NotAnFBIagent
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Y'all some hurt nikkas
How do people fall in love more than once?
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PabloEscobar
Banned
Have you ever been heartbroken breh? If you haven’t I sincerely hope you never have to. Although I maybe cynical towards relationships and love I still root for others to succeed where I failed.
MajesticLion
Veteran
Real life ain't a Disney movie. That's how.
It can be difficult takes many years to get over I know that's how it was for me.
PabloEscobar
Banned
Are you happier now? Do you still miss them?
Happier no i don't think I will ever reach that level of happiness again haven't seen her in awhile but we talk maybe once a month I will probably always miss her to an extent but I've learned to accept it over time. Sometimes shyt just doesn't work out I firmly believe you can only control your own actions so nothing I can do
Lootha VanDraws
'The Night I Fell in Love' is the GOAT R&B album
I'm a blincel (black icel). Never felt the love of a woman.God please let corona take me out....
This. I’ve fallen into infatuation and lust many times but I can honestly say I don’t know if I’ve ever genuinely been in love.because they don't know what love is. people fall into infatuation or crush and claim it's love
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PabloEscobar
Banned
I'm a blincel (black icel). Never felt the love of a woman.God please let corona take me out....
It’s somebody for everybody breh... you just gotta put yourself out there and keep you eyes open. Mutual interest breh use that it won’t steer you wrong.
You fall in love with what the other person presents as themselves, along with ideas about that person that you created in your own mind, that may or not be true.
While you’re peeling back however many layers it takes to see the real person, that love either intensifies or dissipates, depending on what you discover at each layer, and how it jives with your ideal of a good mate.
The process can be good or bad, but we’re always willing to go through it again and again, because it always feels good as fukk in the beginning, and we’re always chasing and trying to hold on to that feeling.
The newness.
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NotAnFBIagent
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We've all been hurt. Doesn't mean you stop living
PabloEscobar
Banned
Living no, stop loving... yes
you see how unnecessary and mislead you were. Defiantly made me grow for the better(or worse)
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
It means dont rely on other people for love & happiness. If you love yourself and make yourself happy, no one can hold that hostage or hold that over you.
The people who are most attractive are the ones who arent desperate. Those who have confidence that no matter how other people feel or treat them, they know they will be alright because they can provide themselves with happiness and fulfillment. When they face rejection, they are grateful because they know it's just redirection. It just wasnt meant for them.
You've probably heard it as: Be your own love. Reparent yourself. Be your own #1 fan. Treat yourself as you want others to treat you.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
It's ok to grieve a loss. Learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. Change is the only constant in this world. You're just readjusting to life without her in that role. Things will get better when you let go, stop resisting it and adapt to your new environment.That’s what I’ve been trying to do. I keep telling myself that the love is was giving her I’m going to give to myself. But I ALWAYS still end up missing her after everything I went through. That shyt I was giving her was unconditional I would’ve died for shorty