How did y'all find out your boo cheated

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Damn dude.
Some wild stuff in this post.
Sorry to see that you lost your dad.

But also... gotta salute that white girl you got.
yea bruh, down ass chick... I was on that percenter shyt back in the day so the whitegirls was off limits..I saw some of dem same percenter cats in the food lion looking at my white girl like :shaq:

...yea my dad was a good nikka... one of them cats that'll show up to fix the starter/alternator on your car without you asking type nikkas, really looked out for all his kids, dude worked up until a couple weeks before he died, I barely take any days off because of that influence...he believed if you didn't work you didn't eat and if you were fukking up you would get a phone call around 8 with an older cat screaming on you :damn:..I'm glad I had him tho :win: Pops had bytches too
 

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this shyt is kinda long so it might not get read but i wanna share :manny:

i guess i always knew my ex was a hoe.

at the time i was a swagless, overweight, broke 23 year old. never had a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months and never fell in love with any of them. i got a job as a bouncer at a pool hall in the bronx and started feeling this super cute chubby puerto rican waitress who just seemed very bubbly and friendly. we got cool and became friends on myspace and chit chatted for a while, even went on a date, but then we lost contact. i figured at the time (correctly) that she fixed shyt with baby daddy and got back with him.

flash forward 2 years later and she emails me out of nowhere asking if i remember her. we chatted a bit, went out on a date, and 3 weeks later we were in a relationship(december). everything was gravy til mother's day. this is where the fun started. she told me, nonchalantly, that her baby daddy wanted to take her out to dinner for mothers day and she accepted. i was pissed off and we fought about it for the majority of the day but i decided to try and be the bigger man and let it go. sunday comes, and she texts me saying she loves me, she is waiting for the table and that he is so annoying blah blah blah. then i dont hear from her all night :comeon:.

next day i get a breakup email saying she wants to give him another chance, he is in therapy, blah blah blah. i was pissed, even cried like a little bytch, and cursed her out and called her the ugliest names i could think of.

4 days later we got back together :snoop: stupid me.

after that, it was never the same and it was on again, off again until the following december, our 1st anniversary. she left her laptop in my crib and i decided to check her fb messages since she didnt log off.

1. message from her 40 something year old next door neighbor saying "hey u can come over at anytime u want"
2. message from some pretty nikka asking for her number and her giving it to him

i blew up, she denied denied denied, and i decided to forget about it :snoop: i know brehs, i know. there was no proof of actual sex, so i decided to leave it alone.

2 days later, her best friend's baby shower. diego sanchez was fighting bj penn that night and i was missing it to attend this baby shower. so i took her g1(mine was dead) to look at fight updates. decided to look at her text messages. saw messages from the night before with her baby daddy...

her: you got beer or liqs?
him: yea, bring cigarettes
her: ok
him: call me when you in front, the intercom is busted
her: ok

:to: destroyed me.

but guess what brehs, i kept fukking her and my feelings never died. i just didnt trust her. then in valentines day, she told me she didnt love me anymore. that hurt more than all the cheating. it broke my heart but i let her go (except when i took her out for her bday in march like a true simp). i changed my life around, started hitting the gym, lost 40 lbs in 4 months. even tho i couldnt forget about her, i started to move on and even fukked a new shorty. life wasnt quite good but getting better.

then in august, anderson silva was fighting chael sonnen for the first time. i watched the card and after, as i looked for parking, bytch texted me. she missed me, she wanted to see me, come pick her up. i did :snoop:. we fukked, and she convinced me to give it one last shot. i did :snoop: that lasted a week. she went 2 days without speaking to me and i was like :dwillhuh:.

then on a saturday night, her best friend calls me. she been sleeping with her best friends ex man. best friend even told me she been fukking a nikka she was in school with, her baby daddy, a nikka at work, AND dude in her building.

:blessed: i was finally free from her grip. no more sadness, just anger at myself for being so stupid. BEST thing that could have ever happened to me brehs.

i lost another 50 lbs, started taking MMA, fukked a couple more bytches, got a good job, found the woman of my dreams(virgin from a happy home, complete opposite to my ex) married her 2 weeks ago, found an even better job, lets just say life has gotten way better.

as for her :scusthov: we all know how women deteriorate after a while. she a cig smoking fat puerto rican like her mom so you already know


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these hoes ain't shyt...that just made my morning. good job bouncing back, next time you see ole girl look her in the eyes, smile and keep walking... they hate that shyt
 

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Yo i got a story about my cousin:

- dude was dating this chick in high chool
they were in the same grade, she was the valedictorian of their class
-after they graduated she was pre-med in college and he got a job
dude was always giving her money and taking care of her
-she grad from college valedictorian and went to med school at Tulane
he had a nice job and they got married
-dude was the only income for the house
they had a kid
and before she grad had another one

- once she grad she began her residency

a year into it
he saw some emails she sent to one of the male doctors
talking about how good he fukked her and planning on doing it again
(they were fukking in the hospital while she worked over night)

she had been fukking dude over a year

my cousin confronted her and she admitted to everything

he didnt want to leave cause they had 2 kids

-low n behold she ends up preg at that time



== they move to another state to get away from the dude she cheated with and to have a fresh start
- while she is preg she starts acting crazy and talking bout suicide
(she attempted to loose the baby by falling down the stairs in their home)
then she tells him that she dont think the baby is his:upsetfavre:


he gets pissed and says he wants a divorce
- she told that nikka that since she makes way more than him she can afford to get a lawyer to get her the house and the kids in the divorce
she put that nikka down because he didnt go to college and said she was too good for him:ohhh:


long story but they still married now
she is mean as fukk
my couisn never got a paternity test on the 3rd kid:stopitslime:

she works crazy hours so he is the one that cooks, cleans, does everything for the kids, plus he works full time:upsetfavre:

she just comes home from work and is so tired that all she does is sleeps




i keep trying to tell him to leave her because dude has alot of pent up anger with her and i think he might kill her oneday
 

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I know bro....I can barely make eye contact with women anymore ever since I got cheated on by my last gf. I just can't bring myself to trust a woman and that was 4 years ago. It's over for me. TKO.

I hated women for a while lol. I had this one nice girl that liked me and was trying to make it happen with me but I deaded her because she showed early signs of jealousy and she was a bronx girl with no dad. I still feel kinda bad about the way I left shyt with her but :manny: it was for the best
 

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Your logic is :russ:


:umad: And still stupid as fukk, got played, then played yourself & post it online for all to see, like you won something. :russ: You talking to a nikka who mastered Chess a long time ago, about playing chess. And probably don't even know how to play FOR REAL. LMAO. Just saying that shyt to attempt to sound dignified & smart. Wow.




I like how you zeroing in on the "cheating" part which may or may not be true for the sake of you saving face on the internet, but even so. You still duckin that L you gave yourself by investing time trying to outdo the nikka instead of keepin it movin like a real bytch.

Yous a real loser :laff: Keep hiding behind them smileys like ya soul don't still burn slow from the massive continuous L's that nikka handed you before you wasted your time handing yourself some :umad: Obviously it do, you recalled that shyt in vivid detail & posted it for the Coli...




EDIT: and just the simple fact that you mentioned not posting what you did so you wouldn't "incriminate" yourself tells me enough about you than I'd have to assume. You sound like a broke, basic bytch. No wonder that nikka styled on you. :bryan: "I got what I wanted out of him." "I won't incriminate myself" (after alluding to it). Lol, seriously?


You're too funny ma. :hug:
SMH, you're a waste of time. No matter what I post you will continue to dodge the fact that you were wrong in your assumptions.

In order to invest time you must be trying to build a relationship? I was investing in something other than a relationship. Did you ever think that? Or do you automatically assume that becauseI am a female I can only want love and a doting husband? In your world people are only with people for love? There are no gold diggers or people that will fukk their boss for special privileges? Not saying that I did either of those things but think a little deeper, Chess player. I DID allow him to do whatever he did because I needed him out of my face and too busy covering up his dirt to truly see what I was doing. It worked for me. I got what I needed and the revenge for him thinking he was smarter than me was just icing on the cake. You coming back and editing shyt, writing me a dissertation. Chill breh. You dont know me LOL

MOVING ON
 

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SMH, you're a waste of time. No matter what I post you will continue to dodge the fact that you were wrong in your assumptions.

In order to invest time you must be trying to build a relationship? I was investing in something other than a relationship. Did you ever think that? Or do you automatically assume that becauseI am a female I can only want love and a doting husband? In your world people are only with people for love? There are no gold diggers or people that will fukk their boss for special privileges? Not saying that I did either of those things but think a little deeper, Chess player. I DID allow him to do whatever he did because I needed him out of my face and too busy covering up his dirt to truly see what I was doing. It worked for me. I got what I needed and the revenge for him thinking he was smarter than me was just icing on the cake. You coming back and editing shyt, writing me a dissertation. Chill breh. You dont know me LOL

MOVING ON

Now I KNOW yous a dumb bytch, talking about I'm dodgin the fact that I was possibly wrong about you cheatin, when I acknowledged that possibility in TWO separate posts, ol struggle reading ass bytch :heh:


Talkin about writing dissertations and me being a waste of time, and you clearly wrote am essay just now, and still explaining more and more details tryna justify the Ls you took, tryna make it seem like a win.


Not only are youa bum ass bytch, you can't read, and you're a hypocrite. No wonder ol boy destroyed your trust and stepped out on ur wizard sleeve ass p*ssy on the regular...Now it makes sense. :laff:

:umad:


Bu, bu, bu, but I'm not a cheater or a gold digging whore, I just cheated on him and used him after he did that to me the whole time...but it was all part of my master plan :troll:
 

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Yo i got a story about my cousin:

- dude was dating this chick in high chool
they were in the same grade, she was the valedictorian of their class
-after they graduated she was pre-med in college and he got a job
dude was always giving her money and taking care of her
-she grad from college valedictorian and went to med school at Tulane
he had a nice job and they got married
-dude was the only income for the house
they had a kid
and before she grad had another one

- once she grad she began her residency

a year into it
he saw some emails she sent to one of the male doctors
talking about how good he fukked her and planning on doing it again
(they were fukking in the hospital while she worked over night)

she had been fukking dude over a year

my cousin confronted her and she admitted to everything

he didnt want to leave cause they had 2 kids

-low n behold she ends up preg at that time



== they move to another state to get away from the dude she cheated with and to have a fresh start
- while she is preg she starts acting crazy and talking bout suicide
(she attempted to loose the baby by falling down the stairs in their home)
then she tells him that she dont think the baby is his:upsetfavre:


he gets pissed and says he wants a divorce
- she told that nikka that since she makes way more than him she can afford to get a lawyer to get her the house and the kids in the divorce
she put that nikka down because he didnt go to college and said she was too good for him:ohhh:


long story but they still married now
she is mean as fukk
my couisn never got a paternity test on the 3rd kid:stopitslime:

she works crazy hours so he is the one that cooks, cleans, does everything for the kids, plus he works full time:upsetfavre:

she just comes home from work and is so tired that all she does is sleeps




i keep trying to tell him to leave her because dude has alot of pent up anger with her and i think he might kill her oneday

:wow:

Mannnnnnnnnn, I wish a bytch... :beli:
 

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@AVthaPHARAOH Yea sure. That's exactly what I said. :lolbron: ole boy destroyed my trust. Because I clearly said I trusted him? In no post ever. I cheated on him? Yea I said that in no post ever either. But I'm the struggle reader. Who hurt you breh? She had another nigha in your bed? She gave you herpes? Was that a part of you're master plan? Tell me all about it.

Will it make you feel better if I post a buncha sad smilies? Pretend igaf abou some fukk boy that thought he was smarter than me? Gtfooh.
 

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Yo i got a story about my cousin:

- dude was dating this chick in high chool
they were in the same grade, she was the valedictorian of their class
-after they graduated she was pre-med in college and he got a job
dude was always giving her money and taking care of her
-she grad from college valedictorian and went to med school at Tulane
he had a nice job and they got married
-dude was the only income for the house
they had a kid
and before she grad had another one

- once she grad she began her residency

a year into it
he saw some emails she sent to one of the male doctors
talking about how good he fukked her and planning on doing it again
(they were fukking in the hospital while she worked over night)

she had been fukking dude over a year

my cousin confronted her and she admitted to everything

he didnt want to leave cause they had 2 kids

-low n behold she ends up preg at that time



== they move to another state to get away from the dude she cheated with and to have a fresh start
- while she is preg she starts acting crazy and talking bout suicide
(she attempted to loose the baby by falling down the stairs in their home)
then she tells him that she dont think the baby is his:upsetfavre:


he gets pissed and says he wants a divorce
- she told that nikka that since she makes way more than him she can afford to get a lawyer to get her the house and the kids in the divorce
she put that nikka down because he didnt go to college and said she was too good for him:ohhh:


long story but they still married now
she is mean as fukk
my couisn never got a paternity test on the 3rd kid:stopitslime:

she works crazy hours so he is the one that cooks, cleans, does everything for the kids, plus he works full time:upsetfavre:

she just comes home from work and is so tired that all she does is sleeps




i keep trying to tell him to leave her because dude has alot of pent up anger with her and i think he might kill her oneday
Hopefully :birdman:
 

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@AVthaPHARAOH Yea sure. That's exactly what I said. :lolbron: ole boy destroyed my trust. Because I clearly said I trusted him? In no post ever. I cheated on him? Yea I said that in no post ever either. But I'm the struggle reader. Who hurt you breh? She had another nigha in your bed? She gave you herpes? Was that a part of you're master plan? Tell me all about it.

Will it make you feel better if I post a buncha sad smilies? Pretend igaf abou some fukk boy that thought he was smarter than me? Gtfooh.


Nice try. I really like how you avoid the valid points I make about your hypocrisy and remedial line of thought, embarrasing yourself, and assume (read: WANT) me to have gone out like you did. :russ: Nice try, wit that cornhole box p*ssy. Don't try to deflect and turn the shyt around...You pretty much exposed yourself to be a lowlife, trife ass bytch by your own admission and now you trying the reverse psychology route when you don't even understand the ineffectiveness and self destructive nature of your own thoughts and actions.

All that shyt you listed and complained about in your OP, you did it to yourself. :umad:


No, seriously. And you did not win. No matter what you try to convince yourself you got out of it in the long run, or WHY or HOW you try to convince yourself (or spin it to the Coli), the fact still remains. That nikka ain't deem you or your p*ssy good enough and worthy enough to stay loyal to. How did that make you feel when he originally crushed your soul? :banderas: I know...you didn't care, right...? :troll: all the crying, accusing, arguing was all for show, so you could get in his pockets and work ur plan, huh. Or maybe you did none of that since you just a thorough gold digger. U really got it goin on, huh? :troll:


All that other shyt you talking is AFTER the fact. And your personality/character showing in your posts, tells not only me, but the rest of the thread exactly the type of female you happen to be. Even the ratchet ass way you goin about speaking on what you did "in retaliation" is exposing you more than it is him. :russ:


Dumb ass can't even see that. I'm done with you tho. You got it from here on out, shorty, I won't respond no more. This was fun, I hope you appreciate the :troll:
 
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