How Do I Better My Social Skills

GrindtooFilthy

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you might not have shyt to say because you spend all your time doing worthless stuff. if this is true, read more novels, learn a skill, and get some life experience somewhere
not really

getting a B.Sc in Engineering
starting up a dj company
music produciotn as a side hustle and a hobby
read 48 laws of power and few other books
traveled at good chunk of the world at 13

i'm just one of those people who don't see a need talk unless it's important :yeshrug:
 

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not really

getting a B.Sc in Engineering
starting up a dj company
music produciotn as a side hustle and a hobby
read 48 laws of power and few other books
traveled at good chunk of the world at 13

i'm just one of those people who don't see a need talk unless it's important :yeshrug:
that's a really good CV then, except for that 48 laws of power nonsense. you should read better stuff, but that's neither here nor there.

it doesn't hurt to be nice :yeshrug: you dont have to carry on long conversations in doing this. it goes a long way professionally, i think, and that seems to be where you're focused
 

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that's a really good CV then, except for that 48 laws of power nonsense. you should read better stuff, but that's neither here nor there.

it doesn't hurt to be nice :yeshrug: you dont have to carry on long conversations in doing this. it goes a long way professionally, i think, and that seems to be where you're focused
that's probably where part of my problem is, people used to pick on me when i was younger that i just completely tuned myself out of the world as i grew older

so if i see a person i don't know or i am not close with i don't bother saying shyt to them, in hindsight that probably is assholish because i used that as i reason to not go out of my way for people who wouldn't go out of there way for me

like i will never say hi first unless we're good friends or on good terms but if the other person said hi first regardless of our status i would still return the gesture and acknowledge them
 

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Learn to not give a fukk how you will be perceived! Only in that way you will open up and come to find out you have alot more in common with people then you think.
 

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yo people told me i keep it too REAL sometimes:sadcam:
fukk them. I'm just a stranger on the internet but in the long run I've found that only the fake or complacent say "too real". Do you. As long as you can network with the folks that matter to you growing, you're fine. Cut the bullshyt.
 

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that's probably where part of my problem is, people used to pick on me when i was younger that i just completely tuned myself out of the world as i grew older

so if i see a person i don't know or i am not close with i don't bother saying shyt to them, in hindsight that probably is assholish because i used that as i reason to not go out of my way for people who wouldn't go out of there way for me

like i will never say hi first unless we're good friends or on good terms but if the other person said hi first regardless of our status i would still return the gesture and acknowledge them
im kinda the same way, i often remind myself just to say what's up and it usually turns out for the better :yeshrug: you never know who might go out of their way for you, and sometimes you just pay it forward for the fukk of it
 

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yo i fukkin hate being around and talking to people :aicmon: (except my loved ones)

but i know for a fact that i need to be social it's the only way i can get better work experience/job opportunities and make better friends and find down ass chicks

my social skill are lacking heavily how do i improve them

Go out and pick up hoes. The most fickle/flaky people in existence. If you can get good at doing that then your social skills are on point. It sounds stupid/ignorant but its real shyt.
 

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Here's what you do find a really hot escort, and just pay her to talk for a couple of hours. I rapidly improved my social skills using this method.
 
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