How did you overcome that trauma from your youth that makes you freeze with a woman you actually have romantic interest?

Rozay Oro

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Don’t mention it, a big part that brehs miss is that you gotta be on your own shyt and passionate about it to the point that you’ve got cool things that you’re getting into all the time. It makes you interesting to them, shows that you can lock in and dedicate to something, shows you appreciate and think highly of yourself to maintain discipline, and again, it makes you overthink way less because she’s just a passing moment in your dynamic day and it’s up to you at that point to either invest some of your precious time on her or not.

When you seem like a prize that raises their attraction.
Everything I like is in the arts and honestly a bit hard to make good money in. I’m kinda not sure what to do.

I was thinking becoming an Operations Research Analyst via online degree
 
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Rozay Oro

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Any strong desire born of lack is lust my g.

People lust for money, lust for fame, lust for relationships, children, families, you can't even carry all that right now, you're too dysregulated and the "want" is moreso coming from a void. And I'm not singling you out, we all go through that.

But the path of the Christ is learning how to embody the love you seek. If you focus on that, seek first the kingdom everything else will fall into place.

And being a nurse is a noble service for sure. Just keep in mind there are other people like you, ones even further down a dark road that could use help. When you find your way out of a particular challenge part of your service can be passing that knowledge on.
I’m so for helping anyone else that is broken as me. For sure.
I’ve ordered some self help books by watching Kenny Weiss on YouTube.

Honestly, I feel like God won’t bless me with a good woman that I would adore
 

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Everything I like is in the arts and honestly a bit hard to make good money in. I’m kinda not sure what to do.

I was thinking becoming an Operations Research Analyst via online degree

Well make the arts the side shyt that maintains discipline. Women love when men have hobbies they be fukkin with. Especially something artistic. You can get the job that gets you stability and work towards those artistic things as a hobby/long term goal.

Real talk, there’s no greater building block than deciding on something and working towards it. It builds self esteem and confidence and again, it’s something that women find attractive.
 

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Well make the arts the side shyt that maintains discipline. Women love when men have hobbies they be fukkin with. Especially something artistic. You can get the job that gets you stability and work towards those artistic things as a hobby/long term goal.

Real talk, there’s no greater building block than deciding on something and working towards it. It builds self esteem and confidence and again, it’s something that women find attractive.
I got a drink and my new guitar. Pray a nikka become the new D’Angelo
 
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