How did y'all find out your boo cheated

[Art Barr]

Possessive? My G there's rules and regulations in fukkin with me . She broke the rules so I terminated her contract effectively immediately.

You can't give these jumpoff's freedom breh, that's how these broads end up slashing your tires and running round reckless and shyt

they slash your tires.
when, you construct committal based ideals to non-committal based mating situations, breh.

your rules are flawed,..
you can't do committal shyt with non-committals, period.
you creating boyfriend/girlfriend dynamics with non-committals.
that shyt is a no-no, joe.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

thats happened to me before....i made the mistake of asking a homegirl, who was a jump at the time, to come through to my homie's house after a night of clubbing and drinking...i wanted to bust it down real quick in my homie's basement where i was crashing for the night...usually my 2 other nikkas would have backup bytches of their own on deck..but for some reason they didn't so when she came through..both of them had the looks on their face..now if i told them she was a main chick they would've kept it moving but they knew that wasn't the case

one of my nikkas end up succumbing to the liquor about 10 mins after but my other nikka was showing her porn and shyt on the TV trying to get something started...to her credit she knew her role that night did end up in that basement after some time so i could hit that. A couple weeks later my homie hits me up "yo your homegirl hits me up all the time"...im like " why? you hittin' it?"..he said "yeah but she's mad clingy..she always wants to come over..showed up unannounced at my spot and job"..im like .."that's your problem"..but yeah i had to stop fukking her after that

come on breh,..
you basically set ol girl out.

if you not trying to deal with seeing guys you know smash your jump off.
don't bring her around in social setting with other guys.
if you bring a female who is a jumpoff around the guys.
plus, they know she is a jumpoff and not a committal.
not to mention, she knows she is a jumpoff
she knows she is being set out.

you lucky, you not around me and my expert homies.
we would have had ol gurl buss'n down.
for even being in our presence like that joe.
never bring a female around the guys you feel some type of way about like that.

you friends don't need to see or know about who you smashing.

i don't ever bring who i am smashing around like that.
even if they are non-committals or committals.

my life, as it pertains to who i mate with.
is not for anyone in my social circle to experience.
so, they really don't need to meet nobody i know like that.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

sometimes i'm afraid to go to sleep at night. i know this one guy probably wants to kill me. he's one of those guys who you wouldn't be surprised to find out shot up some school

you better get rid of dude,.
you gon wind up, getting woke out of your sleep.
while, getting stabbed with over ninety defensive wounds with nine fatal stab wounds, like my bm did.
when, she fukked' with that ward of the state face simp nikka.
who tried to kill her like close to ten years ago.
with my daughter in the house who couldn't talk at the time.
this shyt not a game.

you better play it smarter,....


art barr

 

[patscorpio]

come on breh,..
you basically set ol girl out.

if you not trying to deal with seeing guys you know smash your jump off.
don't bring her around in social setting with other guys.
if you bring a female who is a jumpoff around the guys.
plus, they know she is a jumpoff and not a committal.
not to mention, she knows she is a jumpoff
she knows she is being set out.

you lucky, you not around me and my expert homies.
we would have had ol gurl buss'n down.
for even being in our presence like that joe.
never bring a female around the guys you feel some type of way about like that.

you friends don't need to see or know about who you smashing.

i don't ever bring who i am smashing around like that.
even if they are non-committals or committals.

my life, as it pertains to who i mate with.
is not for anyone in my social circle to experience.
so, they really don't need to meet nobody i know like that.

art barr

I know the game breh...but she was also a cousin to one of my boys so I couldn't be on some cold shyt with her..but like I said that was the only time I was ever in that situation..usually my boys have their own action set up

 

[Art Barr]

high school stories dont count brehs, everyones on a non guaranteed contract then

this ideaology is why shyt is all fukked't up, now.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

She was 17 and he drove 3 hours from and back to his house so that they could have a 3-4 day fukkfest. They had sex around 20 times and did every act imaginable. They fukked like newlyweds in heat. She'd just stay at his house, naked all day long and he'd show her off to her friends when he got back from work. She let him hit it raw. She swallowed. All this happened a few months into our relationship before I even got the chance to hit it once. And it was Christmas time.

Her own mother didn't know where she was and wanted to call the police on the guy when he drove her back home. She hardly knew the guy and she never talked to him again.

I didn't find out until weeks later. What made it worse is that she hadn't had sex in over a year and she told me that she was very tight from the inactivity so sex would be a bit uncomfortable at first, until she got used to it. I really thought she was going to get used to me, but he hit it first while I was home alone during the holidays wondering why I couldn't reach her. I felt extra terrible because of this because her tightness from abstinence was like a pseudo-virginity that gave her an aura of purity. And she let some dude she just met violate her frequently while we (well, just I) were both waiting to consummate our relationship after a few months.

She claims she felt terribly guilty about it, but the damage was done. I hate myself for trying to "have a relationship" with her, and the ether was unimaginably potent. I blame myself the most because I took her seriously and thought we were going to have a long-term relationship before it happened. I felt so stupid at first then I was consumed by sadness then hatred then apathy. It really fukked me up and I fukked up so badly, I'll never be the same again.

Biggest L I ever took in my life.

as a man, it is a right of passage to go through this.
if you don't you gon be fukked up in the game, period.

you have to have this experience, to be a man, too.
if you don't.
other men, know you don't know what the fukk you talembout.
plus, a female you fukk with can sense that shyt, too.
then, she will take full advantage on you.

you must have a cheating significant other, occur to you as a man.



art barr

 

[BruhMayne]

Was dating this chick sophmore year in college, laying in bed and she opened up her phone when she thought I was sleep. Screensaver was her boo'd up with the caption "Pepe's Girl" .


After her I was dating this chick junior year and one day she came by to take me to class in a big body buick . Dropped me off on campus driving another nikka's car who went to my school who she been going with for 4 years

 

[Art Barr]

how did you find out bruh? im in a long distance relationship and I see some familiar things iny our story that got me fukked up (her tightness from lack of sex and how its gonna hurt her until she gets used to it)

that is a deflection based liar face ass game to hide they been cheating.
plus, have checked out emotionally.
shyt is a complete farce and a lie.
as a sexually inexperienced girl who really really likes you.
ain't never talking that negative discomfort shyt.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Years ago my girl invited me to her crib and a dude was there whose hair she was braiding. Playboy had a look on his face that i couldnt ignore like he was fukkig her or something.

I didnt let my thoughts known that day but the next day she came to my crib. We fukked and i told her to leave it was over. Babygirl swears she never cheated on me til this day. I never had proof but i my instincts were buzzin.

ol girl tried to pull the braided two step on you.

i know a nikka, who was doing this and him and his girlfriend used to have real brawls.
his girl was like 6.4.
i don't know why the girl who braided my guy's hair.
would even attempt to try jazz like that.
knowing jazz would beat her and my guy's ass all the way the fukk down.


art barr

 

[↓R↑LYB]

they slash your tires.
when, you construct committal based ideals to non-committal based mating situations, breh.

your rules are flawed,..
you can't do committal shyt with non-committals, period.
you creating boyfriend/girlfriend dynamics with non-committals.
that shyt is a no-no, joe.



art barr

breh I've been doing it my whole life and never had a broad come at me reckless.

These hoes need order and instructions. They need to be told what the can and cannot do .

Y'all got these broads thinking that they're able to just make decisions without your consent. Never had a broad show up at my door. Never had a broad go through my phone. Never had a broad raise their voice to me.

Get your hoes in check old man

 

[Art Barr]

A long time ago when I was about 19, I called my chick and heard a voice in the background. I tried to call her out over the phone, telling her I knew she had somebody with her, but she kept denying that shyt. I hung up and drove to her house and ended up seeing some shyt that shook me. The car in her driveway belonged to my best friend at the time. I wasn't gonna trip though, I just kept driving and later on told her that it was over. I stopped talking to my boy for a few months as well, dude was like a brother to me before then. I still think about that shyt to this day. I was in college, staying faithful to this lil' 16 year old high school chick, when I could have had badder broads on campus at that time. Her parents never liked me because I wasn't Latino (she's Mexican), so that probably made it easier for my boy to slide in there (he's Rican) and do shyt all in front of her parents and them not give a shyt. Now that slut is about 29/30 years old, has three fukking kids, and she work's at McDonald's. She sent me a Facebook friend request a few years ago, and I only accepted to see what she was doing. I had planned to delete her, but after seeing her struggles I actually get some joy out of being her friend. She's the type that posts all her business on Facebook. I'm married now, living good and whatnot, and she's barely hanging on with three kids and none of the fathers in the picture. She sends me messages all the time talking about I should come see her again the next time I come home. I dunno why, because the last time I saw her when I was in my early 20's I played along with her bullshyt, busted in her mouth, left her spot with the quickness and didn't talk to her again...even though I had told her we could go out to the dinner the next day and she'd be dessert. A few years later is when the Facebook shyt started. I still hate that bytch...

the reason why, i posted in this thread.
is because ol girl, i posted about.
has made her normal, hey what'chu doing type inquiry about me.
this time using pof, and it is hilarious.
i hate this bytch, but imma do ereythang ungodly to the ho, for the get back.

revenge is best served cold, and i been wanting to get back at her.
ever since, she ruined my relationship with sonia.

shyt infuriates me to this day,.....

only thing is,..i don't do none of that simp shyt i used to do.
so, trying to play the role is not my forte.
to try to remack this broad, and smang the unholy hell outta her.

knowing her, she probably is close to getting married again.
for like the umpteenth time, and looking for me to smash her before her marriage
so, she trying to play/prey and looking to have ego candy on the next nikka.


art barr


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

smfh. This story has me mad at my nikka all over again.

I'm sorry you went through that man . Hopefully you'll find a female that will respect your and yalls relationship.

@the bolded: Felt all that and then some...plotted his murder and my alibi.

@Phoenix_Knightly23

so, since this post proves you discoveryzoning us.
why don't you break fuc'n kayfabe and give us the real on the female matrix.

how you gon be a coli brehette.
yet, you fronting and still playing opposite sex military warfare with the guys, on the coli still.


help the guys out like we help you.

don't be selfish....the coli brehette's supposed to be the homies.
where we at the very least should know what females are on.
so, we can learn how to write really effective dating profiles and all that.

men, and women can't typically be friends.
all, because the females are super stingy, and don't break kayfabe.
while discoverzone the fukk outta us.
we are on the internet, we don't have to break dikk in case of emergency friend roster.
nikkaz, just wanna have shyt confirmed so they can do better.
like, how females discovery zone us,..so they can do better.

don't let the 23 in your username make you like jordan on the competitive edge.
we trying to win, just like you.

each one, teach one,...hon.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

breh I've been doing it my whole life and never had a broad come at me reckless.

These hoes need order and instructions. They need to be told what the can and cannot do .

Y'all got these broads thinking that they're able to just make decisions without your consent. Never had a broad show up at my door. Never had a broad go through my phone. Never had a broad raise their voice to me.

Get your hoes in check old man

i guess, you never read my story, about:

TINKERBELL



art barr

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

 

[Art Barr]

Being cheated on the second time hurts more than the first because you told that person how much it hurt being betrayed and you get the "I'd never do that to you" only to get stabbed in the back . I wish nothing but unstable toxic relationships for that whore till she dies .

RULE : NEVER TALK ABOUT PAST RELATIONSHIPS WITH NEW PROSPECTIVE MATES, EVER.



if you talking about relationships, with new prospective mates.
don't, do that....
it, creates the ability of your new mate in committals to know they can play you, too.

you never talk about past relationships to your new mate.
you never even need to hear about your new prospective past mates, either.


art barr