It's funny because one of my female relatives told me I'm too on guard and that I might turn a genuine woman away. I told her I'm just discerning and know how to see past the bullshyt. I don't care for what people say, I watch their actions and I know how to read people to the smallest detail. You simply can't get over on me. It's like reggae artist Barrington Levy once said "I'm too experienced to be taken for a ride".
The problem is is that a lot of dudes become too loving, too quick and act like devoted puppies and allow anything a chick says to gas them up. I don't know whether dude lacked ambition or not, but despite how "boring" he supposedly is, I bet if he was at least the type of dude that many women found attractive and could get a new partner tomorrow, this chick would want to work things out tomorrow. He could meet another "boring" chick, but just the mere fact that he's in a position to find someone else would make her think twice because she wouldn't want the competition.
Yes, some dudes in extreme circumstances end up committing that. Stronger dudes, learn from the experience, improve themselves, then set the world on fire. No woman should ever be the final chapter of your life. If you're going to improve yourself, do it for YOU because while someone may think you're boring, another person will accept and like you for who you are.
This guy obviously didn't read the warning signs from the beginning and was too head over heels in love. That's the problem. If he dropped her or at least checked her from day one, it would never have got this far.
If she isn't cooperating, she goes. Simple as that.
