How did u kno ur ex was cheating on u

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I left my phone in her car. She left for a few hours to "go to the mall".

When she came back and hopped in the shower, I went grabbed my phone out of her car and looked at my Google timeline. Saw she was at someone house for 2 hours.

Didn't say anything.

Went on a recon mission that weekend. Camped outside of the address to see who emerges.

It was a nikka I questioned her about on IG. He was liking all her pics and she liked his every other month or so. She said he was just someone she knew from years back and he was just "cool", but nothing went on with them.

You already know the typical "you're nuts, insecure, stupid, too focused on the bad stuff.." mental gymnastics cheaters pull on you.

Super protective of her phone.

Still never said anything about it. I just started fukking other bytches that I wanted to hit for the longest. :yeshrug:

However, I did beat her ass when she tried to hit me with a bottle because she was mad over something I said. A portion of that fury came from the fact she lied to me about that situation. I don't forget shyt.

Glad when that toxic relationship ended. :whew:

“too focused on the bad stuff.."

she was a straight up narcissist

my ex did the same shyt throughout our relationship

he even said to me a week after i saw him in her car at the gym we both went to! “you’re always focusing on the past! don’t you see i’m really trying, you never wanna see the good in me!”

:gucci:


cheaters idea of the past is anywhere from 2 hours to yesterday to a week ago, where as ‘normal people’ refer to as the past as like month ago, a year ago, years ago.. nope, not manipulators :hubie:
 

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“too focused on the bad stuff.."

she was a straight up narcissist

my ex did the same shyt throughout our relationship

he even said to me a week after i saw him in her car at the gym we both went to! “you’re always focusing on the past! don’t you see i’m really trying, you never wanna see the good in me!”

:gucci:


cheaters idea of the past is anywhere from 2 hours to yesterday to a week ago, where as ‘normal people’ refer to as the past as like month ago, a year ago, years ago.. nope, not manipulators :hubie:

Wait didn't you said you were in a poly relationship and you would let your dude fukk with other bytches?

Something ain't adding up:patrice:
 

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Goddamn that's rough. Keep ya head up...

Oh.. this was about 12 yrs ago.. been over it .but when I found out, about a month later I got into it with the guy. Long story short got hit with assault charges, destruction of property. Spent about 6 months going back and forth in court, couldn’t see my son for those 6 months..

She not even with him now...They spilt and my son came to live with me about 2 yrs ago.
 

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“too focused on the bad stuff.."

she was a straight up narcissist

my ex did the same shyt throughout our relationship

he even said to me a week after i saw him in her car at the gym we both went to! “you’re always focusing on the past! don’t you see i’m really trying, you never wanna see the good in me!”

:gucci:


cheaters idea of the past is anywhere from 2 hours to yesterday to a week ago, where as ‘normal people’ refer to as the past as like month ago, a year ago, years ago.. nope, not manipulators :hubie:

Couldn't tell you how many times I heard that "you're living in the past" ... "I'm paying for your past situations" crap anytime I questioned her phone activity. :francis:

Straight out the cheater handbook.

Only thing I ever questioned her about was social media...

Tried to make it seem as if I was the problem. :hhh:

Dirty bytch... lemme go to sleep. I'm getting mad all over again. :mjlol:
 

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Wait didn't you said you were in a poly relationship and you would let your dude fukk with other bytches?

Something ain't adding up:patrice:

he was cheating on me the entire relationship! from the very beginning with a women he knew and was talking to like a year before me. that poly shyt was only cause i knew he wasn’t gonna stop, that was like a year into our relationship i said he was “allowed to” lol and i was sick of being miserable over his cheating, lying, manipulating and gaslighting but i really loved him and wanted to make it work so i tried everything to try and fix our relationship. i ended up breaking up with him like 2 days after that huge ass thread was made and i posted about that.
 

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I read all of the long ass emails to her ex, and I remember the lump in my throat heart racing and stomach like on a roller coaster feeling.

Was like ten years ago but my innocence and Simpness died that day and I’ve never trusted a chick since then :ehh:.

Chick would be in the same room as me telling me she loves me this and that and I’d go shower and during that time I showered she’s writing a long ass email to that nygga :dahell:
The cold part is you then have to wonder wtf that nikka had over her to make the bish be so devoted to him.
 

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“too focused on the bad stuff.."

she was a straight up narcissist

my ex did the same shyt throughout our relationship

he even said to me a week after i saw him in her car at the gym we both went to! “you’re always focusing on the past! don’t you see i’m really trying, you never wanna see the good in me!”

:gucci:


cheaters idea of the past is anywhere from 2 hours to yesterday to a week ago, where as ‘normal people’ refer to as the past as like month ago, a year ago, years ago.. nope, not manipulators :hubie:

:gucci: aren't you with a Israelite??? You know there's no such thing as a man cheating in Hebrew culture right? Either you're an adulterer or not so I'm a little confused with your posts.
 

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he was cheating on me the entire relationship! from the very beginning with a women he knew and was talking to like a year before me. that poly shyt was only cause i knew he wasn’t gonna stop, that was like a year into our relationship i said he was “allowed to” lol and i was sick of being miserable over his cheating, lying, manipulating and gaslighting but i really loved him and wanted to make it work so i tried everything to try and fix our relationship. i ended up breaking up with him like 2 days after that huge ass thread was made and i posted about that.
I just wanna shout you out for being the type of broad scumbags like me need in our lives when we’re on our dikks and living fukked up. Thank you.
 

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:gucci: aren't you with a Israelite??? You know there's no such thing as a man cheating in Hebrew culture right? Either you're an adulterer or not so I'm a little confused with your posts.

okay, where’s it say that in the bible? if you’re supposed to be living by the most high and not according to MAN then what’s acceptable or permissible according to culture should be irrelevant :francis:

i get what you’re tryibt to say, that the correct terminology is adultery but to me adultery is cheating and and vice versa, ESP when you’re one of the israelites that believes that sex is marriage
 

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I left my phone in her car. She left for a few hours to "go to the mall".

When she came back and hopped in the shower, I went grabbed my phone out of her car and looked at my Google timeline. Saw she was at someone house for 2 hours.

Didn't say anything.

Went on a recon mission that weekend. Camped outside of the address to see who emerges.

It was a nikka I questioned her about on IG. He was liking all her pics and she liked his every other month or so. She said he was just someone she knew from years back and he was just "cool", but nothing went on with them.

You already know the typical "you're nuts, insecure, stupid, too focused on the bad stuff.." mental gymnastics cheaters pull on you.

Super protective of her phone.

Still never said anything about it. I just started fukking other bytches that I wanted to hit for the longest. :yeshrug:

However, I did beat her ass when she tried to hit me with a bottle because she was mad over something I said. A portion of that fury came from the fact she lied to me about that situation. I don't forget shyt.

Glad when that toxic relationship ended. :whew:
why stay with her after you knew she cheated?
 
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