

 

[AtomicUse]

My wife is a well paid Physician that earns more than I do. We both make six figures.

Men complain about this shyt like they have to date broke women or selfish women.

That's on them.

 

[Genos]

My girl makes more than me so I'm stackin more than I ever have