How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?

ThrobbingHood

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There are well off women who are still high maintenance and expect to be treated like a princess. I’m glad I figured that bullshyt out early. If a woman is dating a man on her level or who she perceives to be better than her, she still expects to be spoiled.

That’s why I hardly spend a cent on these dates.
 

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Puzzy is a Helluva Drug

Lol

Especially if she got dat FIYAH like my ex fiance had
:noah:

Thank God I went thru "rehab" and able to use mind over matter now

But like the bible Bible says THE FLESH IS WEAK

and most dudes are WEAK in that aspect

And I was one of them

That's why I can speak upon it

I went thru that so hopefully you won't have to go thru that

Just yesterday I lent a good employee a 100 dollar loan cause he having "car repair issues"

But I know the real reason ...

His fiance drained his bank account during her birthday weekend

I know cause he told my fellow supervisor how he just found out he was -38 dollars in his Checking account

:dead:

Pros of course, ex had that fire wet wet and was submissive and freaky to boot, so it wasn't an issue to do the couple activities....everything has a price.
 

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:patrice:Yea I'm scratching my head on this one. Cause the richest nikkas in the world all tend to be married but according to thecoli that shouldn't be the case.



Let me help you out brehs....


DONT BE A BROKE BOY DATING A BROKE LADY!!:yeshrug:


How hard is that:francis: The problem is, we as men want to fukk something.....no matter what they have to offer. Stop and think before you get down with a chick :hhh:



If you trying to smash and dash.....cool! But nikkas forget about the dash part, mess around and have kids by bum ass hoes too :scust:
 

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New Yawk where I’m from / Bahston where I’m at
single food is like $8.73. Relationship food is never under $60.

N1gga ... my ex fiance had me going to Ruth Chris ..three times in one month

February the 3 was her birthday

February 14th was Valentine's day

And Feb 22nd was a Anniversary

At the time I could afford it and felt it was neccessary.cause we 'were in love"

But looking back I see how foolish it was to spending all that money to wine and dine someone

:snoop:

All fax. We used to go out 3x / week, eat at the bar of a restaurant. With drinks and tip each meal was minimum 70, up to 130 sometimes. I could afford it but fuxk if it didn’t add up fast.
 

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Well not my girlfriend but my wife has elevated my finances and vice versa.

We put all our money together but I control the finances

I mean she's free to buy what she wants but big purchases we discuss first
 

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So for 2 years my girl has been dropping hints she wanted that LV bag. So for our Anniversary i surprised her with it.

1.6k for the bag and when she opened it she was like. I dont like it :francis:


A breh was slow burning inside and I said like bytch you kept dropping hints for 2 years and now you dont like it.:gucci:

That hurt
 

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So they always pick up the check? :duck:

You never buy them gifts?
half half so it's as if I went to dinner by myself regardless.

I buy gifts seasonally. But I do that for myself as well, and since she also buys me gifts seasonally, it as if I am buying myself a gift. Truth be told I don't even buy her expensive gifts, she can be like a kid with a new toy. it's nice for a week then boom, its the closet, I've learned not to go overboard with clothes and shoes. Very basic like a pair of jeans or something.
 
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