How did you overcome that trauma from your youth that makes you freeze with a woman you actually have romantic interest?

[Rozay Oro]

you gotta tell her I won't you

I already fukked that up bad. I’m just trying to move on

 

[Rozay Oro]

Don’t mention it, a big part that brehs miss is that you gotta be on your own shyt and passionate about it to the point that you’ve got cool things that you’re getting into all the time. It makes you interesting to them, shows that you can lock in and dedicate to something, shows you appreciate and think highly of yourself to maintain discipline, and again, it makes you overthink way less because she’s just a passing moment in your dynamic day and it’s up to you at that point to either invest some of your precious time on her or not.

When you seem like a prize that raises their attraction.

Everything I like is in the arts and honestly a bit hard to make good money in. I’m kinda not sure what to do.

I was thinking becoming an Operations Research Analyst via online degree

 

[Rozay Oro]

Any strong desire born of lack is lust my g.

People lust for money, lust for fame, lust for relationships, children, families, you can't even carry all that right now, you're too dysregulated and the "want" is moreso coming from a void. And I'm not singling you out, we all go through that.

But the path of the Christ is learning how to embody the love you seek. If you focus on that, seek first the kingdom everything else will fall into place.

And being a nurse is a noble service for sure. Just keep in mind there are other people like you, ones even further down a dark road that could use help. When you find your way out of a particular challenge part of your service can be passing that knowledge on.

I’m so for helping anyone else that is broken as me. For sure.
I’ve ordered some self help books by watching Kenny Weiss on YouTube.

Honestly, I feel like God won’t bless me with a good woman that I would adore

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Everything I like is in the arts and honestly a bit hard to make good money in. I’m kinda not sure what to do.

I was thinking becoming an Operations Research Analyst via online degree

Well make the arts the side shyt that maintains discipline. Women love when men have hobbies they be fukkin with. Especially something artistic. You can get the job that gets you stability and work towards those artistic things as a hobby/long term goal.

Real talk, there’s no greater building block than deciding on something and working towards it. It builds self esteem and confidence and again, it’s something that women find attractive.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Well make the arts the side shyt that maintains discipline. Women love when men have hobbies they be fukkin with. Especially something artistic. You can get the job that gets you stability and work towards those artistic things as a hobby/long term goal.

Real talk, there’s no greater building block than deciding on something and working towards it. It builds self esteem and confidence and again, it’s something that women find attractive.

I got a drink and my new guitar. Pray a nikka become the new D’Angelo

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

I got a drink and my new guitar. Pray a nikka become the new D’Angelo

Shiiit go for it, just take it slow and allow yourself to fail. Those are the moments when you learn and get better. Once you got a good rhythm with that you can take on another hobby.

 

[Rozay Oro]

But that's the thing. You gotta meet at least a handful of women before you find one you really wanna be with

Not one for the rest of your life more than likely. But those can still lead you to having worthwhile experiences and genuine connection with someone despite the outcome

Not saying fukk all of em, but actually spend time getting to know them before jumping to calling them your gf. You don't know who you gonna be romantically interested in if you only know basic info about them

I'm still searching for that type of shyt myself. So dont feel bad breh. Ain't getting no younger so might as well be with a woman I can see something more than the immediate future with

Once you gotten a taste of that real love, that other shyt don't hit the same

Ok I’m try this

 

[Uachet]

When I was young, I mean between 5 - 10, asking just to go outside was an ordeal. Due to some issues, my mother would arbitrarily say no, for no particular reason. So I would spend hours just building up my courage to ask in anticipation of the "No" response I knew could happen 50% of the time.

At 10, I had an epiphany that changed everything for me and the way I thought about "No". It was simply this: If I did not ask, it is an automatic "No". At least if I took the chance to ask to go outside, I had a chance of going outside. I had allowed myself to fear the "No" more than understanding that by not saying anything, I would have the same outcome. That epiphany helped me in other avenues of my life immensely.

So, why does this fit you? Well, what you are expressing is a fear of the possible outcomes, but what you have to remember is that if you do not put yourself out there and do not take the chance of seeking the sort of relationship you desire, the outcome will always be the same. You will always fail if you do not try. When you flip that the thought in your mind to understand that you failure is only short-term when you try, but is complete when you do not try, you will then see why it is better to always try.

 

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Stop overthinking/outsmarting yourself and start acting. It isn't easy but it can be done.