How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?

[DatLBCGuy562]

This dude is spitting NOTHING BUT FACTS in this video. Women are like grown children. They can't just sit their asses down somewhere for a nice, quiet, and calm evening. They have to be constantly entertained, constantly stimulated, constantly seen and on the scene. On your dime, of course. They're on the constant hunt for a sucker. And it's always some dumb, desperate nikka there to help her live out her delusions and princess fantasies with THEIR money. Smh.

Putting women on the back burner of my life and focusing on myself is one of the best decisions I've ever made. Those bytches are a bill. A fukking liability. If a woman is TRULY about you, it wouldn't matter if you guys had frozen pizza, Simply Lemonade and Netflix every night. She literally wouldn't care. She'd just be happy to enjoy your company and be in your presence. Trust me. I've had those women. They're fukking unicorns and super hard to find. Finances is how I get gold diggers away from me quick. If a bytch is constantly talking about going out but never offers to pay, I automatically know she's not there for me. She's there to use me. Wish more brehs would wise up and stop saving these hoes.

 

[humminbird]

who are the girls in the thumbnail

 

[Hey_zeus]

Half basically. It's insane the monetary commitment that goes into a relationship before marriage is even on the table.

 

[Sinnerman]

So for 2 years my girl has been dropping hints she wanted that LV bag. So for our Anniversary i surprised her with it.

1.6k for the bag and when she opened it she was like. I dont like it


A breh was slow burning inside and I said like bytch you kept dropping hints for 2 years and now you dont like it.

That hurt

This even hurt my feelings

 

[Arcavian]

If the women around you feel like/are a tax on your pockets, mental/emotional energy, tolerance or general well being...the flaw is you. Your filters aren't adjusted right. The only reason you're getting played with these social "expectations" of who-should-pay-for-what and the real-men-do-xyz games is because.you.allow.it.

Stop dealing with childish bints and let women with sense be the only ones to have their shot.

This is real shyt, and where I went wrong

 

[the bossman]

You know what I got from this thread? You nikkas are dating women who can't cook.

Find a woman who can cook. Both of you go grocery shopping together. Both of you chop it up in the kitchen. nikka it's glorious.

Breh this is so on point. Chick I'm getting serious with grew up with a mom who went to French culinary school.

Between me and her we cook 90% of the time. Our food be better tasting and better quality than most restaurants so it's a waste of time to even go out to eat unless we traveling somewhere with no access to a kitchen.

We go out and be disappointed half the time like we could make better food than this at home

We spend $100 at the grocery store and got food that last ALL WEEK long. Same $100 that most nikkas would waste in a single night at a mediocre restaurant and mediocre meal for 2 + drinks. nikkas gotta stop getting with these useless bloodsucking broads who don't bring nothing to the table

Putting women on the back burner of my life and focusing on myself is one of the best decisions I've ever made. Those bytches are a bill. A fukking liability. If a woman is TRULY about you, it wouldn't matter if you guys had frozen pizza, Simply Lemonade and Netflix every night. She literally wouldn't care. She'd just be happy to enjoy your company and be in your presence. Trust me. I've had those women. They're fukking unicorns and super hard to find. Finances is how I get gold diggers away from me quick. If a bytch is constantly talking about going out but never offers to pay, I automatically know she's not there for me. She's there to use me. Wish more brehs would wise up and stop saving these hoes.

GOSPEL

 

[360dagod]

So for 2 years my girl has been dropping hints she wanted that LV bag. So for our Anniversary i surprised her with it.

1.6k for the bag and when she opened it she was like. I dont like it


A breh was slow burning inside and I said like bytch you kept dropping hints for 2 years and now you dont like it.

That hurt

You need to break up with her and get the bag back..
Because if/when she decides its over, you might do something you gonna regret later...
That 6k gonna sting something serious and she gonna always find something to bytch about while acting like you never did shyt for her...

I've been in a similar situation and the signs are there...leave her

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Brehs... that’s why you need to find a real one when you’re broke or climbing the ladder to success. I had one like that and I messed up.

Now that I’m single and established, I’m between a rock and a hard place. Women my age or older either come with baggage (emotional or children). Younger women see the car, house and clothes, and they want to be spoiled.

It’s rare to find one with balance. I have zero problems treating a woman well that I’m serious about. But not these high maintenance ones that just can’t chill at home.

I need to start dating ugly/fat women. That’s where I’m going wrong.

 

[360dagod]

Brehs... that’s why you need to find a real one when you’re broke or climbing the ladder to success. I had one like that and I messed up.

Now that I’m single and established, I’m between a rock and a hard place. Women my age or older either come with baggage (emotional or children). Younger women see the car, house and clothes, and they want to be spoiled.

It’s rare to find one with balance. I have zero problems treating a woman well that I’m serious about. But not these high maintenance ones that just can’t chill at home.

I need to start dating ugly/fat women. That’s where I’m going wrong.

No such thing as ugly or fat anymore..

If she's a 5 on her best day, she gonna have men competing for her...

Give me a younger problem before an older one

 

[Abraxus]

She tripled my net worth. Hell we fight each other for the check to pay and she is extremely low maintenance. All she want is good loving and I got plenty of that to spare! Damn I love this woman! Somethings in my eye brehs

 

[Abraxus]

If ur girl ain't wealthier than u then

I wouldn’t say be wealthier but keep pace. In the past I dated some broke ass conniving bytches. Never again

 

[MMA]

You have to learn early on you have to nip all of that financially illiterate behavior immediately. The wrong one will have y'all buying shyt you can't afford then complaining you are the issue in the whole ordeal.

Men need to find a woman who respect their finances. If she has a ballpark of what you are making and doesn't mind seeing you throw money away for her comfort all the time she is telling you how your lifestyles will continue together.

The right woman will have you figuring out how to make more money and encouraging of it but most man aren't skilled enough to be patience to find those who possess those traits.

 

[Food Mane]

makes you slow down on the blow and gambling

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

I don't see how dinner a couple of times a month and a few gifts throughout the year will break a man.

 

[filial_piety]

pu$$y is just one big student loan...you literally pay double for everything...and spend money when you don't want to spend money