"How do I tell my husband that he's boring and a loser and that I want to divorce him?"

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Breh, I've seen women shyt on highly accomplished, rich and not ugly men. It shouldn't be the case but our culture is breeding this, regardless of the kind of man you are. They will always find a rhyme or reason that you don't fulfill their dream world. Its a crap shoot, russian roulette with western women with very little that can be done to mitigate their sickness....really you just have to hope and pray you don't cuff a fickle and delusional one lol.

true

but

describing him as "super loyal" and the type "that wont find a new SO quickly" and if the relationship finished he would be."super hurt".

It sounds like a simp to me imo.

but maybe she just shytting on him just because, I hear you though
 

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Y'all in for a rude awakening

These chicks are going out from 18-26 getting fukked by the fun guy..the bartender..the promoter the DJ ..in threesomes etc and end up with some good guy provider 9-5 type dudes when they hit 28..she spend her whole adolescent youth getting her emotion spiked etc

Offcourse she is going to miss that excitement :mjlol:

Gmb

Non-simps already know it. Then when they get pregnant they try to run game like "A real man would take care of kids that aren't his..." :mjlol: No one stops to ask them why they didn't get pregnant by a "real man" first. We don't need an answer lol.
 

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I'm pretty sure I have never been in love with him. We got together when I was young because I wanted to be with someone and I stayed with him out of convenience. - I have always felt like I was settling - I think he's a loser with no ambition that doesn't work for what he wants in life. Which doesn't make him a bad person, but does make me not want to be with him. - I want to be with someone that makes me proud to be able to tell people "look, he wants to be with ME!". I want to admire him, be in awe of him, look up to him. Obviously no one is perfect but it would be nice if I considered at least some aspects of my lover admirable.
I shake my head when people say that every body settles. No, this is settling. This chick has no attraction or respect for this dude and has wasted her time and his time. A lot of people don't even know what it's like to have a chick/dude that's crazy for them. A lot of people think that anything below perfection is settling but people should at least like and be attracted to their spouse. This is a sad and pathetic way to live.
 

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If she stays, I'll post on the coli, if she leaves, I'll post on the coli.

The point of this thread, hopefully, isn't to shyt on women but to illustrate the large problem here which is western culture and people in the west not being satisfied no matter how much they have. There are women in the west married to billionaires and still unsatisfied.
What is the end goal ? Is there one? Is this a plea for people raising children to perhaps try to create less entitled offspring? Is it a call for self improvement amongst ourselves ? Not that I'm above idle conversation, but it seems that these types of convos are particularly personal to ppl, so what are we trying to accomplish?
 

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Y'all in for a rude awakening

These chicks are going out from 18-26 getting fukked by the fun guy..the bartender..the promoter the DJ ..in threesomes etc and end up with some good guy provider 9-5 type dudes when they hit 28..she spend her whole adolescent youth getting her emotion spiked etc

Offcourse she is going to miss that excitement :mjlol:

Gmb

That is because now days men are marrying known whores. A man marries a whore and the he is surprised that she acts like a whore? I see thread after thread on this very site where dudes are posting pictures of known ratchet bytches. Some dudes even talk about wifing those nasty things. :mjlol:

There are plenty of decent women walking around that are not and have never been whores. Dudes have to look for those ladies, but they are there.
 

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Just be straight up with the nga.
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What is the end goal ? Is there one? Is this a plea for people raising children to perhaps try to create less entitled offspring? Is it a call for self improvement amongst ourselves ? Not that I'm above idle conversation, but it seems that these types of convos are particularly personal to ppl, so what are we trying to accomplish?

these conversations are personal to some people here, it stands to reason that with such a large user base, there are certainly a few people who have drawn the short straw in relationships.

We shouldn't expect anything to be accomplished, I've never read a thread in the history of my experience on the internets that has resulted in some large problem being solved. we're here for discussion and expression, anything beyond those that come out of these discussions should be considered icing on the cake.
 

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its not even an alpha thing im saying the guy seems like a bytch. Look how she is describing him, like she has bigger goals than him & a bigger mind than him.

That should never ever be the case.

How do you let your woman feel she is more ambitious than you? What self respecting confident woman wants that for herself?? She out here thinking she more capable of conquering this world than her man??? How can she respect him after feeling like that?? gotta be real bruh lol



peep game tho



she's not asking how she can improve her relationship.... she's basically asking if it's okay for her to cheat because he doesn't get her p*ssy wet like the buff bartender she used to date in college:mjlol:





once a hoe, always a hoe. don't let their mental gymnastics fool you. #GMB
 

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I shake my head when people say that every body settles. No, this is settling. This chick has no attraction or respect for this dude and has wasted her time and his time. A lot of people don't even know what it's like to have a chick/dude that's crazy for them. A lot of people think that anything below perfection is settling but people should at least like and be attracted to their spouse. This is a sad and pathetic way to live.

I agree but the feelings of being crazy over a spouse will wear off....might be 5 years or it might be 30 but it happens. Thats why the foundation has to also have a friendship component and a business component. We are not reared like that in the West which is why physical attraction and excitement are always brought up in these threads.
 

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I agree but the feelings of being crazy over a spouse will wear off....might be 5 years or it might be 30 but it happens. Thats why the foundation has to also have a friendship component and a business component. We are not reared like that in the West which is why physical attraction and excitement are always brought up in these threads.

The person you decide to surrender your freedom to should have your best interest at heart.

Most women don't have her man's best interest at heart, she just want to see what she can gain from the relationship.
 

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these conversations are personal to some people here, it stands to reason that with such a large user base, there are certainly a few people who have drawn the short straw in relationships.

We shouldn't expect anything to be accomplished, I've never read a thread in the history of my experience on the internets that has resulted in some large problem being solved. we're here for discussion and expression, anything beyond those that come out of these discussions should be considered icing on the cake.
so idle talk basically. do u consider the GMB mantra as entertainment or actual life advice?
 

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The person you decide to surrender your freedom to should have your best interest at heart.

Most women don't have her man's best interest at heart, she just want to see what she can gain from the relationship.

Thats why you need to establish a friendship first to establish her intentions. Then you need to create common business goals to make her share your ambition. Not full-proof but its better than marrying a woman because you think you love her, she got a fat ass and a personality you can tolerate.
 
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