MoveForward
Veteran
I don't see how dinner a couple of times a month and a few gifts throughout the year will break a man.
How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?
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It didn't break me at all
Just looking back at the fact that it could have been used for something more benifical
Like home repairs or business upgrades or just STACKING it in savings
A steak dinner for two at Ruth Chris costs about 200$ on the average cause that byatch insisted on getting a Cowboy ribeye
When in reality thier are alot of places that got great Steaks for WAY LESS
not too mention I could have cooked one
Having that type of lifestyle wasn't a neccesity
But she felt it was cause she had to uphold a image to impress her family and friends
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
$121,082.40 on dating in a lifetime and that’s IF if you got an average woman whose happy with simple dates
A lot of brehs trying impress they lady and overspending Here’s how much money the average American spends on dating
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
Only thing that became hard was tracking when and where I was spending y money because things would come up and I’d just be focused on solving them instead of worrying about costs or future.
dealing with my last girlfriend changed my attitude towards money a lot...really towards the better. Only problem is is that I had other habits to control how I did it that I sacrificed in order to operate in the relationship
dealing with my last girlfriend changed my attitude towards money a lot...really towards the better. Only problem is is that I had other habits to control how I did it that I sacrificed in order to operate in the relationship
Date independent women
Dawg here is the thing about most independent women
Most only are independent by DEFAULT
cause they couldn't find that dude that was willing or able to finance them
But best believe time they do find that SPONSOR ...that Independent women becomes DEPENDENT on YOUR finances
Cause She AINT TRYING TO SPEND HER PAPER ANYMORE..SHE FEELS LIKE SHE SHOULD BE REWARDED
Like my ex
or as one "independent' chick told my homeboy ...
Who asked her while they were dating
"I NEED YOU TO RETIRE ME...if you can't DO THAT ..WHAT I NEED TO BE WITH YOU FOR"
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/if-...e-he-is-an-underachiver-to-her.370880/page-26
And y'all wonder why these so called Independent women can't keep no man
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No lies told. But that’s just the role you take as a man. Love when I’m in a relationship and I’m able to handle shyt with a chick and still stack towards my goals.
Now that I’m single tho, I’m in pure stack mode.
Now that I’m single tho, I’m in pure stack mode.
MaxBundles
Veteran
You get yourself a good SOLID LADY she won't hurt your pockets that much at all
You start chasing these HOES out here then you better have your paper straight
If you ain't got a mouth piece then you gonna have to pay to play.....
You start chasing these HOES out here then you better have your paper straight
If you ain't got a mouth piece then you gonna have to pay to play.....
Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
My wife actually has a job that makes money so I can't relate.
I date paid women. No problem.
Mane when it was all said and done
We broke up in April
I happened to check my credit score
No lie
It was 549
I felt my heart racing and started instantly having chest pains
Took the rest of the day off
And formulated a plan
No 1 agenda....DONT GO BACK TO THAT BYATCH
No 2 agenda....DONT TRY TO REPLACE HER WITH ANOTHER BYATCH
No 3 agenda ... Concentrate on SELF snd WEALTH!! for the rest of the year
Just did another soft credit check this past Tuesday ...
And I'm sitting at 680 and rising
After I just paid off the entire balance of my third credit card
And I am able to spend more on inventory for my business and more time with clients than I did when I was in that so called relationship
I Use to get played by my HONEYDIP
but now I'm on the MONEY tip
So I called the Honey dip
HONEY B1TCH'- Redman
co-sign.
I also make six figures, I can’t relate to this economic inequality some of these people talk about
the bossman
Superstar
You get yourself a good SOLID LADY she won't hurt your pockets that much at all
Yea I'm scratching my head on this one. Cause the richest nikkas in the world all tend to be married but according to thecoli that shouldn't be the case.
But that's not the issue with alot of these relationships
Alot.of these women like my ex are WELL PAID
They just have bad money management skills or in most cases don't believe in CONTRIBUTING
Forcing most of these dudes to FOOT THE BILL ON EVERYTHING
My uncle was like that he was paying for all this shyt for his wife the whole time she had a secret account where she stacked all her bread up and money he gave her
Time the kids came of age and he was being displaced by his job
She was like PEACE OUT N1GGA
AND BOUNCED ON HIS AZZ
