How do women react when you take them on a first date for coffee or walk in the park?
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If we going to the park it’s centennial park cause its in walking distance to my spot, and cause I’m definitely trying to get you to the crib. Matter of fact, all the chicks I done took to the park, that was after they already been to the crib and shyt and been to pound town. shyt, and the only reason we hit the park cause I got a j rolled up 
But it will be after we got something to eat around here and I paid, so I am a gentleman 
And don’t get me started on Starbucks. I’m gonna get a medium coffee. Women always getting this fancy ass shyt smh. How that shyt cost $8.73 smh. But again, Starbucks a block up from the crib. If I’m at Starbucks with a shorty please believe she done been to the crib before. I date in reverse. bytch we gon start hitting shyt after I been smashing and if you cool and we vibing. Not the other way around. Anything else, yeah we can go get something to eat...in my neighborhood, while you over here. And we can hit the park, but I’m going to smoke weed and shyt then we going back to the crib
But it will be after we got something to eat around here and I paid, so I am a gentleman And don’t get me started on Starbucks. I’m gonna get a medium coffee. Women always getting this fancy ass shyt smh. How that shyt cost $8.73 smh. But again, Starbucks a block up from the crib. If I’m at Starbucks with a shorty please believe she done been to the crib before. I date in reverse. bytch we gon start hitting shyt after I been smashing and if you cool and we vibing. Not the other way around. Anything else, yeah we can go get something to eat...in my neighborhood, while you over here. And we can hit the park, but I’m going to smoke weed and shyt then we going back to the crib
bourgeoisie tall freak
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i usually meet guys organically/in person before going out on a "date" or whatever so they already know me enough to know to do something cool we will actually enjoy... like we already got past that first "meet and greet" session the day we met
the one time i went to a coffee shop, it was a blind date. and i was glad it was a coffee shop because he wasn't it and he probably felt the same. we had our drink and parted ways
tldr: i prefer to just meet guys in person, chat a while, then go from there so i don't have to do lame coffee shop meet ups
the one time i went to a coffee shop, it was a blind date. and i was glad it was a coffee shop because he wasn't it and he probably felt the same. we had our drink and parted ways
tldr: i prefer to just meet guys in person, chat a while, then go from there so i don't have to do lame coffee shop meet ups
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SadimirPutin
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Now every woman says "I don't drink coffee"
You broke nikkas ruined the coffee date
Too bad...
I like coffee and there are enough women that liked iced coffee to the point this is never a problem.
SadimirPutin
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Women still go for coffee dates
Anyone saying they arent are wildly misguided.
If the date goes well...hit up a food truck after...not one broad worth the time will complain
Piff Perkins
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It depends. Some chicks expect you to take them to a "nice" restaurant (ie Olive Garden lmaooo...) where they plan on ordering enough food for leftovers. Some are civilized and actually would like to go to a good restaurant, not the typical Olive Garden/Applebees bullshyt. Some are cool with a brunch date. Some like coffee dates. I feel like the coffee date crowd is smaller because that could be seen as a waste of time. Even if you go to a meh restaurant you're still gonna get to eat. What is there to do at a coffee shop besides drink some coffee and hope the guy isn't boring?
VertigoKnight
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I used to do dinner dates. Primarily as I like to try new food places out. But when you have a dry date and the in person chemistry is not there it's makes the meal less pleasurable. That plus I'd rather have a meal with someone I already know I'm vibing with so it can be more intimate and fun.
This year as the weather was nice I suggested we meet and grab a coffee and have a purpose walk or a picnic/park hang.
In fact a ton of women suggested the same thing meet for a walk or a park hang first date. And these are chicks that have very good jobs. No cheapskate shyt.
If we hit it off, we can arrange for drinks at my place or hers and or dinner. If a chick is either not suggesting herself or up for one, I know I can bush her before we even get to meeting up.
Restaurant Dinner dates should be a third or fourth date thing.
This year as the weather was nice I suggested we meet and grab a coffee and have a purpose walk or a picnic/park hang.
In fact a ton of women suggested the same thing meet for a walk or a park hang first date. And these are chicks that have very good jobs. No cheapskate shyt.
If we hit it off, we can arrange for drinks at my place or hers and or dinner. If a chick is either not suggesting herself or up for one, I know I can bush her before we even get to meeting up.
Restaurant Dinner dates should be a third or fourth date thing.
coffee dates are the highest level of first date for me. it's my default offer for any tinder/hinge chicks if they're not just coming straight to the crib. never had any issues with it at all.
as someone said, if she likes you/wants to chill with you, she'll be down, no question. I try to mix it up and try different cafes etc, but there's one cafe by me that I've met at least a dozen chicks at
as someone said, if she likes you/wants to chill with you, she'll be down, no question. I try to mix it up and try different cafes etc, but there's one cafe by me that I've met at least a dozen chicks at
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
If your romantic interest isn't just happy to be in your presence
There's a disconnect somewhere
You can just pick her up and go for a drive somewhere
This online dating culture makes human interaction microwavable and disposable
There's a disconnect somewhere
You can just pick her up and go for a drive somewhere
This online dating culture makes human interaction microwavable and disposable
Who cares what she wants? Personally, I always isolated a woman on the first date.Its just me, you, and these four walls.
Women who get upset over a stranger not taking them for dinner are those that are not use to shyt or listen to birds in social media for advice. Avoid them at all cost.
In what housing project you're meeting these women
In what housing project you're meeting these women
SadimirPutin
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Oh by the way...in any metro there will be high end coffee shops and a number of shops all aling the cost boujiness spectrum
So if its a case you wanna flex your pockets then coffee still fits that bill
So if its a case you wanna flex your pockets then coffee still fits that bill
It’s never been an issue, and a lot of women prefer something short and sweet the first time. Meet, interact, see how the chemistry is, then you can plan something for the 2nd date. Or if the vibes are good, you just extend the 1st date.
^^^coffee dates are the highest level of first date for me. it's my default offer for any tinder/hinge chicks if they're not just coming straight to the crib. never had any issues with it at all.
as someone said, if she likes you/wants to chill with you, she'll be down, no question. I try to mix it up and try different cafes etc, but there's one cafe by me that I've met at least a dozen chicks at
Never had a chick have an issue with it. Also never called a date. First, meet-up, get to know you, etc. Always framed it as something low risk for both sides.