How did you overcome your low self esteem ?

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Practice being confident , and lowkey MENTALLY pretend you’re someone important or someone that has a cool persona.

As a kid I got some of my self esteem from 80’s rappers:yeshrug: Their song content exudes self esteem and they also TAUGHT self esteem.
Rakim said “My self esteem make it seems like the thought took years to build”.

Kane - called himself King Asiatic NOBODY’S EQUAL
KRS-would tell your how smarter his is than everyone aka The Teacher.
LL -LADIES LOVE Cool J
Slick Rick- Jewelry game, drip, swag, and his words in his raps made him above everyone in his mind.

Excelling in sports was the main thing.
Chicks also built my Self esteem as a kid. Being handsome has its perks.

Subtlety Showing off in something you excel in works.


Last but not least, when you get older you just don’t give a damn, and realize that YOU control your self esteem, not people’s feelings about you.
 
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@ThrobbingHood long story short. I see people have close knit connections with friends or family.
My family is kinda estranged and my friends tend to be Fairweather
Even the most confident of men have a support system

You gotta do it yourself and find your way:yeshrug:

Your comfort zone is your enemy...

Go to the clubs dolo and build a rhythm

Say no to fat bytches:mjcry:
 

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-I stopped limiting my happiness & worth by other people's expectations. My happiness & the bar I aim for is whatever I decide so I have no limitations.
-It's not really self esteem itself but mental freedom can take away the stress/pressure that lowers self esteem.
 

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Work on your body
Work on your brain
Improve “you”
Also discovering that the things you’re afraid of are the things you should be doing
 

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Just keep repeating positive affirmations to yourself and start openly talking about how great you are, then at some point you’ll simply believe it. It will become true.

People gonna be annoyed by you though but fukk ‘em.
 

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I know this is an unpopular thing to say on the coli, but most people don't have to work hard or do anything hard at life
 
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