How do i raise my son to be a successful black man in america

[AAKing23]

You are a woman. Stop trying to turn your seed into the man you couldn't keep

 

[mson]

So someone asks for help on how to raise a successful black man & y'all insult her instead of giving her the advice that she needs? I swear I don't understand people sometimes.

A lot of people gave her advice.

 

[thoushallhustle]

being dark is a weakness? the self hatred...*sigh*

I never said it was. I do acknowledge that it is on some peoples eyes but im happy with the way I look. I have no plans on bleaching my skin or getting any work done so I just have to accept the way i am.

 

[thoushallhustle]

So someone asks for help on how to raise a successful black man & y'all insult her instead of giving her the advice that she needs? I swear I don't understand people sometimes.

Half these nikkas didnt have fathers themselves so im not suprised one bit

 

[IpushFatKids]

I never said it was. I do acknowledge that it is on some peoples eyes but im happy with the way I look. I have no plans on bleaching my skin or getting any work done so I just have to accept the way i am.

The odds are stacked againist you.

single
stripper
escort
a drug user most likely

give it up for adoption if you really know whats best for him

 

[Sierra Mist]

Half these nikkas didnt have fathers themselves so im not suprised one bit

Make a thread about real topics and get called a troll. Actually troll and be called a "coli legend."

 

[Tom]

hand him over to some white folks if you want him to have a better life

this is his only hope

 

[Houston911]

I have 7 months to get ready to be a single mother. I dont know how to raise a boy and I would just die if my son grew up to be a trick ass nikka. I dont want to raise some unconfident weak little punk that women walk all over, but i dont want him to be a uncouth thugged out type either. How do I raise a intelligent confident yet humble non chauvanist non self hating black man? I want my son to turn out like that twan83 guy or suburbanpimp theres some other guys on here i really admire but my mind is drawing a blank

lets start a family

 

[Broke Wave]

Heh. I'm very picky. I've probably walked out on more girls than I've seen because their face didn't match my expectations. I think it honestly fukks up some working girls' confidence. I've had a few call me as soon as I leave, offering discounts, saying that's never happened to them before.

Why not use this knowledge of the female psyche to bag women for free

 

[PimpHandStrong]

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8cHDzuOPgW8"]This Can't be life[/ame]

And the only real response she got she didn't even respond to...

 

[J_rock]

I commend you from for trying to gain knowledge on raising your child. I do wish you the best in motherhood and hope the child turn into the best potential they could be. There are many factors to having great kids.

Some areas to focus on:
a) Togetherness as a family unit – try to keep parents intact and be good examples as parents
b) Non-dysfunctional family – even in togetherness as a family unit be functional as a unit, be mutually respecfully, treat and take care of each other
c) Male and Female role models – be what your kids should aspire to be or what your kids should look up to
d) Financial stability – be stable for the child with spending discretion on the child, don’t overspend but do cautiously spoil the child, teach financial responsibility to the child early (Allowance), what credit history is, budgeting, etc
e) Spirituality – be grounded in a high power, teach the kids also to be grounded
f) Parent Managers – set some ambitious goals for the kids– they could be the next movie/sports/music/child prodigy star, if you have the time, patience and dedication to craft…and then you and kid could also be forever financially secure  - kinda selfish goal  that’s how dangote, robert johnson, barrack made it, but do make sure they still have a childhood and not over pampered over their bros/sis, fast forward their awareness a few years ahead...you could give them a books/opportunities early to jump start their progress
g) Health – research/if wanted get them immunization, get good insurance, eat good calorie friendly foods, find good pediatric doctors
h) Village – be in a supportive community/area
i) Self-worth – teach non-slave black history
j) Education – recommend educational degree (college degree minimum) also advocate their passion for them to be educated but start their own businesses
k) Friends – tell them to be non-judgmental but choose wisely when befriending/running with a crew
l) Mental – be cautious from sign around illness and work to naturally to be whole
m) Assertiveness/Leader/ppl reader
n) Grooming/Appearance
o) Interaction with family, friends, community

Some day-to-day tips
a) Be loving
b) Listen to kids
c) Teach consistency
d) Be a good example
e) Give clear, timed, simple directions for everyday tasks
f) Don't reprimand him harshly for something he's been allowed to do.
g) Always speak well of his pop. (No faces, sighs, impatience, etc.)
h) When older, he doesnt have to work 2x as hard, he just gotta work smarter
i) Some Daily routine: pray, eating, homework, bath, teeth, room, sports/reading, story, pray, bed.

You actually took the time to write out an essay for this dumb bytch of a slut?

Does a woman whose idea of a career backup plan is to become a dominatrix or start her own escort agency seem like the type to heed good advice?

Her son (or whatever it is she has inside her womb), is doomed. A correctional facility somewhere is already processing his paperwork and getting his prison cell ready.

 

[Donald J Trump]

You actually took the time to write out an essay for this dumb bytch of a slut?

Her son (or whatever it is she has inside her womb), is doomed. A correctional facility somewhere is already processing his paperwork and getting his prison cell ready.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Yall talk about me being a prostitute way more than I do. I made one thread like 20 years ago. Just like yall still talk about that old ass twerk video. I be tryna chill yall wanna bring up old shyt

 

[KingHelga]

if you are black in america then one way or another you are losing.

 

[ThatTruth777]