How do women react when you take them on a first date for coffee or walk in the park?

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In LA you got to take her to a 5 star restaurant first date or it’s not going down :mjgrin:
 

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coffee dates are the highest level of first date for me. it's my default offer for any tinder/hinge chicks if they're not just coming straight to the crib. never had any issues with it at all.

as someone said, if she likes you/wants to chill with you, she'll be down, no question. I try to mix it up and try different cafes etc, but there's one cafe by me that I've met at least a dozen chicks at:mjlol:

I’ve taken a bunch to the same mini putt place :heh:

I swear it’s the ultimate way to find out about someone without asking a question
 

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I’m not going on no coffee date. I don’t even drink coffee.

I like going to bars for a drink. Nice ambience, plenty of people around and the liquor can help liven up the convo.
 

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I’ve taken a bunch to the same mini putt place :heh:

I swear it’s the ultimate way to find out about someone without asking a question

They know my face at the mini putt spot in my city.
:russ:

The chick at the check in table be like "This Nikka again"
:usure:
 

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Yeah, not for a first date breh. That's more of a time filler/waster once the first date jitters is over.

Can't go wrong with a fun downtown shenanigans with drinks and/or dinner later. Start at 7 and get to the drinks asap :mjlol:
 
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It depends.


For me myself - it is rather strange i'm sure.
You see, I don't like to drink coffee.
So we meet for coffee and she gets hers and I don't have anything.
I just sit down and watch her drink it to see if I like how she drinks stuff.

If she drinks funny, she's dunzo.

:mjlol:

You cant get a peppermint tea or something

exactly....get some tea or a frappacino or something

i dont drink coffee either
 

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I think they’re boring too. What kind of dates are fun to you?


I like activities or anything sports related. If we've been talking for a while and know each other, dinner dates are fine. Getting to know someone in an intimate setting like a dinner date is awkward unless the chemistry is undeniable.
 

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It depends.


For me myself - it is rather strange i'm sure.
You see, I don't like to drink coffee.
So we meet for coffee and she gets hers and I don't have anything.
I just sit down and watch her drink it to see if I like how she drinks stuff.

If she drinks funny, she's dunzo.

So your there on business? on your date? lol

A secure man can drink what he wants whats weird is going on a coffee date and not drinking anything and just staring at her drink coffee but do you breh :mjlol::hubie:

If you’re this awkward talking about dates :russ:

I wish you the best bro
 
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Coffee date plus a walk is always good. If you have chemistry, it'll show. Fancy date is when she's giving the puzzy or at least is basically ready for sex.

First date should always be low-key to feel each other out.
 

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Some women use dates for free food.

A lot don’t.

You should be able to weed those who are out before even meeting them in person.

I actually hate dates, because I want to fukk, it always seems unnecessary to waste time on a date. I’m not looking for a life partner.
 
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