How did y'all find out your boo cheated

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It ain't really shyt to say, brehs.

I waited, and waited, and waited.... I had no idea what I was going to do when somebody showed up.

I waited, downloaded Hip Hop is Dead. lol

Tell you how hard I got styled on, they pulled up in his green surburban or whatever bumping



I was mad as hell!

She must've saw my car even though I had went out and moved it... cause they kept pulling off and leaving for 30 minutes and then coming back.... but they never stopped or got out.

Yeah, nikkas. I was waiting. Dude was prolly gonna kick the shyt out of me, but somebody was gonna die.


After about 3 or 4 hours of this, I just took my heartbroken, styled on ass home. Had to explain to my job why I bounced like I did 2 hours before my shift was over. All I could do was vent about it on the Ill Community and shyt. I didn't have nothing left. No friends, no girl, no daughter, didn't have my own place anymore, had lost everything.


Like I say, it fukked me up pretty bad. I was already on a slippery slope. shyt made me hit rock bottom, for real.

I let her string me along in some desperate futile hope that she'd come back. She'd call and I'd come running. We was still fukking and all. Her parents finally had a legit reason to try and keep me out of their lives. She had this Mr. Perfect dude with the 6 figure income and the college degree. Why was she still fukking with me?

Lotta hateful shyt was said....

All in all, she married dude in six months. I had been trying for years.

Then he started fukking her over pretty severely, so I guess it all balanced out.

They're still married to this very day. But the fact that she's shopping for another house right now that she says is "hers" and she hasn't had a job in years has more to do with it than "love" ever will.
 

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@ChrisDorner @SilkkTheStalker

It ain't really shyt to say, brehs.

I waited, and waited, and waited.... I had no idea what I was going to do when somebody showed up.

I waited, downloaded Hip Hop is Dead. lol

Tell you how hard I got styled on, they pulled up in his green surburban or whatever bumping



I was mad as hell!

She must've saw my car even though I had went out and moved it... cause they kept pulling off and leaving for 30 minutes and then coming back.... but they never stopped or got out.

Yeah, nikkas. I was waiting. Dude was prolly gonna kick the shyt out of me, but somebody was gonna die.


After about 3 or 4 hours of this, I just took my heartbroken, styled on ass home. Had to explain to my job why I bounced like I did 2 hours before my shift was over. All I could do was vent about it on the Ill Community and shyt. I didn't have nothing left. No friends, no girl, no daughter, didn't have my own place anymore, had lost everything.


Like I say, it fukked me up pretty bad. I was already on a slippery slope. shyt made me hit rock bottom, for real.

I let her string me along in some desperate futile hope that she'd come back. She'd call and I'd come running. We was still fukking and all. Her parents finally had a legit reason to try and keep me out of their lives. She had this Mr. Perfect dude with the 6 figure income and the college degree. Why was she still fukking with me?

Lotta hateful shyt was said....

All in all, she married dude in six months. I had been trying for years.

Then he started fukking her over pretty severely, so I guess it all balanced out.

They're still married to this very day. But the fact that she's shopping for another house right now that she says is "hers" and she hasn't had a job in years has more to do with it than "love" ever will.

:to: damn breh

Thank you for finishing the story

you ended the first part on some trapped in the closet part 23 shyt
 

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this shyt is kinda long so it might not get read but i wanna share :manny:

i guess i always knew my ex was a hoe.

at the time i was a swagless, overweight, broke 23 year old. never had a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months and never fell in love with any of them. i got a job as a bouncer at a pool hall in the bronx and started feeling this super cute chubby puerto rican waitress who just seemed very bubbly and friendly. we got cool and became friends on myspace and chit chatted for a while, even went on a date, but then we lost contact. i figured at the time (correctly) that she fixed shyt with baby daddy and got back with him.

flash forward 2 years later and she emails me out of nowhere asking if i remember her. we chatted a bit, went out on a date, and 3 weeks later we were in a relationship(december). everything was gravy til mother's day. this is where the fun started. she told me, nonchalantly, that her baby daddy wanted to take her out to dinner for mothers day and she accepted. i was pissed off and we fought about it for the majority of the day but i decided to try and be the bigger man and let it go. sunday comes, and she texts me saying she loves me, she is waiting for the table and that he is so annoying blah blah blah. then i dont hear from her all night :comeon:.

next day i get a breakup email saying she wants to give him another chance, he is in therapy, blah blah blah. i was pissed, even cried like a little bytch, and cursed her out and called her the ugliest names i could think of.

4 days later we got back together :snoop: stupid me.

after that, it was never the same and it was on again, off again until the following december, our 1st anniversary. she left her laptop in my crib and i decided to check her fb messages since she didnt log off.

1. message from her 40 something year old next door neighbor saying "hey u can come over at anytime u want"
2. message from some pretty nikka asking for her number and her giving it to him

i blew up, she denied denied denied, and i decided to forget about it :snoop: i know brehs, i know. there was no proof of actual sex, so i decided to leave it alone.

2 days later, her best friend's baby shower. diego sanchez was fighting bj penn that night and i was missing it to attend this baby shower. so i took her g1(mine was dead) to look at fight updates. decided to look at her text messages. saw messages from the night before with her baby daddy...

her: you got beer or liqs?
him: yea, bring cigarettes
her: ok
him: call me when you in front, the intercom is busted
her: ok

:to: destroyed me.

but guess what brehs, i kept fukking her and my feelings never died. i just didnt trust her. then in valentines day, she told me she didnt love me anymore. that hurt more than all the cheating. it broke my heart but i let her go (except when i took her out for her bday in march like a true simp). i changed my life around, started hitting the gym, lost 40 lbs in 4 months. even tho i couldnt forget about her, i started to move on and even fukked a new shorty. life wasnt quite good but getting better.

then in august, anderson silva was fighting chael sonnen for the first time. i watched the card and after, as i looked for parking, bytch texted me. she missed me, she wanted to see me, come pick her up. i did :snoop:. we fukked, and she convinced me to give it one last shot. i did :snoop: that lasted a week. she went 2 days without speaking to me and i was like :dwillhuh:.

then on a saturday night, her best friend calls me. she been sleeping with her best friends ex man. best friend even told me she been fukking a nikka she was in school with, her baby daddy, a nikka at work, AND dude in her building.

:blessed: i was finally free from her grip. no more sadness, just anger at myself for being so stupid. BEST thing that could have ever happened to me brehs.

i lost another 50 lbs, started taking MMA, fukked a couple more bytches, got a good job, found the woman of my dreams(virgin from a happy home, complete opposite to my ex) married her 2 weeks ago, found an even better job, lets just say life has gotten way better.

as for her :scusthov: we all know how women deteriorate after a while. she a cig smoking fat puerto rican like her mom so you already know

:dwillhuh: you can track your entire relationship by ufc fights
 

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i guess i always knew my ex was a hoe.

And there's the rub!

See, most dudes in their heart and soul know that their chick is not quite right, but they want to believe otherwise. And see, its that "wanting to believe otherwise" that always messes people up. The same thing happens with women...they meet a dude who they know is not quite ready for a relationship but they overlook it because they really like him, its all good until they go through his phone and find crude texts from other women and you know the rest.

People tend to overlook things in people they really like or are attracted to. Like dudes will see a woman who is very pretty and overlook the fact that she lives with her mom, works a low-end job, spends more than she makes, parties too much, dresses a bit too hoish, is on her phone too much and has a few too many dudes who claim to have hit it. But "she's a dime and I think I can work with her...plus she really is a good chick." Oh, and ladies, you're no different.

Its all good until you experience one of these stories in real life. And if you overlook someone's lifestyle and habits, then its damn near impossible not to experience one of these stories.

When dealing with people, its best to try and be objective. Yea, she's pretty but what about her life though? If her life is messed up, then she's a messed up person most likely.

Peace
 

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@ChrisDorner @SilkkTheStalker

It ain't really shyt to say, brehs.

I waited, and waited, and waited.... I had no idea what I was going to do when somebody showed up.

I waited, downloaded Hip Hop is Dead. lol

Tell you how hard I got styled on, they pulled up in his green surburban or whatever bumping



I was mad as hell!

She must've saw my car even though I had went out and moved it... cause they kept pulling off and leaving for 30 minutes and then coming back.... but they never stopped or got out.

Yeah, nikkas. I was waiting. Dude was prolly gonna kick the shyt out of me, but somebody was gonna die.


After about 3 or 4 hours of this, I just took my heartbroken, styled on ass home. Had to explain to my job why I bounced like I did 2 hours before my shift was over. All I could do was vent about it on the Ill Community and shyt. I didn't have nothing left. No friends, no girl, no daughter, didn't have my own place anymore, had lost everything.


Like I say, it fukked me up pretty bad. I was already on a slippery slope. shyt made me hit rock bottom, for real.

I let her string me along in some desperate futile hope that she'd come back. She'd call and I'd come running. We was still fukking and all. Her parents finally had a legit reason to try and keep me out of their lives. She had this Mr. Perfect dude with the 6 figure income and the college degree. Why was she still fukking with me?

Lotta hateful shyt was said....

All in all, she married dude in six months. I had been trying for years.

Then he started fukking her over pretty severely, so I guess it all balanced out.

They're still married to this very day. But the fact that she's shopping for another house right now that she says is "hers" and she hasn't had a job in years has more to do with it than "love" ever will.

that song too :whew:
 

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And there's the rub!

See, most dudes in their heart and soul know that their chick is not quite right, but they want to believe otherwise. And see, its that "wanting to believe otherwise" that always messes people up. The same thing happens with women...they meet a dude who they know is not quite ready for a relationship but they overlook it because they really like him, its all good until they go through his phone and find crude texts from other women and you know the rest.

People tend to overlook things in people they really like or are attracted to. Like dudes will see a woman who is very pretty and overlook the fact that she lives with her mom, works a low-end job, spends more than she makes, parties too much, dresses a bit too hoish, is on her phone too much and has a few too many dudes who claim to have hit it. But "she's a dime and I think I can work with her...plus she really is a good chick." Oh, and ladies, you're no different.

Its all good until you experience one of these stories in real life. And if you overlook someone's lifestyle and habits, then its damn near impossible not to experience one of these stories.

When dealing with people, its best to try and be objective. Yea, she's pretty but what about her life though? If her life is messed up, then she's a messed up person most likely.

Peace

yea i think when people get stuck in these situations its mostly due to lack of confidence more than anything. you dont feel like u can do better so u put up with the bullshyt. after i found out, i didnt stay mad at her forever, i got mad at myself for settling. i blamed myself for the whole thing and this led me to a better life. alot of dudes get mad at just the female and start treating all females after the same and it just leads to more drama.

in the end, we all dig our own holes
 

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:wow:

And there's the rub!

See, most dudes in their heart and soul know that their chick is not quite right, but they want to believe otherwise. And see, its that "wanting to believe otherwise" that always messes people up. The same thing happens with women...they meet a dude who they know is not quite ready for a relationship but they overlook it because they really like him, its all good until they go through his phone and find crude texts from other women and you know the rest.

People tend to overlook things in people they really like or are attracted to. Like dudes will see a woman who is very pretty and overlook the fact that she lives with her mom, works a low-end job, spends more than she makes, parties too much, dresses a bit too hoish, is on her phone too much and has a few too many dudes who claim to have hit it. But "she's a dime and I think I can work with her...plus she really is a good chick." Oh, and ladies, you're no different.

Its all good until you experience one of these stories in real life. And if you overlook someone's lifestyle and habits, then its damn near impossible not to experience one of these stories.

When dealing with people, its best to try and be objective. Yea, she's pretty but what about her life though? If her life is messed up, then she's a messed up person most likely.

Peace
 
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