"How do I tell my husband that he's boring and a loser and that I want to divorce him?"

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He isnt a perfect husband because he isnt a leader. He follows her leads and interests. She (like all women) wants to be lead by somebody who wants things for himself. She should be following him along on his life journey. She cant be made to feel she is the leader or even a kind of equal.

''alphas'' get cheated on everyday, B.
 

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even still there's a problem and the problem is that western culture and marriage do not mix.

The media we consume can poison a relationship in no time flat as western media breeds insecurity and envy of others.

A normal woman who witnesses a VH1 Kim K wedding can't help but want that and if her significant other can't provide that then in her mind all of his other wonderful qualities are greatly diminished. She will eventually begin to have feelings of contempt for him because she's consuming poison under the guise of "entertainment" non-stop.

Its so fukked up, especially if you want kids but want to avoid taking that L :wow:
 

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This is why religion is good for marriage

It sets guidelines and keeps your head clear enough to know that there is a hierarchy and that all problems can be worked out

The point of marriage ...is to have someone to work with these types of problems with you

This bytch is clearly missing something in her life and is searching for it in the wrong place

She needs a therapist and some spiritual healing
 

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She can divorce him and do what makes her happy. You guys will still be bitter, single and posting on the coli. Sounds like a normal day to me. What's the big deal :yeshrug:

If she stays, I'll post on the coli, if she leaves, I'll post on the coli.

The point of this thread, hopefully, isn't to shyt on women but to illustrate the large problem here which is western culture and people in the west not being satisfied no matter how much they have. There are women in the west married to billionaires and still unsatisfied.
 

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''alphas'' get cheated on everyday, B.

its not even an alpha thing im saying the guy seems like a bytch. Look how she is describing him, like she has bigger goals than him & a bigger mind than him.

That should never ever be the case.

How do you let your woman feel she is more ambitious than you? What self respecting confident woman wants that for herself?? She out here thinking she more capable of conquering this world than her man??? How can she respect him after feeling like that?? gotta be real bruh lol
 

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My advice...

Avoid women that need to be "led".

Don't get a woman that is economically lesser than you.

Don't get a woman that doesn't have the intellectually or emotional capabilities to achieve her own goals.

You will avoid all the fukk shyt...

Do what George Clooney did, cac held out until he found some International Human Rights lawyer bytch.
 

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its not even an alpha thing im saying the guy seems like a bytch. Look how she is describing him, like she has bigger goals than him & a bigger mind than him.

That should never ever be the case.

How can your woman feel she is more ambitious than you? What self respecting confident woman wants that for herself?? be real lol

To a lot of women...ambition is wanting shyt that they can't have...

To a man is ambition is working towards something that is within his grasp.

Plenty of women are ambitious...they just want a man to achieve their ambitions.
 

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This is why religion is good for marriage

It sets guidelines and keeps your head clear enough to know that there is a hierarchy and that all problems can be worked out

The point of marriage ...is to have someone to work with these types of problems with you

This bytch is clearly missing something in her life and is searching for it in the wrong place

She needs a therapist and some spiritual healing

A few years ago I was casually having sex with a very religious woman who happened to be married to the son of a minister. He went to jail for a bit and she clearly did not stay loyal. Her being so religious is the reason I separated myself from the situation because I started to feel deep feelings of guilt and fear of God because I grew up in a very religious environment.

It takes a lot of hard work to be in a successful relationship in the west because there are a lot of factors working against relationships.
 

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its not even an alpha thing im saying the guy seems like a bytch. Look how she is describing him, like she has bigger goals than him & a bigger mind than him.

That should never ever be the case.

How can your woman feel she is more ambitious than you?

Breh, I've seen women shyt on highly accomplished, rich and not ugly men. It shouldn't be the case but our culture is breeding this, regardless of the kind of man you are. They will always find a rhyme or reason that you don't fulfill their dream world. Its a crap shoot, russian roulette with western women with very little that can be done to mitigate their sickness....really you just have to hope and pray you don't cuff a fickle and delusional one lol.
 
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