How did y'all find out your boo cheated

[MAKAVELI25]

Yo i got a story about my cousin:

- dude was dating this chick in high chool
they were in the same grade, she was the valedictorian of their class
-after they graduated she was pre-med in college and he got a job
dude was always giving her money and taking care of her
-she grad from college valedictorian and went to med school at Tulane
he had a nice job and they got married
-dude was the only income for the house
they had a kid
and before she grad had another one

- once she grad she began her residency

a year into it
he saw some emails she sent to one of the male doctors
talking about how good he fukked her and planning on doing it again
(they were fukking in the hospital while she worked over night)

she had been fukking dude over a year

my cousin confronted her and she admitted to everything

he didnt want to leave cause they had 2 kids

-low n behold she ends up preg at that time



== they move to another state to get away from the dude she cheated with and to have a fresh start
- while she is preg she starts acting crazy and talking bout suicide
(she attempted to loose the baby by falling down the stairs in their home)
then she tells him that she dont think the baby is his


he gets pissed and says he wants a divorce
- she told that nikka that since she makes way more than him she can afford to get a lawyer to get her the house and the kids in the divorce
she put that nikka down because he didnt go to college and said she was too good for him


long story but they still married now
she is mean as fukk
my couisn never got a paternity test on the 3rd kid

she works crazy hours so he is the one that cooks, cleans, does everything for the kids, plus he works full time

she just comes home from work and is so tired that all she does is sleeps




i keep trying to tell him to leave her because dude has alot of pent up anger with her and i think he might kill her oneday

This post LEGITIMATELY makes me angry

 

[Woodwerkz]

I never caught her red handed but I put the puzzle together [albeit slowly].

Clue #1 I go out of town to visit the fam and friends and the day i was suppose to leave i get sick and rushed to the hospital. I'm in the hospital for 5 days and she never came down to see me. I ended up stuck at my people how b/c of follow up appointments and etc and she finally made it to see me 21 days later. The first thing she did...was argue with me and she seemed to be in a rush to leave. I asked if i was gonna see her for Thanksgiving and she was talking like i was inconviencing her but she game down the night before and the day of...and left the evening of to go back home [4.5hrs away] even though she was off til that Monday.

Clue #2 I'm clear to drive again so i head home and she wasn't happy to see me. So the next day i attend a work function with her and she was acting distant as fukk around this one dude [who was married and his wife was my ex's boss] that was checking her out while i was walking with a box of stuff she needed. When he realized i was approaching he ducked his head and walked off. She didn't act right again until later that evening at home.

Clue #3 I'm in her truck and i notice a pillow and 2 blankets... in the cargo area. So i ask her "why is this back here?" ... she hit me with the "why are you all in my truck like that" so i hit her with the look...and she's like "I used the blanket to take the leaves to the recycling place and the other stuff is in there b/c it snows here and it my emergency kit". So i was like "well where's the kitty liter, water, weather radio, flashlight, flare and etc". She called me an a$$hole and walked off...turning around saying "who do you think i am to fukk someone outside or in a car...i have more respect for myself than that...plus i have my own home if i wanted to do something like that....whatever". [I never accused her of that...even though i was implying it]

Clue #4 The dude from clue 2 broke his leg in a motorcycle accident. She goes to Edible arrangements and sends him a get well basket saying it was "from the office". He text her later that next day saying "i know it was you that sent that basket we both know no one else in there like me like that".

Clue #5 Dude from clue 2 wife was leaving the job and they were having a going away party at his home. This dude won't stay in the same room as me for more than 2 min. So when i mentioned his sketchy behavior to my ex she tells me a story about him "going thru some things with his wife b/c he found out she bi-sexual"...i promptly told her "that ain't got shyt to do with me...but i'll go talk to him about it". She was like "no...he confided in me at lunch the other day and..." [i cut her off and was like] " so we can have one on one lunches with other people now huh? That's the rules now.

Clue #6 We go to this fundraising party with her best friend and her husband. She never wore provocative clothing...but this night she had on hooker heels [she never wore heels higher than 3 or 4in]...her cleavage out and the dress was tight and high. Even her friend looked at her like. So she goes to get me a drink and i see her taking the long was back and suddenly stopping to dance solo like she was seeking attention. Her friend's husband look at his wife like then at me like.

It was other stuff i noticed too...but the reason i reacted so slow was b/c i was still recovering every day she left for work i packed more stuff up b/c i knew it was over. So while i was devising my exit plan...she tried to accuse me of cheating...i knew it was over on her end like it was already over on my end so we went our separate ways.

I'm now engaged and will be a father anytime from now til mid Jan...while she was telling mutual friends how she fukked up with me and how i was the one that got away and her one true love...3yrs later

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

This post LEGITIMATELY makes me angry

son

i didnt feel like tying out the whole story cause it is worse

my cousin was stuck on her because he took her virginity
every one knew he was going to be a doctor cause she made all A's through out school

she was really pretty, high yella and slim
- she fat now tho

she is mean as fukk brah
i went to my cousin's house ONCE back in 2009 and never been again
-she dont allow this nikka to have his friends and family(besides my aunt) in the house


- she talk mad shyt about me, saying i am no good
so she dont want him to hang with me
i hardly ever see this nikka


i think she still cheating on him with a new nikka

 

[King Poetic]

best way i ever find out a chick is cheating i usually use a co-worker cell phone and text her using a name of a person she works with or her friends knows and ask her simple shyt like so do u want to go out or other bullshyt and boom the chick would respond like i would love to go out my man be bull shytting or she say some shyt like i'm single just seeing 2 guys

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I never caught her red handed but I put the puzzle together [albeit slowly].

Clue #1 I go out of town to visit the fam and friends and the day i was suppose to leave i get sick and rushed to the hospital. I'm in the hospital for 5 days and she never came down to see me. I ended up stuck at my people how b/c of follow up appointments and etc and she finally made it to see me 21 days later. The first thing she did...was argue with me and she seemed to be in a rush to leave. I asked if i was gonna see her for Thanksgiving and she was talking like i was inconviencing her but she game down the night before and the day of...and left the evening of to go back home [4.5hrs away] even though she was off til that Monday.

Clue #2 I'm clear to drive again so i head home and she wasn't happy to see me. So the next day i attend a work function with her and she was acting distant as fukk around this one dude [who was married and his wife was my ex's boss] that was checking her out while i was walking with a box of stuff she needed. When he realized i was approaching he ducked his head and walked off. She didn't act right again until later that evening at home.

Clue #3 I'm in her truck and i notice a pillow and 2 blankets... in the cargo area. So i ask her "why is this back here?" ... she hit me with the "why are you all in my truck like that" so i hit her with the look...and she's like "I used the blanket to take the leaves to the recycling place and the other stuff is in there b/c it snows here and it my emergency kit". So i was like "well where's the kitty liter, water, weather radio, flashlight, flare and etc". She called me an @sshole and walked off...turning around saying "who do you think i am to fukk someone outside or in a car...i have more respect for myself than that...plus i have my own home if i wanted to do something like that....whatever". [I never accused her of that...even though i was implying it]

Clue #4 The dude from clue 2 broke his leg in a motorcycle accident. She goes to Edible arrangements and sends him a get well basket saying it was "from the office". He text her later that next day saying "i know it was you that sent that basket we both know no one else in there like me like that".

Clue #5 Dude from clue 2 wife was leaving the job and they were having a going away party at his home. This dude won't stay in the same room as me for more than 2 min. So when i mentioned his sketchy behavior to my ex she tells me a story about him "going thru some things with his wife b/c he found out she bi-sexual"...i promptly told her "that ain't got shyt to do with me...but i'll go talk to him about it". She was like "no...he confided in me at lunch the other day and..." [i cut her off and was like] " so we can have one on one lunches with other people now huh? That's the rules now.

Clue #6 We go to this fundraising party with her best friend and her husband. She never wore provocative clothing...but this night she had on hooker heels [she never wore heels higher than 3 or 4in]...her cleavage out and the dress was tight and high. Even her friend looked at her like. So she goes to get me a drink and i see her taking the long was back and suddenly stopping to dance solo like she was seeking attention. Her friend's husband look at his wife like then at me like.

It was other stuff i noticed too...but the reason i reacted so slow was b/c i was still recovering every day she left for work i packed more stuff up b/c i knew it was over. So while i was devising my exit plan...she tried to accuse me of cheating...i knew it was over on her end like it was already over on my end so we went our separate ways.

I'm now engaged and will be a father anytime from now til mid Jan...while she was telling mutual friends how she fukked up with me and how i was the one that got away and her one true love...3yrs later

she sounds like a pure a$$hole

 

[jalamanta]

I never caught her red handed but I put the puzzle together [albeit slowly].

Clue #1 I go out of town to visit the fam and friends and the day i was suppose to leave i get sick and rushed to the hospital. I'm in the hospital for 5 days and she never came down to see me. I ended up stuck at my people how b/c of follow up appointments and etc and she finally made it to see me 21 days later. The first thing she did...was argue with me and she seemed to be in a rush to leave. I asked if i was gonna see her for Thanksgiving and she was talking like i was inconviencing her but she game down the night before and the day of...and left the evening of to go back home [4.5hrs away] even though she was off til that Monday.

Clue #2 I'm clear to drive again so i head home and she wasn't happy to see me. So the next day i attend a work function with her and she was acting distant as fukk around this one dude [who was married and his wife was my ex's boss] that was checking her out while i was walking with a box of stuff she needed. When he realized i was approaching he ducked his head and walked off. She didn't act right again until later that evening at home.

Clue #3 I'm in her truck and i notice a pillow and 2 blankets... in the cargo area. So i ask her "why is this back here?" ... she hit me with the "why are you all in my truck like that" so i hit her with the look...and she's like "I used the blanket to take the leaves to the recycling place and the other stuff is in there b/c it snows here and it my emergency kit". So i was like "well where's the kitty liter, water, weather radio, flashlight, flare and etc". She called me an @sshole and walked off...turning around saying "who do you think i am to fukk someone outside or in a car...i have more respect for myself than that...plus i have my own home if i wanted to do something like that....whatever". [I never accused her of that...even though i was implying it]

Clue #4 The dude from clue 2 broke his leg in a motorcycle accident. She goes to Edible arrangements and sends him a get well basket saying it was "from the office". He text her later that next day saying "i know it was you that sent that basket we both know no one else in there like me like that".

Clue #5 Dude from clue 2 wife was leaving the job and they were having a going away party at his home. This dude won't stay in the same room as me for more than 2 min. So when i mentioned his sketchy behavior to my ex she tells me a story about him "going thru some things with his wife b/c he found out she bi-sexual"...i promptly told her "that ain't got shyt to do with me...but i'll go talk to him about it". She was like "no...he confided in me at lunch the other day and..." [i cut her off and was like] " so we can have one on one lunches with other people now huh? That's the rules now.

Clue #6 We go to this fundraising party with her best friend and her husband. She never wore provocative clothing...but this night she had on hooker heels [she never wore heels higher than 3 or 4in]...her cleavage out and the dress was tight and high. Even her friend looked at her like. So she goes to get me a drink and i see her taking the long was back and suddenly stopping to dance solo like she was seeking attention. Her friend's husband look at his wife like then at me like.

It was other stuff i noticed too...but the reason i reacted so slow was b/c i was still recovering every day she left for work i packed more stuff up b/c i knew it was over. So while i was devising my exit plan...she tried to accuse me of cheating...i knew it was over on her end like it was already over on my end so we went our separate ways.

I'm now engaged and will be a father anytime from now til mid Jan...while she was telling mutual friends how she fukked up with me and how i was the one that got away and her one true love...3yrs later

Should've punched the bytch in her belly at clue number 2.

 

[Woodwerkz]

she sounds like a pure @sshole

She was but being with her for so long i got complacent and lost my way breh. She was holding me b/c and once i got away from that situation my life got instantly better and it was so many women telling me to keep my head up and don't change. I can honestly say they kept me from just going dark and getting on some grimey shyt with any chick i met afterwards.

What was crazy about that ex was...she was 5 yrs older than me but the older she got...the more mentally she regressed. I thought i was building with a mature woman when we went to couples therapy and i called her an "Ice hearted bytch"...she embraced it and agreed that she was.....

 

[bl2k8]

Even I got cheated on once. But i got glorious revenge

We were high school sweethearts, i was the basketball player, she was the cheerleader. She was a year behind me, so when I went off to college on scholarship we said we would still be faithful despite the distance. I come back home on winter vacation, me and her are out and about. And my homie sees us at the mall, i dap him up and he like "Oh you with her..." and I'm like yeah we still rocking together. And he says in front of both of us, "Yo she aint your girl" and i'm like wtf u mean?

I didnt know yall were together like that no more

So she spazzes on him and i stop it before it escalates, i hit him up later that night and he tells me the whole story. She been fukking on me with multiple nikkas. Got bytches plotting to jump her for fukking they man and all that. So me being naive I didn't wanna believe it, so i asked her best friend. She always wanted to fukk me so she couldn't wait to throw salt on her, confirmed everything he said plus some. So I was hurt, but I figured i want revenge. I came to her and said yo i know you been lying and cheating....she starts crying and says yes but it was only once at homecoming, i was drunk, you been cheating too i know it. Please forgive me take me back i'll do anything.

So I figured i got a hoe on my hands, i'm bout to dog her out. So I said "anything huh....well since you like outside dikk i want you to go fukk my homie. He wasn't my homie like that, he paid me a couple dollars and i let him hit. So she like you gonna take me back now? I said let me fukk your friend, the one who told me everything. She orchestrated it and i smashed her homegirl on the bed while she sat on the floor. Long story short, i pimped her out a few more times then threw her in the bushes.

Last time we spoke was like a year later. She had been committed to a mental hospital, told me some crazy story about how they made her yell in a tube and listen to the echo. I learned my lesson tho, never trust a bytch words unless you can verify.

Damn breh girl was ok with you smashing another chick in front of her

 

[ster35]

She went on vacation with her girlfriends...I used my fukking brain.

Mine too. We were teenagers and she went to spring break with her friends. A nikka didn't know how goes down on spring break was so I told her to go and have a good time. Later on in the week I turned on MTV and was like ! She came back and was like I just want to be friends and asked if I would still go to her prom with her . I told her ass hell no and since I had already rented my tux I took some other girl to hers ! *Long time lurker turned poster*

 

[MikelArteta]

Yo i got a story about my cousin:

- dude was dating this chick in high chool
they were in the same grade, she was the valedictorian of their class
-after they graduated she was pre-med in college and he got a job
dude was always giving her money and taking care of her
-she grad from college valedictorian and went to med school at Tulane
he had a nice job and they got married
-dude was the only income for the house
they had a kid
and before she grad had another one

- once she grad she began her residency

a year into it
he saw some emails she sent to one of the male doctors
talking about how good he fukked her and planning on doing it again
(they were fukking in the hospital while she worked over night)

she had been fukking dude over a year

my cousin confronted her and she admitted to everything

he didnt want to leave cause they had 2 kids

-low n behold she ends up preg at that time



== they move to another state to get away from the dude she cheated with and to have a fresh start
- while she is preg she starts acting crazy and talking bout suicide
(she attempted to loose the baby by falling down the stairs in their home)
then she tells him that she dont think the baby is his


he gets pissed and says he wants a divorce
- she told that nikka that since she makes way more than him she can afford to get a lawyer to get her the house and the kids in the divorce
she put that nikka down because he didnt go to college and said she was too good for him


long story but they still married now
she is mean as fukk
my couisn never got a paternity test on the 3rd kid

she works crazy hours so he is the one that cooks, cleans, does everything for the kids, plus he works full time

she just comes home from work and is so tired that all she does is sleeps




i keep trying to tell him to leave her because dude has alot of pent up anger with her and i think he might kill her oneday

breh im sick to my stomach reading this

no man should have to go through this

 

[Woodwerkz]

Should've punched the bytch in her belly at clue number 2.

In hindsight I agree...it's a lot of things i should've done differently to her considering some of the shyt she said and did on the low and outright. But at the end of the day I am glad that i didn't b/c i walked away from the relationship with a clear conscious and no regrets...while she still can't keep a man making tweets like "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I need permanent residence in a facility for treatment."

 

[MikelArteta]

I never caught her red handed but I put the puzzle together [albeit slowly].

Clue #1 I go out of town to visit the fam and friends and the day i was suppose to leave i get sick and rushed to the hospital. I'm in the hospital for 5 days and she never came down to see me. I ended up stuck at my people how b/c of follow up appointments and etc and she finally made it to see me 21 days later. The first thing she did...was argue with me and she seemed to be in a rush to leave. I asked if i was gonna see her for Thanksgiving and she was talking like i was inconviencing her but she game down the night before and the day of...and left the evening of to go back home [4.5hrs away] even though she was off til that Monday.

Clue #2 I'm clear to drive again so i head home and she wasn't happy to see me. So the next day i attend a work function with her and she was acting distant as fukk around this one dude [who was married and his wife was my ex's boss] that was checking her out while i was walking with a box of stuff she needed. When he realized i was approaching he ducked his head and walked off. She didn't act right again until later that evening at home.

Clue #3 I'm in her truck and i notice a pillow and 2 blankets... in the cargo area. So i ask her "why is this back here?" ... she hit me with the "why are you all in my truck like that" so i hit her with the look...and she's like "I used the blanket to take the leaves to the recycling place and the other stuff is in there b/c it snows here and it my emergency kit". So i was like "well where's the kitty liter, water, weather radio, flashlight, flare and etc". She called me an @sshole and walked off...turning around saying "who do you think i am to fukk someone outside or in a car...i have more respect for myself than that...plus i have my own home if i wanted to do something like that....whatever". [I never accused her of that...even though i was implying it]

Clue #4 The dude from clue 2 broke his leg in a motorcycle accident. She goes to Edible arrangements and sends him a get well basket saying it was "from the office". He text her later that next day saying "i know it was you that sent that basket we both know no one else in there like me like that".

Clue #5 Dude from clue 2 wife was leaving the job and they were having a going away party at his home. This dude won't stay in the same room as me for more than 2 min. So when i mentioned his sketchy behavior to my ex she tells me a story about him "going thru some things with his wife b/c he found out she bi-sexual"...i promptly told her "that ain't got shyt to do with me...but i'll go talk to him about it". She was like "no...he confided in me at lunch the other day and..." [i cut her off and was like] " so we can have one on one lunches with other people now huh? That's the rules now.

Clue #6 We go to this fundraising party with her best friend and her husband. She never wore provocative clothing...but this night she had on hooker heels [she never wore heels higher than 3 or 4in]...her cleavage out and the dress was tight and high. Even her friend looked at her like. So she goes to get me a drink and i see her taking the long was back and suddenly stopping to dance solo like she was seeking attention. Her friend's husband look at his wife like then at me like.

It was other stuff i noticed too...but the reason i reacted so slow was b/c i was still recovering every day she left for work i packed more stuff up b/c i knew it was over. So while i was devising my exit plan...she tried to accuse me of cheating...i knew it was over on her end like it was already over on my end so we went our separate ways.

I'm now engaged and will be a father anytime from now til mid Jan...while she was telling mutual friends how she fukked up with me and how i was the one that got away and her one true love...3yrs later

in the end good people win and cheaters lose

congrats on your upcoming fatherhood breh

 

[King Poetic]

reading these stories keep me derek jeter with chicks...only thing they get is a lunch or dinner date nothing more

i dont understand why dudes pay chick bills buy there clothes and the whole nine

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Damn breh girl was ok with you smashing another chick in front of her

When a girl wants a man to take her back, she'll do almost anything. Girls can be simps too especially when you dont give them what they want.

 

[ster35]

Damn, in his book Black Passenger Yellow Cabs, Stefhan Bryan says that he was straight smashin over there in Japan and that dudes were so worried about getting that doe, they were weren't even mad a brotha was dikkin down they wives