sad thing is he's not... it's hard to imagine if you don't know people like this
some people don't budget shyt... i make 60k.. after taxes and medical, dental, vision, 401k... my check is about 1500 every two weeks (i claim zero to get more money at the end of the year)
3000 or so a month.. some months i'll get a third check... but that's only 39 AFTER taxes.. and i can and will upload a paycheck if you don't believe me
well after rent (850), water (80 every 2 months), phone (100), car (400, just got a new one 600 now), insurance (175), electric (round number like 250, usually higher in winter), shyt like gas and food for the month (lets say 200 in monthly groceries, 200 in gas), credit card (put down 100 a month), adt ($60), internet ($80)
we at like 400-500 a month...
now i didn't go to school.. i can easily see money being taken for that... a kid.... good luck... a wife and a kid... might as well quit working
and we haven't even got to normal shyt like haircuts, clothes, a pair of shoes, go on a date, eat at mcdonalds for a 8 dollar large number 1, doing anything fun, having something go wrong and needing the extra money, gamefly, netflix, cable, etc etc etc
and you'd easily have "nothing to show for it" especially if you not writing that shyt down like i just did.. and you just swiping that card everytime, not paying any attention to your funds